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Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala bafunda kakhulu! Ukususela ekuqeqeshweni kwamathambo ukulawula umsindo wabo, bafumanisa oko kulindeleke kubo kwaye bazama ukwenza okusemandleni abo. Abazali banokukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle ngokubeka inkqubo yokufumana umvuzo oqinisekileyo ukuba bafumane ingqalelo.
Kutheni Umvuzo Wezinto Ezibalulekileyo Kwabafundi Bokuqala?
Nantsi into malunga nabantwana bokuqala.
Bathanda ukwenza izinto ngendlela yabo ngexesha labo. Ngoko xa ufuna ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okutsha - ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi , ukwenza imisebenzi elula , okanye into efana nayo-indlela enhle yokwenza ngayo ukuseta inkqubo yokuvuza.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokuqeqeshwa, inkqubo yokuvuza yabantwana ayifanele ibe nzima. Inokuba yinto elula njengamacwecwe kwitshathi okanye amaqhosha okanye iiembotyi kwintlanzi. Naluphi na uhlobo olukhethileyo, into ukugcina umkhondo wokuziphatha kakuhle ngoko umntwana wakho uya kuqhubeka enza ngendlela ezayo.
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# 1 - Cacisa umxholo wakho kwi-school school. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale, khuluma nomntwana onokufunda esikolweni malunga noko ungathanda ukuba alwele.
Endlwini yam, kwakufuneka ndibe nomntwana oneminyaka emithathu ukuba ndikhuphe iifestile zakhe emva kokuba aye eyokuhlambela. Kwabanye, mhlawumbi zingaphi iintsuku ezingahamba ngayo ngaphandle kwengqumbo okanye kwisidlo ngasinye unako ukususa ipake.
Naluphi na ukuziphatha, cacisa okokufundela okokufunayo nokuba yiyiphi imigaqo yomhlaba.
# 2 - Beka imithetho. Kwimeko yethu, unyana wam unako ukufumana iimboti ezimbini ngethuba ngalinye ukuya kwindlu yokuhlambela - enye yokukrazula izambatho zakhe kunye neyodwa yokukrazula ibhulukhwe okanye amancinci. Kwakudingeka awakhuphe yonke indlela ukuze azuze umvuzo wakhe.
Thetha malunga nento ofuna ukuba umfundi wakho onokufundela ukuba ayenze kunye noko afuna ukukwenza ukuze uphumelele. Abanye abazali bathanda ukunikela umvuzo omkhulu - gcwalisa imbiza yebhontshisi okanye ufumane ama-sticker angama-25 kwaye umntwana ufumana umvuzo owongezelelweyo. Yenza nantoni na eyona nto isebenze ngayo intsapho yakho.
# 3 - Yenza inkqubo yokuvuza. Fumana isikolo sakho sokufundela esikolweni kwinkqubo.
Hlanganisa i-posterboard okanye ikhadibhodi, ibhotile, okanye nayiphi na into oyisebenzisayo, kunye namanqaku kunye neentsimbi kwaye uvumele ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala ahlobise. Ukuba wenza isati, qiniseka ukuba indlela yokuqhafaza icacile ngoko kulula ukugcina umkhondo wakho nawuphi na umvuzo umntwana wakho awutholayo.
# 4 - Zama ukugxila kwisimo esinye okanye ezimbini ngexesha. Unokuba ne-litany yezinto ofuna ukuba isikolo sakho sokuqala esikolweni sisebenze kuso, kodwa yinto efanelekileyo yokujongana neyodwa kwixesha elithile.
Ukuba uqeqesho lwamathambo kwaye usebenza ngokubambelela kwixesha lokulala , qwa lasela ukufaka imisebenzi yokongeza kwishedyuli yakho yokufunda esikolweni kwi-burner yangemuva.
Ukuba uninzi "ukwenza" kwiluhlu lwakho lokufunda esikolweni ungadideka (wena kunye naye). Inokukhokelela kumatshati amaninzi ahlaziya iindonga zakho (nangona ungasindisa imali kwiphepha lodonga!).
# 5 - Ukuhlawula imali ngokukhawuleza. Nantsi isitshixo kwinkqubo yokufumana impumelelo - kufuneka ukuba ifikelele.
Ingaba ukhetha ukusebenzisa isatidi esitiki okanye ubhontshisi kwintlanzi, qinisekisa ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana wakho enokuziphatha okujoliswe kuloo nto izitya okanye iimbotyi zisesandleni kwaye zilungele ukuhamba. Xa behamba ebomini okanye badla isidlo ngaphandle komsindo, bangabhalwa ngokufanelekileyo.
Uninzi lwabafundi abasebancinini abanakho ukuqonda kwangethuba okwangoku, ngoko ke ngokunikela isitifiketi ngokukhawuleza, uqinisekisa ukuziphatha kwabo kakuhle kwaye ubakhuthaza ukuba bakwenze kwakhona.
# 6 - Yiba njalo. Kwimifuno efanayo nje ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uyaqhubeka ukunikezela ngamabhaso. Yaye unganikeli omnye ukuba umntwana wakho akakwenzi ukuziphatha okujoliswe kuyo.