Yenza izinto ezilindelekileyo kunye nemiphumo
Nangona ummelwane wakho angavumela ukuba abantwana bakhe bagxume kwifenitshala, unokwenza isigqibo sokuba awukho kakuhle endlwini yakho. Okanye mhlawumbi abantwana bayavunyelwa ukuba baxake kwiibhotile kunye neepane ekhitshini lakho kodwa endlwini ka-Grandma, akunjalo.
Kubalulekile ukudala isethi ecacileyo yemithetho yasemakhaya ukuze abantwana bakho bazi oko kuvunyelwe kwaye luhlobo luni lokuziphatha lukhuni.
Ukuseka imithetho ecacileyo yindlela elula yokunciphisa iingxaki zokuziphatha nokunyusa ukuhambelana nokuziphatha kwakho.
Kutheni ufuna ukuseka iMigaqo
Uluhlu lwemiqathango yasekhaya lunceda abantwana baqonde indlela imithetho eyahlukileyo ngayo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, kungamkeleka ukukhenkceza kwindawo yokudlala kodwa akulungile ukukhwaza kwiofisi yakho. Ukuseka imithetho ebhaliweyo ifundisa abantwana bakho ulindele.
Isetyenzisiweyo seemithetho sinokukunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba bonke abanonophelo bekhasi elifanayo. Ingaba uqeshe umntwanana okanye u-Grandma uhamba ngokuya kutyelela, wonk 'ubani uyazi ukuba ulindele ntoni xa imithetho iposelwe ngokucacileyo kwifriji.
Imithetho ingaba isikhumbuzo kubantu abadala abazama ukubonisa imilinganiselo emihle yabantwana. Ukuba umgaqo uthi wonke umntu kufuneka athathe izitya zawo, uya kuba nako ukwenza njalo xa kubhaliwe kwiluhlu lwakho lwemithetho yasekhaya.
Imithetho ebhaliweyo inika abantwana ithuba lokukhumbuzana ngemithetho.
Umntwana unokuthi kumhlobo oza kumhla wokudlala, "Endlwini yam asivunyelwe ukuba siyanqamle embhedeni." Abantwana abayiqonda imithetho baya kufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba balandelwa.
Amacandelo ukwenza iMigaqo Yakho iphumelele
Hlala phantsi uze ucinge malunga naluphi uhlobo lwemithetho ofuna ukuyilungisela indlu yakho.
Emva koko, landela izi khokelo ukwenza imithetho yakho iphumelele kakhulu:
- Bhala phantsi uluhlu lwakho lwemithetho uze uwaxhomeke kwindawo evelele . Oku kuya kuba yisikhumbuzo esihle kubo bonke abantu ukulandela imigaqo.
- Zama ukunciphisa uluhlu lwakho kwiimithetho ezili-10 ezibalulekileyo. Awufuni incwadana yemigaqo-nkqubo yephepha eyi-100 echaza yonke into ekhoyo.
- ILizwi imigaqo ngokufanelekileyo ukuba unako . Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Musa ukuphosa iingubo zakho phantsi," zama ukusebenzisa, "Beka iimpahla zakho ezingcolileyo." Yenza uluhlu lwento "yokwenza" endaweni ye "into ongayenzi."
- Yenza abantwana bahileleke ekwenzeni imithetho . Buza uluvo lwabo malunga naluphi uhlobo lwezinto abacinga ukuba lubalulekile xa udala imithetho kwaye uzama ukufaka ezinye zeengcamango zabo. Inokukunceda abantwana bafumane imali ngakumbi ekulandeleni imigaqo.
- Chaza izinto ngaphandle kwemithetho. Ingaba iholide okanye imeko ekhethekileyo ekubangela ukuba uphule imithetho, cacisa izizathu zokuba uphula imithetho yakho kubantwana bakho. Baxelele ukuba uzimisele ukwenza ngaphandle kwemithetho ngamanye amaxesha.
Ukuseka iziphumo ezintle nezibi
Xa abantwana belandela imithetho, kufuneka kube nemiphumo emihle. Umzekelo, mdumise umntwana wakho ngokulandela imithetho.
Yithi into enjengokuthi, "Siyabonga ngokubeka izitya zakho kwisinkini. Unomsebenzi omkhulu ekulandeleni lo mgaqo."
Unokucinga kwakhona usebenzisa imivuzo njengenkuthazo. Ukubopha amalungelo omntwana wakho ngokuzithandela ukulandela imithetho. Makhe asebenzise i-elektronike emva kokutya kokutya xa elandele imigaqo ekubeni efika ekhaya evela esikolweni, umzekelo.
Misela isiphumo esibi esiya kumnqanda ukuphula umthetho kwakhona. Imiphumo emibi ingabandakanya izinto ezifana nokulahleka kwamalungelo okanye ixesha lokuphuma .
Xa kunokwenzeka, lumkisa umntwana wakho ngemiphumo engaphambi kwexesha. Kwaye ukuba uyaphula imithetho, cacisa ukuba unokukhetha ukwenza ngcono ixesha elizayo.