Njengoko isikolo sakho sokufundela esikolweni sikhula kwaye sikhula, kukho izakhono ezithile zokuzinakekela-ukuhlamba izandla, ukugqoka, ukusebenzisa izitsha, phakathi kwabanye-ukuba uya kufuneka afunde ukwenza ngokwabo. Imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla yinto esiyidla ngokubaluleka ngayo abantu abadala, kodwa zizinto ezifuneka zifundiswe kwaye zifundiswe.
Qaphela : Wonke umntwana ukhula ngesivinini sakhe. Njengawo nawaphi na amanyathelo ophuhliso, ezi zikhokelo nje. Xa uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, umntwana wakho kufuneka akwazi ukwenza zonke ezi zinto, kodwa kunokubakho isizathu esihle sokuba kungenjalo. Ukuba unomuva wokuba ufundela esikolweni unokulibaziseka okukhulu, qha ga mshelana nodokotela wezilwanyana.
Indlela Yokukhuthaza Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Afikelele Kuzinyameko Zokuzinakekela
Nanini na ukuba umntwana wakho uzame into entsha, kubalulekile ukugxila kwindlela (indlela) kwaye akuyiyo indawo (umphumo). Ekuqaleni, umntwana wakho ufanele enze iimpazamo. Ingumsebenzi wakho njengomzali ukukhuthaza nokufundisa, kungekhona ukunyathela kwaye wenze umsebenzi kubo. Nangona iqhosha likhupha kwindawo engafanelekanga okanye i-snacks idlulela kwiphephethi endaweni yesitya, ukufunda ukuzimelela kuyindawo ebalulekileyo yokuphuhliswa komntu kunye nentlalo.
Ukugqokraza nokunyanzeliswa
Nangona isenzo sokugqoka kunye nokugonywa singabonakala sibuqili ekuqaleni, akunakudinga ukuba ulungelelaniso oluninzi, kunokuba unomonde omkhulu kwiindawo zakho zombini. Ngexa umntwana wakho ekwazi ukuthabatha izambatho zakhe ngaphambi kokuba azibeke, ikhono lokugqibela alisemva kakhulu. Okubalulekileyo apha kukuvumela ukuba isikolo sakho sokufundela isiqhelo senze rhoqo kwaye ugqoke kwiingubo ezenza umntu ofundayo. Oko kuthetha ukuba izinto ezinjengamaqhosha, ii-zippers kunye neebhanti zingaba ziphephe ekuqaliseni kwaye ziqaliswe njengoko iqala ukuyiqonda.
Ukwazi indlela yokugqoka kunye nokugonywa (okanye ubuncinci, ukukwazi ukukhupha ibhulukhwe phezulu nangaphezulu) luphawu lokulungele ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo .
Ukufunda ukusebenzisa izixhobo
Nangona umntwana wakho engabonakaliyo, ixesha lokutya linokuba ngamava "anomdla". Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 kufuneka abe nexesha elaneleyo lokusebenzisa iforki kunye ne-spoon (kunye neelase ibhotela ngoncedo), kodwa akuthethi ukuba uya kuthanda. Ngokwengqiqo kuba kulula ukusebenzisa izandla zakhe, kodwa ngenxa yokuba akanako ukuqonda xa kufanelekile. Ezinye ukutya zidliwa ngeempahla, kodwa ezinye (ingqolowa kwi-cob, iinkukhu zeenkukhu) azikho. Ukuba umntwana wakho esasidla ngezandla zakhe, mnike imfoloko okanye i-spoon uze uchaze ukuba ungathanda ukuyisebenzisa. Ukuba unenkathazo, mncede. Njengoko ephethe izixhobo, qalisa ukusebenza kumgangatho wetafile oyisiseko njengokuba ungadlala kunye nokutya kwakhe (into edlalwa xa umntwana edla ngezandla zakhe).
Ukuxhoma amazinyo
Ngelixa kubonakala ngathi umfundi wakho okhuselekileyo wenza umsebenzi omhle wokuxubha amazinyo akhe, yinto enokufuna ukuba yinxalenye yexeshana, ubuncinci de ube nantandathu (okanye nanini na xa udokotela wakho wamazinyo uthi kufanelekile). Kungabonakala ngathi unobantwana bakho bokufundela uhlambulula amazinyo akhe, kodwa ukuhamba ngomlomo omncinci kunokuba yinto ekhohlisayo, kwaye ekubeni unganakuboni ukuba uyena phakathi kwayo yonke into, kuyinto ofuna kuyenza. Sekunjalo, unokukhuthaza ukuzimela kwakhe ukuba uqhube phambi okanye emva kokukwenza. Misela i-timer imizuzu emibini uze uzame ukugxila kwimizuzu emine ukuya phezulu kunye enye kwizantsi. Ukuba umntwana wakho angasiphala kakuhle, sebenzisa ukulahla kobukhulu be-pear of fluoride toothpaste.
Ukuboleka Isandla NgeNdlu
Kukho imisebenzi emininzi elula eyenziwa ngumntwana onokufunda esikolweni ongayi kuboleka kuphela isandla kodwa uyongeze ekuzimele kwakhe kwaye umnike umva wokufezekisa. Abantwana abasencinane abasesikolweni banokuhlambulula amathoyizi abo kwaye bancede bahlasele phantsi, ngelixa abantwana abadala bebanceda ukuncedisa isilwanyana okanye balala. Into ebalulekileyo ukukhumbula ngemisebenzi kukuba ekuqaleni, umsebenzi wakho omncinci akayi kufezeka. Isiphumo asikho oko ukhangele apha, kunoko umzamo abanika wona. Ngelixa unokuba ulingeke ukuba uhlaziye amatya akho umntwana omnyamekeleyo, xhathisa uxolo kwaye udumise oko abakwenzileyo.
Ukusebenzisa i-Toilet
Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo (okanye ukufunda kwindlu yangasese) yikhono lozinyameko elona uninzi lwabazali belindele phambili kakhulu. Phakathi kweminyaka emibini nantathu yimihla evelele kakhulu yokuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi , kodwa abanye abantwana abayilungele kude kube bantathu. Amaninzi amakhwenkwe aya kubonisa ukhetho lokuma kodwa aqalise uqeqesho ngokuba bahlale phantsi. Umfana okanye intombazana, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukujonga iimpawu ezilungele ukufana nezikhokelo ezilandelayo kunye nexesha elide. Xa umntwana wakho esebenzisa indlu yangasese rhoqo (ukuba usebenzisa isitulo samathambo, uya kufuna ukutshintshela kwindlu yangasese yangasese), ungamangaliswa ukuba unobungozi. Kuthatha malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ukuba umntwana aqeqeshe ngokupheleleyo ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi (nangakumbi ukwenzela ukuba uhlale ubomileyo ebusuku).
Ukuhlamba izandla
Nangona umntwana wakho efunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese, kufuneka ufundise nendlela yokuhlamba izandla. Umntwana angenakho ingxaki yokuhlamba izandla xa ecacileyo engcolileyo kodwa angayenza umsebenzi xa ebonakala ecocekileyo. Chaza ukuba ukuhlamba izandla akugcini nje ukugcina izandla zakhe zicocekile, kodwa kunceda ukulahla iintsholongwane ezibenza bagule. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho afunde olu buchule ngokwakhe-awuyi kuhlala uhlala ujikeleze ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyayenza ngendlela efanelekileyo. Mfundise ukuba acule ingoma ngenkathi ehlamba (ingoma ye-alfabhethi ihlabe kabini imisebenzi isebenza kakuhle) kunye nenani elifanelekileyo lwesepha ukuze lisebenzise. Kuya kufuneka ukuba umfundise umehluko phakathi kwamathonjomanzi ashushu kunye abandayo kunye nendlela yokomisa izandla xa ephelile.
Ukuzilungiselela Ukutya
Awuyi kuvumela ukuba isikolo sakho sokufundela sifune amaqanda, kodwa kukho ukutya okuthethile okuboleka kumntu omncinci. Abafundi abasebancinci abakwazi ukwenza i sandwich phantsi kweliso lomntu omdala, ukongeza ukutya kunye neshizi kwisonka kunye nokusasaza kwi-condiment okanye ibhotela. Abantwana abakhulileyo banokufumana ukutya kwasekuseni ekuseni-bashiye amabhokisi okutya kunye nobisi kwishefu esifumanekayo kwifriji. Iintlanzi zingenako ukumkeleka, kodwa ziyinxalenye yenkqubo yokufunda. Mema umntwana wakho eze aze apheke kunye nawe ekhitshini. Ukuthatha ixesha lokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aziqhelise ekhitshini ngemisebenzi elula efana nokuvuselela kunye nokuthulula kuyakwandisa izinga labo lokuthuthuzela kwaye bawanike ikhanda xa bekhulile.