Ngoko, ekugqibeleni uye wagqiba isigqibo sokuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukuphuma kwi-diapers ? Vuyiswa! Ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ubuchule obubalulekileyo obangela ukuzimela komntwana wakho nokwandisa ukuzithemba kwabo. Injongo yokuqeqesha yangasese kukufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba baqonde indlela abaziva ngayo emzimbeni ngaphambi kokuba bafune ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyikhumbula kukuba ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo yinkqubo kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuba neengozi , kodwa unamathela kule ndlela kwaye umntwana wakho uya kusebenzisa i-potty rhoqo kwiintsuku ezintathu nje.
Ngaba Umntwana Wakho Ulungele?
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba uthathe isisitye kunye nesitimela samanzi, kufuneka ufumane umntwana wakho azi kakuhle ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Vumela umntwana wakho eze nawe kwindawo yokuhlambela aze ambonise ukuba ngabafana abani na amantombazana akwenzayo. Uninzi lwaba bantwana banomdla wokufunda nge-etiquette yokuhlambela. Batshengise indlela yokuthutha yangasese kunye nendlela yokuhlamba izandla. Ingaba umntwana wakho ubonakale evuywe ukusetyenziswa kwamanzi? Indlela yesithathu yemihla iya kusebenza kuphela ukuba umntwana wakho usebhodini, ngoko jonga imiqondiso yokulungela kunye nokuzonwabisa , njengokuba umntwana wakho ekutshilo xa kufuneka athobe okanye athande; ekucela ukuba usebenzise i-potty; uziva unxungupheko nge-diaper engcolileyo;
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Uya kufuneka iintsuku ezintathu kumqolo apho uhlala nomntwana wakho.
Kubazali abasebenzayo, le ndlela isebenza kangcono ngaphezu kweveki ezintathu zeveki okanye ixesha apho unako ukususa usuku lomsebenzi ukuba ungeze kwiMigqibelo / ngeCawa rhoqo. Uya kuba ngaphakathi kwintsimi yeveki ngoko kubalulekile ukuba uzilungiselele ngengqondo ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi nomntwana wakho. Yonwaba nabo!
Ukuba awukwazi ukuvala iintsuku ezintathu, ngosuku lokugqibela, xubusha into oyenzayo kunye nomnikezeli wakho wokunakekela abantwana kwaye ubacele ukuba baqhubeke nenkqubo.
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Xa umntwana wakho ubonisa iimpawu zokulungela, zifake kwivenkile uze ukhethe ngaphandle kweengubo. Ukuthenga iimpahla zangaphantsi kunye nabalinganiswa babo abathandayo kuyindlela ejabulisayo yokubenza bajabule ngokugqoka inkwenkwana enkulu okanye intombazana enkulu. Kwakhona, ekubeni uya kuchitha ixesha elide ekhaya, unokufuna ukucinga malunga neeprojekthi ezithile zasekhaya ngaphambili. Oku kungabakho ubugcisa, ibhayisikobho, imidlalo, ukupheka, ukupheka okanye nayiphi na into eya kukugcina wena nomntwana wakho.
Ngaphambi kweveki elide
Ngenye iveki kusengaphambili, vumela umntwana wakho azi ukuba lixesha lokuthi "yihlazo" kwiidrafers. Ngokuxhomekeke kwintsapho yakho isenza isigqibo, le nto ingaba yinto epheleleyo, okanye i-partibye ekhethekileyo apho i-diapers okanye i-pull-ups izakusetyenziswa ngexesha lokulala kunye nexesha lokulala. Emva kokuba uqale uqeqesho, ngaphantsi kweengubo ziza kugqinywa ngamaxesha onke ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho elele. Ukuqeqesha xa wenza i-goodbye epheleleyo kwi-diapers, unako ukubala i-diapers eseleyo kunye nomntwana kwaye uchaze ukuba xa sele bekho abakho. Unokwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuba i-diaper enye ishiywe ngaphambi kokuba ulale ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba uqale uqeqesho lwangasese.
Yabelana ngenkqubo kunye neqabane lakho kunye nabanye abancinci, njengabantwana, abantwana kunye nezihlobo. Thatha iitshintshi (ingakumbi ukuba kukho umntakwabo omdala) okanye uhlale kunye kwaye uxhasane ngexesha le nkqubo. Kubalulekile ukuba bonke abadala babandakanyeke kwinkqubo kwaye ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese akuyiyo into eyenziwa kuphela komntu omdala kwintsapho. Ngokwabelana ngomthwalo, umntwana wakho ufunda ukuba kufuneka basebenzise indlu yangasese nabo bonke, kungekhona kwiimeko ezithile okanye nabantu abadala.
Usuku 1
Kanye xa umntwana wakho evuka, utshintshe naye ngaphandle kwe-diaper. Vumela umntwana wakho achithe ubuncinane ngosuku lokuqala oluza ngaphantsi.
Ngaphandle kokuba i-diaper okanye i-underpants kumntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukuqonda isidingo sokusebenzisa indlu yangasese.
Unokukhetha ukubeka ibumbi elincinane kwigumbi lokuhlala ukuze kufinyeleleke lula. Lo lukhetho lwabantu ngabanye njengoko abanye abantu bafuna ukugcina yonke imisebenzi yokuhlamba kwindawo yokuhlambela. Nika umntwana wakho iglasi enkulu yamanzi, ijusi okanye ubisi ngoko kufuneka ahlawule rhoqo. Yiba indebe engapheliyo encinane ekufikeleleni komntwana wakho. Nika umntwanakho uninzi lwamanzi kwaye ulindele ngenyameko iimpawu ukuba umntwana wakho uzimisele ukuzithenga okanye ukugubha.
Xa uqaphela uphawu, thabatha umntwana wakho kwindawo yokuhlambela kwangoko ukuze usebenzise indlu yangasese. Buza ukuba kufuneka bahambe yonke imizuzu engama-20. Unokuba ufuna ukusetha i-timer engama-20 evelele ukuze umntwana wakho azi ukuba xa i-timer iphuma, ixesha lokuzama ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ahlambulule izandla emva kokuzama ukufaka imikhwa enempilo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukuzama, unokuthi siya kuzama "emva kokuba uqhubekile udlala neetreni zakho" okanye ukuba abantwana bakho bayazi iinombolo, unokuthi "siya kuzama xa ihora likusho" 10 : "Yenza umntwana wakho azame ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese kuzo zonke iinguqulelo, emva kokucoca i-toy / izinto eziphathekayo, phambi kokutya okutyhutyha okanye isidlo sasemini, kwaye ngaphambi nangemva kwexesha lokulala kunye nexesha lokulala. Oku kuya kuba yinxalenye yenkqubo yabo yemihla ngemihla.
Sebenzisa iimpawu zokuzibonakalisa ngokomoya, ukuziphatha ngokuphathelele inkqubela yakho yomntwana. "Uthande kwindlu yangasese, yilapho i-pee ingowakho!" Okanye "ukhangele phantsi, ndincede ndiyihlambulule." Uyazi umntwana wakho kakuhle. Abanye abantwana basabela kakuhle kwimibhiyozo eyiphumeleleyo yempumelelo xa abanye bengakhathazeki ngqalelo. Abanye abantwana basabela kakuhle kwimbuyekezo xa umntwana wakho ekhuthazwa ngamacwecwe okanye ukuphatha amancinci, unokwenza isigqibo sokwenza isatifiketi somvuzo ukukhuthaza uqeqesho lwamanzi.
Usuku 2 kunye nosuku 3
Inkqubo yakho ngosuku 2 no-3 iyafana ngokufanayo nomhla 1. Abanye abantu bahlala ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwiintsuku ezintathu ukuqinisa inkqubo. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukuqhuba ngaphandle kwemisebenzi emfutshane ngemini yemini yesi-2 nangomhla 3. Ukuba uya ngaphandle, uye kwindawo yokudlala okanye wenze umsebenzi osondeleyo kwaye uhlale ukhumbule ukuzisa i-potty encinci kunye nawe xa umntwana wenqaba ukusebenzisa indlu yokuhlalisa, njengabanye abantwana. Lindela iingozi. Xa kwenzeka, vele utshintshe iimpahla zangaphantsi kwaye ungenzi nto enkulu. Yitsho nje, "siyi-pee kwaye sitshibilile ebhodweni."
Uphulo kunye nobusuku
Ingaba okanye awuyi kubeka i-diaper ngexesha lokulala kunye nobusuku ngexesha lokuqeqesha ubusuku bemihla yesigqibo somntu siqu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba kulula ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi ngokusemini, emini, nasebusuku; abanye baqeqesha kwizigaba. Ekuqaleni sasifake ukutyhutyha ngexesha lokunwabalala kwaye saqaphela ukuba umntwana wethu wayevumela ukuba unyana wethu agqoke ngaphantsi kweengubo ngexesha le-naps kwaye wayengenayo ingozi, ngoko sathetha naye ngaye kwaye wayefuna ukugqoka iimpahla zangaphantsi ze-naps. Ngobusuku, sisesezintlu.
Iingcebiso Zokuqeqesha
- Yenza umntwana wakho asebenzise indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokushiya ekhaya kwaye ngokukhawuleza xa efika kwindawo eya kuyo.
- Yenza utshintsho lweengubo kunye neengubo zangaphantsi xa uphuma.
- Tshela ootitshala bakho, ababoneleli bemihla ngemihla, kunye namabhinitters iimpawu zomntwana wakho xa efuna ukusebenzisa i-potty kunye nolwimi olusetyenziswa ekhaya ukwenzela ukuba ahambisane nezikhetho zakho (oko kukuthi i-pee, i-poop, indlu yangasese, i-potty, doo doo, BM, ukuthambisa, njl).
- Ukungabi ne-diaper yintswelo entsha kwaye kunokuziva ungonwabi okanye ukwethusa abanye abantwana. Hlala uxolo kwaye uqiniseke njengoko uxhasa umntwana wakho kule nkqubo. Uphando lubonise ukuba ukuphendula okungalunganga okanye isohlwayo emva kwengozi kunokudala ubudlelwane obubi kwindlu yangasese kwaye kunokuthintela inkqubela phambili, ukuze uhlale uxolo emva kwengozi kwaye ufihle nayiphi na ingxaki evela kumntwana.
- Kholelwa kwinkqubo. Kulula kakhulu ukuphazamiseka ngomhla wesi-2 xa umntwana wakho enezingozi, kodwa xa usenza loo mini 3 nangaphezulu, umntwana wakho uya kukubonisa ukuba uyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi.