Indlela efanelekileyo yokulawula iingxaki zokuziphatha.
Ukuthabatha amalungelo kunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuqeqesha . Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba amalungelo kufuneka azuze, kwaye awanelungelo lokufumana.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba amalungelo awunalo ukubandakanya izinto ezibiza okanye izinto ezingaphezulu. Kunoko, amalungelo angabandakanya nantoni na kwixesha lokubukela iTV okanye ithuba lokuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo.
Kukho ezinye izinto onokuzenza ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ususe ilungelo liyimpumelelo yomntwana wakho.
Khetha Ilungelo Lokususwa
Xa umntwana wakho ephula imithetho, khetha elinye ilungelo lokususa. Ukuba uthabatha ilungelo ongeyinyamekeleyo ngumntwana wakho, akuyi kuba ngumphumo ongalunganga . Ngoko kubalulekile ukukhetha into eyoyikhathaza ngokwenene umntwana wakho.
Ngexa kunjalo, umntwana omnye unokuchaphazeleka ngokulahlekelwa kweemidlalo zakhe, omnye umntwana akanakunakhathazeka nje nje xa ebuka iTV. Cinga ngenyameko malunga neliphi ilungelo elithetha ininzi kumntwana wakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukulahlekelwa lilungelo lingaba ngumphumo onengqiqo . Ngokomzekelo, ukuba intombazana ihamba kunye nabahlobo bakhe kwaye engabuyi ekhaya ngexesha, thintela ukukwazi ukutyelela nabahlobo bakhe.
Ukuba usebenza ngxaki ethile yokuziphatha, chaza umphumo wokuphula umthetho phambi kwexesha. Yithi, "Ukuba awuhambanga izikhokelo kwivenkile namhlanje, awukwazi ukukhwela ibhayisikili yakho namhlanje."
Setha ixesha elide
Yenza kucace indlela umntwana wakho angafumana ngayo amalungelo akhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iiyure ezingama-24 zanele ixesha lokuba umntwana afunde isifundo sobomi esibalulekileyo.
Kodwa, kunokubakho amaxesha kunengqiqo ukudala umgca wendlela esekelwe kwimpumelelo yomntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, tshela, "Xa uhlamba igumbi lakho kwaye uligcine lihlambulukile iintsuku ezintathu ungabuya umnxeba wakho."
Gwema ukunikezela ixesha elichazayo njengokuba, "Unakho ukubuyisela ikhompyutheni yakho xa ndiyakuthemba kwakhona," okanye "Ndiza kukunika amathoyizi akho xa uqala ukuziphatha." Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba amanyathelo amele athathe ukuthatha ilungelo lakhe.
Qinisekisa kwimida yakho
Qinisekisa ukuba awuyi kunika xa umntwana wakho ebetha, emhlophe, okanye ekhononda. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuqinisa ezo ziphatha kakubi. Qinisekisa ngesiphumo sexesha elichaziweyo, nangona kunzima ukwenza njalo.
Ukuba utshela umntwana wakho ukuba ulahlekelwe ilungelo lokuya kumdaniso wesikolo ngoLwesihlanu, unganikeli ngenxa yokuba uqala ukuziphatha kakuhle. Unamathela kwimingcele yakho ukuze umntwana wakho azi ukuba unzulu kwaye awukwazi ukusetyenziswa ngokutshintsha ingqondo yakho.
Enye into ekhoyo kulokuba ungayithatha ilungelo elihle lixesha elingenangqondo lokuphuma komsindo. Ukuba uthe, "Andiyi kukuvumela ukuba udlale imidlalo yevidiyo kwakhona!" ukuvutha komsindo, yenza umonakalo othile wokulawula xa uxolo. Ukuxolisa kwaye uchaze umlinganiselo omtsha, othe xaxa.
Iingcamango Zokugwema
Gwema ukususa amalungelo amaninzi ngelo xesha. Musa ukususa yonke into kumntwana wakho. Isitayela esinamandla sokuba ngumzali sinokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho agxininise ukunyuka kwakhe kunokuba afunde kwiimpazamo zakhe.
Kwakhona, qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho akanakho ezinye iindlela zokufumana ilungelo olisusa ngalo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuthatha i-TV kusebenza kuphela xa engenayo enye indlela yokubukela imiboniso ayithandayo. Ukuba uyakwazi ukubukela iTV kwi-laptop yakhe, okanye unokufikelela kwimidlalo yevidiyo yakhe kwikhompyutheni, kuyona nto ingcono ukususa yonke i-electronics, kungekhona enye.
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