10 I-Snappy Comebacks kuMbuzo "Ngaba Bababini?"

Njengabazali bamawele, sihlala sisondela kubantu abangabaziyo abagcwele imibuzo kunye namazwana. Enye yezona zinto ziqhelekileyo malunga namawele - kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo umgca wokuqala wokufuna ukucinga-kubonakala ngathi iyona nto ibonakalayo. Ngaba ngaba amawele?

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Ngaba Amabhinqa? Ukuphendula njani nge-Snappy Returnback
I-Snappy Comebacks kuMbuzo "Ngaba Bafana Nababini?". © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Akunjalo ukuba sithetha ukuba sinobuqhetseba, okanye asiyikuxabisa inzala yakho. Kungokuthi sinokukhathala kakhulu ukuphendula, ngokukodwa xa ungumntu weshumi elinesine ukubuza ukususela ekubeni singene kwivenkile. Yaye ukuba siyazi ukuba umbuzo wakho wokuqala uya kuhamba phambili emithathu, kwaye sineminye imizuzu emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba zethu (ngokucacileyo iimbini) iintsana zibe ne-meltdown eziza kubhalisa kwizinga lika-Richter.

Ngaphandle koko, akunjalo? Hlola iimpawu: ezimbini iintsana okanye iintsana, ezinokuthi zingabonakali ngendlela efanayo okanye zingabonakali ngokufanayo, kwi-stroller yesibini. Omnye umzali, mhlawumbi umdlalo weempahla ezihlambulukileyo kunye neendawo zokutshiza. Qaphela umzekelo womzali: inzondo ephazambileyo, yokulahlwa ebuthongweni emehlweni akhe kunye nendlela ayigweba ukudibana kwamehlo; isethi emiselweyo yomlomo wakhe njengoko ehamba ngayo loo mlawuli ngokukhawuleza ngeendlela zokuhamba.

Ngoko usixolele ngenxa yokumncinciza yonke imibuzo, kwaye sivumele ukuba sihambe ngenye imini singaphendula loo mbuzo ogqithiseleyo ngenye yezinto ezikhoyo.

Cofa isalathiso esingezantsi ukuqala: Ngaba amawele?

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Hayi, babesithathu. Kodwa inja yadla enye ...
Ngaba amawele? Cha. Babesithathu kodwa inja yayidla enye. © Pamela Prindle Fierro. About.com 2016

Le ngxwaba endala - ndaqala ukuyiva ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabini edlulileyo xa amamawele ami ayingane kunye nenjongo yokuphepha "Ngaba amawele?" umbuzo. Ukubuya kwe-snappy kuza kubashiya abagadi beentlanzi kwaye mhlawumbi bayothuka, ngoko kulungele ukuyihambisa ngokumomotheka.

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Ewe. Ndifumene umntwana othe xaxa kwindawo yokupaka waza wanquma ukuwugcina.
Ngaba amawele? Ewe. Ndifumene umntwana othe xaxa kwindawo yokupaka waza wanquma ukuwugcina. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Landela olu khuphayo ngokubuya nge-wink. Umceli wakho uya kuphumla kwaye acamngce ngxelo yakho, kwaye yithuba lakho lokuthatha uhambo olukhawulezayo. Kuya kubayeka kumathrekhi abo kwaye bayeke bazibuze malunga nani lonke usuku.

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Iikho.
Ngaba amawele? Enyanisweni, sikhetha amaqhosha egama. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Abazali abavini abavini baya kuqonda ingqiqo emva kwempendulo ephenduleyo yombuzo othi "Ngaba amawele?" Emva kwakho konke, abazali beamawele bachitha ixesha elifanelekileyo lokungavumelani nembono yokuba amawele anamaqela kunye nokukhuthaza abantwana babo ngabanye.

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Ewe. Xa uThixo ebona ubuso obuthandayo, uyayenza kabini!
Ngaba amawele? Ewe! Xa uThixo ebona ubuso obathandayo, Ubenza kabini. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Ukubuya kwe-snappy kuyafaneleka ngokukodwa kwiimpembe ze-monozygotic (ezifanayo) ezinempawu ezifanayo. Yindlela yokubeka i-positive spin kumawele, uvuma ukuba intsapho yakho ibona njengentsikelelo ekhethekileyo, kungekhona inqwenela.

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Inye enye ihologram.
Ngaba amawele? Hayi, enye ihologram. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Ufuna ukushiya i-interrogator yakho echukumisayo ivakalelwe ngokukhethekileyo? Yenza ibango. Yitsho kakhulu imfihlelo. Emva koko slink away.

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Uthetha ukuthini amawele? Ndibona enye kuphela.
Ngaba amawele? Uthetha ukuthini? Kukho enye kuphela! © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Ngaba unokugcina ubuso obuchanekileyo? Yiloo nto oya kuyidinga ukuyikhupha le nto yokubuya. Unxininise ukuba kukho umntwana omnye kuphela. Ziqhelanisa zikhangeleke zididekile ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.

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Ewe! Ungathanda omnye?
Ngaba amawele? Ewe! Ngaba ungathanda omnye ?. Ikhredithi yezithombe: Getty Images

Le yinto ephilileyo yokubuyela kwiimeko apho umntu efuna ukuyeka ukuthetha xa uphakathi kweengxaki. Umzekelo, xa omnye umntwana ekhwaza imiphunga yakhe, okanye abancinci bobabini bayiphosa. Xa ujamelana neamawele ezililayo , unokuhendwa ukuba uzenze i-pawn, kodwa endaweni yoko, sebenzisa le ndlela yokubuya ukuze ulahlekise injongo enhle, kodwa nangona kunjalo, ukungahambi. Baye bakholelwa ukuba uya kukwenza!

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Enyanisweni, bazalwa nje kuphela.
Ngaba amawele? Enyanisweni, bazalwa kuphela-abafazi. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Yinyani, emva koko konke.

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Akunabo bazalwana abazalwa ngosuku olufanayo.
Ngaba amawele? Akunabo bazalwana abazalwa ngosuku olufanayo. © Pamela Prindle Fierro About.com 2016

Kwakhona, enye i-backback ibuya ngokuqinisekileyo (ngaphandle kokuba amawele akho enye yezinto ezinqabileyo ezinokuzalwa okuhlukeneyo ). Kodwa impendulo engalindelekanga ngokuqinisekileyo idibanisa umbuzo ngokukhawuleza kukuvumela ukuba ubalekele enye ingxoxo.

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Asazi ngokuqinisekileyo. Asizange sivavanywe.
Ngaba amawele? Asiyazi. Asizange sivavanywe okwamanje. Getty Images

Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuvavanya udidi lwe-twin (aka zygosity ), akukho vavanyo lwe-twinship. Mhlawumbi umbuzo wakho uya kucinga ukuba awuqondi kakuhle umbuzo. Kodwa uya kuqonda ukuba abazange baqonde ukuziphatha kwakho ngokungafuni ngokupheleleyo umnqweno wokuxoxa ngolu hlobo.

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