Nangona abazali behlala bekhalaza ngobunzima bokuqeqesha abantwana babo, kuba ezininzi iintsapho, ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo kuyinto elula. Nangona kukho iingxaki okanye abantwana babonisa iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa kobungqina bamanzi, ngokuqhelekileyo, ekugqibeleni baya kuba ngamanzi aqeqeshiwe.
Iimpawu zokulungela
Nangona kunjalo, oku akusoloko kuyimeko kubantwana abanokulibaziseka kokuphuhliswa okanye ukukhubazeka, ezifana ne-autism, i-Down syndrome, ukulibala kwengqondo, ukukhubazeka kwe-cerebral, njl njl.
Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa banokuba nzima ngakumbi ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi.
Uninzi lwabantwana lubonisa iimpawu zokulungela ngokwenyama ukuqala ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese njengabantwana abaselula, ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 kunye neminyaka eyi-3 ubudala, kodwa akubona bonke abantwana abaneengqondo kunye / okanye ukulungelelanisa kwengqondo ukuba babe yimpu eqeqeshiwe kule minyaka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina izinga lokuphuhlisa umntwana, kwaye akusikho ixesha lakhe lokucinga xa ucinga ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi.
Ukubonakalisa ukulungelelwa kwengqondo nangokwengqondo kubandakanya ukukwazi ukulandela imiyalelo elula kunye nokusebenzisana, ungakhathazeki ngamabhanki angcolileyo kwaye ufuna ukuba batshintshwe, beqaphela xa unesigxina esipheleleyo okanye kufuneka abe nokunyakaza kwebilini, ekwazi ukukuxelela xa kufuneka avule okanye abe neentshukumo zokuhamba, ecela ukuba asebenzise isitulo samathambo okanye acele ukugqoka iimpahla zangaphantsi eziqhelekileyo.
Izibonakaliso zokulungela ngokwenyama zingabandakanya ukukwazi ukuxelela xa umntwana wakho ehamba ngokukhenkceza okanye enokubhukuda ngesibindi ngesibonakaliso sakhe, ukunyamezela okanye oko akutshoyo, ukuhlala ubomile okungenani iiyure ezingama-2 ngelo xesha, kunye nokuba nesiguli ntshukumo.
Kukunceda nokuba unako ukugqoka kunye nokuziphazamisa.
Imiba yokuQeqesha Ubumbanyo Abantwana abanezidingo ezizodwa
Abantwana abanokukhubazeka ngokomzimba banokuba neengxaki zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okubandakanya ukufunda ukufumana ubumbano kunye nokungahlambulukanga. Isihlalo esikhethekileyo samanzi kunye nezinye izilungiso zingadinga ukuba zenzelwe aba bantwana.
Izinto ezifunekayo zokuphepha xa uqeqesho lwangasese luntombazana, kwaye luncede ukunqanda ukunyanzelwa, luqala ngexesha lokuxinwa okanye ixesha lokutshintsha kwintsapho (ukuhamba, umntwana omtsha, njl.), Ukunyanzela umntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uhlawule iimpazamo. Kunoko, kufuneka uphathe ingozi kunye neephosiso. Qinisekisa ukuba uye kwizinga lomntwana wakho kwaye ubonise isikhuthazo esinamandla kunye nodumo xa uphumelele.
Ekubeni isibonakaliso esibalulekileyo sokulungelelanisa kunye nomgqugquzeli wokuqalisa ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi kukubandakanya ukungaxakeki kwi-diaper engcolileyo, ukuba umntwana wakho akahluphekanga ngunobumba obuncitshisiweyo okanye omanzi, unokufuna ukutshintshela kwiingubo zangaphantsi okanye uqeqesho lweentsuku emini qeqesho. Abanye abantwana banokuqhubeka bembatha i-diaper okanye i-pull-ups xa bexhatshazwa, kwaye uyazi ukuba zihlambulukile.
Xa usukulungele ukuqala uqeqesho, unokhetha isihlalo esiphezulu. Unokwenza umntwana wakho ahombise ngeentsimbi kwaye ahlale kuyo kunye neengubo zakhe ekubukeni iTV, njl. Ukumnceda ukuba afunde. Nanini na xa umntwana wakho ebonisa iimpawu zokudinga ukuhamba okanye ukuba neentshukumo zokuhamba, kufuneka umthabathe esihlalweni samathambo uze umchazele oko ufuna ukuba akwenze. Yenza isimiso esivumelanayo sokumenza ahambe ebhodweni, adilize iingubo zakhe, ahlale ebhodweni, kwaye emva kokugqiba, ukutsala iimpahla zakhe kunye nokuhlamba izandla.
Ekuqaleni, umele umgcine ehleli imizuzu embalwa ngexesha, ungagxininisi kwaye uzilungele ukulibazisa uqeqesho xa ebonisa ukuchasana. Kuze afike ebhodweni, ungazama ukukhupha i-diapers yakhe engcolileyo kwisitulo sakhe esinamandla ukuze uncede ukubonisa oko ufuna ukuba akwenze.
Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa
Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ebantwini abaneemfuno ezizodwa kusetyenziswa ubumbanyo rhoqo. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kubandakanya 'indlu yangasese ehleliweyo' njengoko kuchazwe kwincwadi ethi 'Uqeqesho Olukhungatha Ngaphandle KweeTywala' nguDkt. Charles E. Schaefer. Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho usebenzise ithuba lokusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Ukuhlala phezu kwamanzi kufaneleke 'ubuncinane kanye okanye kabini ngeyure' kwaye emva kokuqala ukubuza, 'Ngaba ufanele uhambe?' Nangona uthe u-hatshi, ngaphandle kokuba engagxininanga ngokupheleleyo, yinto efanelekileyo yokumthabatha kumbindi.
Ukuba le nkqubo ifuna kakhulu umntwana wakho, ngoko unokumthabatha kumbindi kangako rhoqo. Inokukunceda ukugcina ishati okanye idayari xa ihlala ikhweba okanye ihlabathi ukwenzela ukuba uyazi amaxesha amahle ukuba uhlale ebhodweni kwaye ukwandise amathuba akho okufuneka ahambe ngawo. Kananjalo naye unakho ukuhamba emva kokutya kunye nokutya okutyiwayo kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo lokumthabatha. Ukutyelela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaxesha ayenokusebenzisa ububungqina obuninzi kunye nokumbalwa okutyelela kwamanzi ngamanye amaxesha emini enye enye into enhle. Ezinye iindlela ezifanelekileyo ziquka ukulinganisa, apho uvumela umntwana wakho ukuba abone amalungu omndeni okanye abanye abantwana basebenzisa indlu yangasese, kwaye basebenzisa amazwi okuqwalasela. Oku kuquka ukubalisa into eyenzekayo nokubuza imibuzo ngelixa uqeqesho lobumbanyo, njengokuthi 'ngaba uhlala nje kwi potty?' okanye 'ingabe uvele ungene kwi potty?'
Ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukusebenzisa i-potty, kuyinto evamile ukuba abe neengozi kwaye abuye abuyele kwakhona okanye aphinde aphinda aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde asebenze. Ukuba uqeqeshiwe ngamathambo ngokupheleleyo, kunye nomntwana wakho ekuqaphele xa kufuneka ahambe ebhodweni, ehamba emzimbeni wendawo yokuhlambela aze adibanise ibhulukhwe yakhe, ahluthe okanye aqhube intshukumo ebomini, aze agqoke, angathatha ixesha, ngamanye amaxesha kwiinyanga ezintathu ukuya ezintandathu. Ukuba neengozi okanye ngamanye amaxesha ukwenqaba ukusebenzisa i-potty kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ingakhange ithathelwe ingqinamba.
Ekuqaleni kwindlela yokuqeqesha, ukuphikiswa kufuneka kuphathwe ngokuyeka ukuqeqeshwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa okanye ngenyanga kwaye uzame kwakhona. Ukongeza kwinto eninzi yokudumisa kunye nokukhuthazwa xa esebenzisa okanye mhlawumbi ehleli kwi-potty, imivuzo yenyama ingaba ngumgqugquzeli omhle. Oku kungabandakanya izitifiketi angayisebenzisayo ukuhlobisa isihlalo sakhe samathambo okanye itekisi elincinci, i-snack okanye ukunyanga. Unokuqwalasela nokusebenzisa ishadi lomvuzo kwaye ufumane unyango olukhethekileyo xa ufumana amanqaku amaninzi kwitshati.
Unokunika nokuphatha okanye umvuzo wokuhlala omile. Inokukunceda ukuhlola ukuze uqinisekise ukuba akazange abe neengozi phakathi kokutyelela ebhodweni. Ukuba uyomile, ngoko ukuvuya kakhulu kunye nokudumisa, ukukhuthazwa, mhlawumbi nokuba nomvuzo, kunokukunceda ukuqinisekisa ukungabi nengozi.
Izenzo ezintle zeZingozi
Olunye usebenziso oluncedo luyindlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha. UDkt. Schaefer uchaza oku njengento omele uyenze xa umntwana wakho enengozi kunye neentambo okanye inhlabathi. Le nqubo ibandakanya ukutshela ngokuqinisekileyo umntanakho oko akwenzile, ukumyisa kwindawo apho angahlambulula kwaye azitshintshe (nangona kuya kufuneka ukuba uncede) kwaye emva koko usebenzise ukusetyenziswa kwamanzi. UDkt. Schaefer uncoma ukuhamba ngamanyathelo aqhelekileyo okusebenzisa ubuncinane ubuncinane amahlanu, ukususela xa "umntwana ehamba kwindlu yangasese, ehlisa ibhulukhwe yakhe, ehlala ngokufutshane kwindlu yangasese (imizuzwana emi-3 ukuya kweyesihlanu), ephakamisa, ephakamisa ibhulukhwe , uhlambe izandla zakhe, aze abuyele kwindawo apho kwenzeka khona ingozi. " Kwakhona, nangona uzama ukumfundisa imiphumo yokufumana ingozi, oku akufanele kuthathe uhlobo lokujeziswa.
Nangona kungathatha ixesha kwaye kufuna umonde omningi, abantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa bangaba yimpu eqeqeshwe ngeminyaka eyi-3 ukuya kweyesi-5. Ukuba uqhubeka unengxaki okanye umntwana wakho unqabile, khawuqwalasele ukufumana uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
Ukongeza kwinqanaba lonyango lwakho, unokufumana uncedo kwi-Occupational Therapist, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho unokubambezeleka kweemoto ezenza ukuba kube nzima ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo, iNzululwazi yengqondo yabantwana, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho unqabile ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kunye noPhuhliso lweZonyango.