Oku kunokukuphazamisa xa umntwana wakho esebenzisa ubumbulu ekunakekeleni kwelanga kodwa wenqaba ukwenza njalo ekhaya. Abazali abaninzi kunye nabanikezeli benkonzo yabantwana bayayiqaphela le nto. Kukho imiba emininzi eyenza ukuqeqeshwa ngombane kwi-childcare (okanye kumboneleli) kodwa iqhutyana ekhaya. Kodwa ungasebenzisa ezo zinto ukuphucula uqeqesho lwamazi ekhaya.
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Xa umntwana wakho efika kwigumbi lokufundela umntwana okanye umfana wakho ehamba ekhaya lakho, mhlawumbi kuneshedyuli eqinile kwendawo ngokukhawuleza.
Kwiinkqubo ezininzi zokunakekelwa kwezingane ezincinci, kukho umsebenzi uguqula yonke imizuzu engama-15 ukuya kwe-30 ngaphandle kwegumbi elikhulu lokuphambuka. Oku kuthetha ukuba nangona umnyango wokuhlambela uhlala uvulekile, kukho ikhefu lokupheka kunye nokutshintshwa kwe-diaper eyenzeka yonke imihla.
Ulungiso lwaseKhaya : Thetha kumboneleli wakho malunga nendlela abaqulunqa ngayo ikhefu lokuphuza kunye nokuqalisa ukunyanzelisa i-schedule efanayo. Khumbula ukubetha ezo zihlandlo ezibalulekileyo ezifana nokutya nangaphambi kokulala.
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Enye into yokuba abaninzi abanonophelo bafunda kwi-Childhood Practice 101 kukuba unokufumana umntwana omncinci ukuthobela ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo xa uthetha izinto ngokufanelekileyo . Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthe kumntwana omncinci, "Siza kuthatha ikhefu lokuphuza, kulungile?" Okokugqibela "Kulungile?" kunye nesandi sezwi lakho sibonisa isicelo. Abantwana abancinane bahlakaniphile ngolu hlobo kwaye nangona uneminyaka engama-2 okanye-3 ubudala banokuthi baxelele xa banokukhetha.
Ukuba, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uthi, "Sithatha ikhefu lokutyhutyha kwamanzi ngoku." Ewe, ungowokuqala. Yenza indlela yakho yangasese, "ngoko uninzi kakhulu ukufumana uxhatshazo. U-Ian uyazi ukuba ulindele ukuba eze kwindawo yokuhlambela kwaye akadingeki ukuba acinge kakhulu. Akukho sigqibo kufuneka senziwe ngokwengxenye yakhe.
Ilungelo lasekhaya : Musa ukucela umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukuhamba, mxelele ixesha lokuba uzame kwaye ulivakalise ngokuzithemba ngoko uyazi ukuba yilokho ulindele kuye.
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Ekunakekelwa kwimihla, abantwana abaselula banomzekelo womntwana osele eqeqeshiwe. Ukunyanzelisa ukunyanzeliswa kontanga, ukuba u-Ian wayesele eqeqeshiwe ngamanzi, uya kuba ngumntwana wokuqala okhethiweyo ukuba ahambe kwindawo yokuhlambela imihla ngemihla. Wayeza kulandelwa ngamanye ambalwa abantu abaqhelekileyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abo babesanda kuqalisa uhambo lwabo loqeqesho. Amaxesha amaninzi umqeqeshi omtsha onobumba angase axhomeke kwindawo yokuhlambela ukuze ahlalisane nento abahlobo bakhe benza ngayo. Kungathi ngathi ukuhlasela kwangasese, kodwa ukuya kwindlu yokuhlambela ngamanye amaxesha kwintlalo yoluntu, kwanabafazi abadala abadala. Kubantwana abancinci, kunokubanceda bazive bexhala kakhulu kwaye banokuqiniseka ngakumbi malunga nokuzama lo msebenzi omtsha.
Ilungelo lasekhaya : Thatha encinci yakho kwisitya sokuhlambela nawe. Qinisekisa ukuba onke amalungu endlu ayenza efanayo-abazalwana, odade, oomatshini kunye nabani na onokukhululeka. Ngaphezulu xa ebona wonke umntu ethatha inxaxheba kulo msebenzi oqhelekileyo, uya kufuna ukuthabatha inxaxheba.
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Umntwana wakho uneshedyuli, ulindelo. kunye noxinzelelo lwaontanga endaweni. Zonke ezi zinto zimbangela ukuba abe ngumdlali onamandla. Enye into yokugqibela yinkqubo ehamba kunye nokuhamba. Ootitshala abancinci banokuthi banokubambisana ne-pat kwaye bakhuthaze ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo. Thabatha ibhulukwe yakho phantsi, nyathela kwi-stool, uhlale ebhodweni, uphakamise ibhulukhwe yakho, uphucule indlu yangasese, uhlambe izandla zakho, uhlale ekhoneni lakho lesikhephe. Ngokugqithiseleyo, umnakekeli womntwana wakho uya kunika izi khokelo kumntwana wakho.
Le nkqubo iyafana njalo kwaye iya kuba yinto into encinane incike kuyo ukuyikhokela.
Kufana nokufana nokwenza amaqiniso okuphindaphinda. Ukwenza oku ngakumbi, bhetele ufumana.
Ekhaya, ngokuqhelekileyo kukho amaxesha amaninzi kwaye amava onke amava angathi ahluke. Unokuba usendaweni yokutyela okanye ivenkile okanye u-Aunt Michelle. Utata anganika imiyalelo yezwi kwaye umama akayi. Ngamanye amaxesha umntanakho angase ahlambuluke (njengokuba ngaphambi kokuhlamba) kunye namanye amaxesha angase agqoke ama-pajamas asebenza nzima. Ukukhupha ngaphantsi kweengubo kuluhluke kunokuba usebenze neengxowa zokuqeqeshwa ezilahlayo. Lezo zininzi eziguquguqukayo zabantwana abancinci kwaye zanele ukuba zilahlwe ekhaya.
Ilungelo laseKhaya : Gcina isimiso somntwana wakho njengendlela enokwenzeka ngayo, ngokukodwa kwiinqanaba zokuqala zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi xa yonke into intsha. Hamba ngendlela efanayo ekhaya njengoko usuka ekhaya. Ukuze usebenzise izikhombisi, khuluma nomniki womntwana wakho okanye uxhomekeke esikolweni ngexesha lokuphumla kwindlu yokuhlambela ukuze ubone indlela oqhele ngayo kwaye usebenzise inkqubo efanayo ekhaya.
Inkokheli Yakho Yomntwana
Wena ungumboneleli wothando olungenammiselo olungenammiselo. Umntanakho uthemba ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenza ntoni, okuhle okanye okubi, ekupheleni kosuku oya kumthanda. Ngaphandle kweemeko ezintle, akaqinisekanga ukuba unokubeka ithemba elifanayo kumboneleli womntwana. Oku akuthethi ukuba uyamoyika umniki-mpahla okanye ukuba umniki wakho umbeka phantsi kwesoyiko ukuba akayi kudla. Emva kokuhlala ezinzwaneni zakhe yonke imihla ngomnikezeli wakhe wokunakekela umntwana, xa efika ekhaya, unokukhululeka ngokupheleleyo.
Ulungiso lwaseKhaya : Akukho ngokwenene. Vele uhambe nayo kwaye uqhubeke uthanda umntanakho okanye xa enqaba ukuhamba ngenyawo okanye uhambe ngqo phantsi. Mnike umnxeba omkhulu, xelele kuye, "Ndiyibheja uya kuyenza ngexesha elizayo," kwaye umnike amathawula ephepha.