Ukuqeqesha abantwana ngokufundisa izakhono ezintsha ngokunyuka.
Ukwabelana yindlela enkulu yokunceda abantwana bafunde ukuziphatha okutsha. Yinkqubo yesinyathelo ngeyathelo esekelwe kwingqondo. Esikhundleni sokulindela umntwana wakho ukuba aziphathe ngokuziphatha konke ngokukhawuleza, ukulinganisa indlela yokuziphatha komntwana kuthetha ukuqinisa inqanaba ngalinye elincinci kwiinjongo ezinkulu.
Umzekelo, ukuba umntanakho akaze ahlambulule igumbi lakhe, ungalindeli ukuba ngokukhawuleza uqale ukugcina igumbi lakhe lihle kwaye lihle ngenxa yokuba uyamxelela.
Kunoko, sebenzela ukwenza ibhedi yakhe kwaye unikeze ukuqiniswa ngokuqinisekileyo ngexesha ngalinye ekugqityeni lo msebenzi.
Emva koko, xa ebonisa wena unokwenza umbhede wakhe ngokuqhubekayo, idilesi iqoke iingubo phantsi. Mnyanzela kwinqanaba ngalinye kwindlela de ekugqibeleni ahlambulule igumbi lakhe elilodwa.
Okanye, ukuba umntwana wakho elala embhedeni wakho kwaye ufuna ukuba alele embhedeni wakhe, ungammiseli kwigumbi lakhe kwaye ulindele ukuba isebenze. Qala ngokulala naye embhedeni wakhe ngemizuzu embalwa ngexesha lokulala kwaye ugxininise le ndlela yokuziphatha ekuqaleni.
Emva koko, sebenzela ukumenza ahlale embhedeni wakhe ngokwakhe imizuzu emihlanu. Qhubeka ugxininisa ukukwazi ukuhlala embhedeni wakhe ixesha elide kuze kube yilapho ekwazi ukuhlala khona ubusuku bonke.
Ukubonelela ngeendumiso ezininzi
Ukudumisa yindlela enhle yokwenza indlela yokuziphatha komntwana. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho enze imisebenzi rhoqo, umdumise xa usibamba ephosa into enokwenza udoti okanye ukubeka isidlo kwisitya.
Yenza udumo lwakho olucacileyo ukuze azi isizathu sokuba uyamdumisa. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Umsebenzi omkhulu," uthi, "Umsebenzi omhle ukubeka loo nto kwisitya ngokukhawuleza xa uyenze nayo. Ndiyathanda kakhulu xa ubeka izinto. "Oku kumenza akwazi ukubaluleka kokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo.
Sebenzisa Ukunyamekela Nokunyamekela
Nika umntwana wakho ingqwalasela xa eziphatha kakuhle kwaye engamnaki ukuziphatha kakubi , ngokude nje ukukhuselekile ukwenza njalo.
Ukuba ufuna ukulolonga ukuziphatha komntwana wakho ekuziphatheni ngokuziphatha ngokuhloniphayo, mnike ingqwalasela eninzi xa usebenzisa iindlela zakhe. Emva koko, ungamnquli xa engamhloneli.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba, "Ndiphuzise," yenza ngathi awuyiva. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa ebuza ngokuzithobayo, "Ngaba ndiyakunceda ukuba ndiyisele," mnike ingqalelo. Oku kumfundisa ukuba ukusebenzisa imbeko yindlela efanelekileyo yokufumana oko akufunayo.
Ukubonelela Ngaphambi Kokufundisa
Ukufundiswa kwangaphambili kunika umntwana wakho inkcazelo yento efanelekileyo kulindeleke kuye. Mfundise imithetho ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwiimeko.
Ngokomzekelo, mkhumbuze, "Kwindlu kaMkhulu, kufuneka sithathe izicathulo zethu xa singena ngaphakathi. Kwaye sisebenzisa kuphela iinyawo zokuhamba ngaphakathi kwendlu yakhe. "Ukukhumbuza rhoqo ngemithetho, kunye nezilumkiso malunga nemiphumo yokuphula imithetho, kunika abantwana ithuba lokuthobela.
Fundisa abantwana ukuba benze ntoni
Ukuba ufuna ukuziphatha komntwana wakho ukutshintsha, kufuneka ufundise ukuziphatha okulungileyo. Endaweni yokumemeza, "Musa ukubetha umntakwenu," mfundise into enokuyenza xa uvakalelwa ngumsindo. Ukumfundisa ukuba asebenzise amagama akhe okanye ukuxelela umntu omdala xa ehluthayo kunokuba yinto eninzi yokwenza ezinye izakhono.
Xa ubumba indlela yokuziphatha komntwana, gcina ugxininiso ekuziphatheni okufunayo njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Umzekelo, xelela umntwana wakho, "Hamba ngoxa sisesevenkile," kunokuthi, "Musa ukugijima." Xa abantwana beva ukuziphatha okufunayo, banokukhunjulwa kakhulu kwaye uya kuqalisa ukudibanisa kwisitoreji ngokuhamba.
Nika Iziphumo Zengqiqo
Imiphumo engqiqweni ihambelana ngqo nokungaziphathi kakuhle kwaye ingaba yinto ebonakalayo ekuphatheni indlela yokuziphatha. Ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho aqale ukuzithatha emva kwakhe, thatha ilungelo lakhe lokudlala kunye nemidlalo ayithathayo. Oku ngokukhawuleza kumfundisa ukuba kufuneka aqale ukuthayatha emva kwakhe ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka edlala ngeemidlalo zakhe.
Yenza inkqubo yoNcedo
Ukuba usebenza kwindlela entsha yokuziphatha , inkqubo yovulo yindlela enhle yokuqala ukulolonga ukuziphatha. Ungalindelanga ukuphelela. Esikhundleni saloo, buyisa umlinganiselo othile wokugqibela.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho abe othobelekileyo, ungatsho ukuba kufuneka ahambisane nayo yonke into iveki epheleleyo ngaphambi kokuba athole umvuzo. Endaweni yoko, qwalasela inkqubo yecandelo loqoqosho apho angakwazi ukufumana amathokheni rhoqo xa ehambelana.
Ekuqaleni, ukuba uyagubungela amehlo okanye aphendule kodwa usenza oko ucela, mnike umvuzo. Emva kwexesha, yenza kube nzima ukufumana umvuzo. Kodwa ekuqaleni, umvuzo amanyathelo amancinci kumsebenzi ofuna ukuwujonga.