Kuthekani ukuba kukho indlela onokufumana ngayo uncedo olongezelelweyo malunga nendlu yonke ngelixa ulungisa ukuzithemba kwakho nokufunda uxanduva? Kukho imisebenzi elula yendlu. Ngokunikezela abantwana bakho imisebenzi njengokondla izilwanyana kunye nokutshaya phansi, ubathumela umyalezo obalulekileyo - ukuba lilungu elinika inxaxheba kwintsapho.
Nesizathu sokuba imisebenzi yeyona nto ingumsebenzi wakho kumntwana kunye neendlela ezilungileyo zokubanika zona.
Kutheni i-Chores ibalulekile
Ukunika umsebenzi wakho umsebenzi owenzayo unamanani amaninzi, kungekhona kuphela kwindlu yakho kodwa kuphuhliso lwabo . Xa abantwana benza imisebenzi, baqonda ukuba bancedisa into ebalulekileyo kwintsapho. Emva kokuba umntwana wakho osemfundela ubeka itafile kwaye ke wonke umntu uhlala phantsi ukuze adle, unokukwenza uxhumano lokuba wadlala indima ebalulekileyo ekulungiseleleni ixesha lokudla. Xa ekhupha iisokisi aze uYise abe nombini, umntwana wakho ufunde ukuba uncedo lwakhe lubalulekile.
Njengoko umntwana wakho efunda ukuba noxanduva kwaye aziqhenye ngomsebenzi wakhe ngokwenza imisebenzi, ngokukhawuleza baya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Ukunceda ngeenxa zonke kwindlu akuyi kuba yinto eyoyikisayo, kodwa into ayithandayo ukwenza into - into oya kuyixabisa njengoko ikhula kwaye iyakwazi ukwenza okunye.
Indlela yokwabela imisebenzi
Qala kumancinci.
Kulula ukuba omncinci athathwe xa ejongene negumbi lokudlala okanye igumbi lokulala kunye namathoyizi aphelelwe kuyo yonke indawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazi ukuba baqale kuphi kwaye ngenxa yoko, bagqiba ukuyeka, ukujikibala okanye ukugcoba ngawo. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Hlanza eli gumbi," kunika umntwana wakho umyalelo othile - "Nceda ulahle yonke imoto yakho." Xa lo msebenzi usuphelile, qhubela kwenye into.
"Umsebenzi omkhulu! Ngoku yisikhathi sokuthabatha iikhrayoni."
Xa ukhupha uluhlu lwemisebenzi enokuthi umncinane wakho, khumbula into elula. Abantwana abancinci badla ukunakekelwa okufutshane kwangoko kufuneka ufumane imisebenzi engelula ukuba bazalise apho bangayi kukhangela khona. Nika umntwana wakho into engaphezu kwamandla akhe kwaye mhlawumbi uya kudimazeka kwaye adideke. Kodwa ukuba unako ukwenza umsebenzi kakuhle, amathuba okufuna ukwenza okungakumbi.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ubuncinane ekuqaleni okanye ukuba umsebenzi unjengokuhlanza igumbi lakhe, ncedisa umfundi wakho wokufundela ngemisebenzi yakhe eyabelwe. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, umntwana wakho ufuna ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe, kunye nokusebenza nomnye umntu uya kunceda umsebenzi uhambe ngokukhawuleza. Njengoko uhlambulula, khankanya ukuba kutheni okwenzayo kuyimfuneko - "Sidinga ukondla inja ukuze ikhule ibe namandla kwaye ibe nempilo."
Uluhambo, Awuyi ndawo
Nangona umntwana oncinane kunazo zonke unokuncedisa ukujikeleza indlu. Khawukhumbule nje, esemncinci, ngumzamo obalulekileyo, kungekhona umphumo wokugqibela. Injongo yakho akuyikuba nomgcini wezindlu, ukuqhuba imichimo emihle ngoku, xa umntwana wakho ekhula, uya kuqonda ukubaluleka kokungena.
Ukuba ubeka umbhede wakhe kwaye kukho ezininzi izilwanyana, xhathisa umgudu wokuphelisa iifom. Uya kuthumela isigidimi esinamandla ukuba imizamo yakhe ayilungele. Kunoko, mdumise ngenxa yesilingo sakhe. Ngexesha, njengoko ekhula kwaye esetyenziswe kwisabelo, uya kukwazi ukucoca ubuchule bakhe.
Ukuvuza Umsebenzi Owenziwe kakuhle
Indlela efanelekileyo yokunceda umncinane wakho agcine umkhondo wemi sebenzi yakhe yansuku zonke ukudala ishati echaza iinkcukacha zemisebenzi yakhe. Ukuba umncinane wakho akakwazi ukufunda, sebenzisa imifanekiso endaweni - ukuba ufuna ukumisela umyezo , sebenzisa umfanekiso wokunisela okanye i-hose.
Emva komsebenzi ngamnye ugqityiwe, mnike uhlobo oluthile lomvuzo - izitikiti kwitshati okanye kubhontshisi okanye amaqhosha kwi-intlanzi ekwazi ukuhlawulelwa umvuzo xa epheleleyo.
Abanye abazali banqwenela ukubonelela ngesibonelelo esinokuyicinga nangona abantwana abancinci bengayiqondi kakuhle imbono yemali okwamanje. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhetha njani ukuvuma umsebenzi onzima womntanakho, qiniseka ukuba kukho indumiso eninzi echaphazelekayo - ukumbumbana kunye nokubanga kuxabisa izigidi kumntwana wakho.