Ewe, unokufundisa unyana wakho ukuba eme endaweni yangasese.
Umbuzo: Ndingamqeqesha njani umfana?
Ndicinga ukuba unyana wam oneminyaka emithathu ulungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi . Ndingumama wokuhlala ekhaya, ngoko ndiza kuba ngowona nto ngokuyinhloko ukuba ndiyenze "umsebenzi ongcolileyo," ukuthetha. Umbuzo wam, Ndingamfundisa njani ukuma kwindawo yangasese xa kufuneka adle? Ngaba amakhwenkwe kufuneka afune ukuhlala phantsi? Ndiyicinga ukuba ndiqonda indlela inkwenkwe emele kwindlu yangasese ifanele isebenze, kodwa zihlandlo ezimbalwa esizizame ngayo, unemivuzo embalwa (kunye nezidlo) kwaye ndivakalelwa kukuba ndimele ndenze into engalunganga. Nawuphi na icebiso?
Okokuqala, vulela unyana wakho! Ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kukufezekisa okukhulu! Awuthetha ukuba umde kangakanani unyana wakho (kungcono ukuba afumane indlu yangasese ngokufanelekileyo), kodwa ivakalelo lwam kukuba ngoku, kugxininise ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kubaluleke ngaphezu kobuchule bakhe. Ngamanye amagama, ungakhathazeki ngaye emi, ngelixa efunda, makhe ahlale phantsi.
Kukho esinye isizathu esivakalayo. Isifundo sokukhawuleza somfundi - inkunzi yenkwenkwe encinci kwaye idla ngokubambelela ngqo. Oku kunzima ukuba baqonde kwaye baqondise apho umchamo uya khona. Yongeza ekubeni ufunda ukulawula umzimba wakhe nokuba yintoni lo qeqesho lobungakanani, kwaye kulula ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ukuhlala phantsi mhlawumbi kungcono kakhulu okwangoku (ndithembele, iindonga zakho kunye neepansi kuya kukubulela).
Ukufundisa Umntwana Wakho Ohamba Nesibindi Ukuma Uqeqesho Lwezolimo
Ukuba uthe konke oko, xa unyana wakho emncinci (kwaye mkhulu nangaphezulu), ukumfundisa indlela yokuma akukona konke okunzima kunye nento ekufuneka ayiphathe ngokukhawuleza.
(Kwaye ukuba uyilungile kwaye engakabi mde ngokwaneleyo, thabatha isiteji esingabiziyo ukuze umnike iintshi intshi ezimbalwa.) Okokuqala, makambukele uyise okanye umzalwana omdala (ukuba unayo) basebenzise indlu yangasese xa bevota. Emva kokuba unyana wakho ecinga ukuba ulungele, mkhuthaze ukuba amele, kumncede ahlawule ibhulukhwe yakhe, angene kwisikhundla (encike phambili phambili) aze amncede aqondise umlambo wakhe kumanzi yangasese.
(Oku kunokubonakala kucacile, kodwa nawe unokufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba umfana wakho uyaqonda ukuba ukuma kungomchamo kuphela, kungekhona ukunyakaza kwesibilini.)
Indlela abanokuyenza ngayo iinjongo zabo
Kukho imveliso ethile yokuqeqeshwa kwamatye kwiimarike ezikhuthaza abafana (kunye namantombazana) ukuba bafezekise injongo yabo (amancinci amaphepha e-toilet kunye ne-O ifom ye-cereal work well) kwaye agcine umchamo kwindlu yangasese engekho yonke indawo yokuhlambela. Ukuba usenokwenza umonakalo okanye unenkathazo ekuqondeni indlela inkqubo kufuneka isebenze ngayo, zama ukumyisa kwindawo yokuphumula yomntu apho kukho umthamo wobuncinci (jonga ithala leencwadi, ugqirha, ugqirha lomhla okanye indawo yokudlala). Ingaba izandile eziphambeneyo (abanye abaqeqeshi bamathambo abancinci basebenzisa indlu yangasese ngaphandle kweyabo ) kodwa ukuma komjikelo kwenzelwe amadoda kunye namakhwenkwe aphakama ukuvota. (Njalo nje emva kokusebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela, qiniseka ukuba uhlamba izandla xa ephelile.)
Enye inketho kukunyuka ngaphandle. Ukuba unendawo yangasemva (kwaye imozulu iyavuma) makumenze umntwana wakho asebenze kwindawo efihliweyo. Kungathatha iindleko ezimbalwa ukuba unyana wakho azenzele ingcamango, kodwa ukuba umntanakho ukhupha ngaphandle kwindlela enhle yokumnceda xa ekhuphe ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba uhamba le ndlela, ke, yenza ukuba kucace kakhulu, ukuba kucace ukuba akayi kukwenza naliphi na indawo kodwa yard yakho kwaye phantsi kolawulo lwakho.