Qinisekisa ukuziphatha okulungileyo kwaye unqande ukuziphatha okubi.
Xa abaninzi abazali becinga ngemiphumo yabantwana, ngokuqhelekileyo bajonga ngemiphumo emibi, njengexesha lokuphuma okanye ukuthatha umdlalo wevidiyo. Kwaye nangona imiphumo emibi ingundoqo ekutshintsheni indlela yokuziphatha komntwana, nemiphumo emihle nayo isebenzise izixhobo zokuqeqesha.
Xa zisetyenzisene ndawonye, iziphumo ezintle nezimbi ziyakushintsha ukuziphatha komntwana wakho-nje kuphela xa zisetyenziswe ngokufanayo.
Sebenzisa imiphumo emihle ekuqinisekiseni ukuziphatha kakuhle kwaye unikezele ngemiphumo emibi ukuphazamisa ukuziphatha okubi.
Iziphumo Zomsebenzi
Bonke abantu abakhethiweyo bayakhokelela kwimiphumo emihle okanye emibi. Umzekelo, ukuba uya emsebenzini, uya kuvuzwa ngokuhlawula. Ukuba uyeka ukubonisa umsebenzi, uya kukhishwa-isiphumo esibi.
Ungaqala ukufundisa izifundo zakho zobomi bomntwana malunga nokukhetha kwakhe ngoku. Mbonise ukuba ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo, njengokukwenza imisebenzi yakhe okanye ukuphulaphula izikhokelo zakho, kukhokelela kwimiphumo emihle.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubalulekile ukunqanda ukuziphatha kakubi nemiphumo emibi. Ukuba uthe waphula imithetho okanye uxhaphaza, mnike umphumo ngokukhawuleza ukuba uya kufuna ukuwuphepha kwixesha elizayo.
Nika Umntwana Wakho Iziphumo Eziphumelelayo
Iziphumo kufuneka zihambisane nokusebenza. Ukuba umntwana wakho uxabela umzalwana wakhe amahlanu, kwaye uyamnika umphumo ombi kathathu, akayi kufunda.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyazi ukuziphatha ngendlela ehlaseleyo ihlala iziphumo ezimbi, uyayeka ukubetha umzalwana wakhe.
Iziphumo zisebenza kakuhle xa zikhawuleza. Ukulinda ade uTata abuyele ekhaya aze enze umphumo okanye uxelele umntwana wakho ukuba uya kulahlekelwa yindwendwe endlwini yomhlobo kwiiveki ezimbini aziyi kumfundisa isifundo.
Ukuqiniswa okufanelekileyo kufuneke ukuba kufike ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye umntwana omncinane umntwana, ngokukhawuleza ukuqinisekiswa kufuneka kube njalo.
Umntwana oneminyaka emi-5 akakwazi ukuziphatha ngcono xa kufuneka alinde inyanga ukuze athole umvuzo. Kodwa, unokunandipha ukufumana isitifiketi ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye ukuba uyavunyelwa ukuya epakini emva kokuba athole iimboti ezinhlanu.
Indlela yokusebenzisa iziphumo ezintle
Ukuziphatha kakuhle kudla ngokungaqapheli. Ukuyixhasa ngokufanelekileyo kukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi omhle.
Oko akutsho ukuba umntwana wakho udinga umvuzo obizayo rhoqo xa ekuncedayo ukucima itafile. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuqinisa ukuziphatha okuhle. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa zemiphumo emihle:
- Ngqalelo . Ukuthetha nomntwana wakho, ukudlala kunye naye, nokummkela kunokumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi omhle.
- Dumisani. Yithi izinto ezinje, "Unomsizi olungileyo namhlanje," okanye "Ndiyathanda kakhulu indlela odlala ngayo ngokukhawuleza kunye neebhloko zakho."
- Imivuzo ebonakalayo . Imivuzo ingabandakanya amalungelo ansuku ngemihla njengexesha lokubukela iTV okanye ingaquka ukufumana izinto ezintsha, njengehambo ukuya epaki. Iinkqubo zoqoqosho lweTokhe zinokuba iindlela ezintle zokuqinisa ukuziphatha kakuhle.
Indlela yokusebenzisa iziphumo ezimbi
Qinisekisa ukuba imiphumo yakho emibi iya kunqanda ukuziphatha komntwana wakho.
Umzekelo, ukususa iTV akuyi kuba ngumphumo osebenzayo xa wakho umntwana usebenzisa i-laptop yakhe ukuze abukele intandokazi yakhe ebonisa intanethi.
Kwaye nangona abanye abantwana bengaphuthelwa ngeTV, abanye abanokungaziqondi ukuba ii-TV zabo zikhutshwe. Imiphumo emibi kufuneka ibe yinkcazelo kumntwana wakho. Nazi ezinye iziphumo zemiphumo emibi:
- Imiphumo emihle . Imiphumo yengqiqo ihambelana ngqo nokungaziphathi kakuhle. Ngoko ukuba umntwana wakho wenza ukhetho olubi ngebhayisekile, thatha ibhayisiki lakhe.
- Ukungayithobeli . Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalisa ukuziphatha ngokubangela ingqalelo, njengentlungu, ukuhoxisa ingqalelo kungabangela umphumo omubi kakhulu.
- Ixesha lokuphuma . Ukubeka umntwana wakho ngethuba elifutshane kunokumvimbela ukuba angaphinde abuyele.
- U xanduva . Ukumisela imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo ingaba ngumphumo osebenzayo.
Gwema Ukuziphatha Okubi Ngengozi
Ngamanye amaxesha, abazali bayakugxininisa ukuziphatha kakubi. Ngelishwa, oku kunokubangela ukuba iingxaki zokuziphatha zibe zibi nakakhulu.
Ukuqwalasela, nangona xa kunzima, kunokuba namandla okuqinisa. Ngaloo nto ucela umnxila ukuba "athathe enye ilanga," okanye uxele umntwana wakho ukuba "ayeke ukugcoba," unokukhuthaza ukuba abo baziphatha baqhubeke.
Kungcono ukudumisa ukuziphatha kakuhle nokunyamekela ukuziphatha kakubi. Yaye xa umntwana wakho ephula imithetho, landela ngeempembelelo ezimbi.
Imithombo
> Ulungiso. I-American Academy yePediatrics.
> Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo ngokuMvuzo. HealthyChildren.org.