Ukufumana umntwana ongafuni ukuphulaphula umzali wakhe unokuba ngumva wokwenene kubazali, kwaye ngakumbi oobawo. Abantwana bavame ukubona ukuziphatha ngokuphulaphula ngokwembeko; "Ukuba umntanami akayi kuphulaphula aze ayibeke ingqalelo, kodwa kunokuba kubonakale ephazamisekile ngexesha lonke, luphawu lokungahloneli."
Inyaniso iya kuxelwa, akusoloko ihloniphekile. Kwakhona kwinqanaba umntwana ahamba ngalo njengoko bezama ukuhlenga ihlabathi labo kwaye njengokuba impembelelo yabazali iqala ukuxhathisa iminyaka yabo yokukhula.
Ngoko kunokuvakalelwa ukungahloneli, kodwa mhlawumbi kuninzi malunga nophuhliso lwabo loluntu kunanto nayiphi na into.
Ngaloo mbono, akunakukukhathaza xa umabonwakude, i-headphone, okanye imidlalo yevidiyo ibaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba unxibelelwano olubalulekileyo lomama kunye nootata.
Cinga ixesha lokunxibelelana kwakho.
Oomama bahlala befuna ukuthetha baze baphulaphule xa sicinga ukuba ixesha lilungile, kodwa kunokukunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukhetha ixesha xa umntwana ekulungele ukuphulaphula. Ekunene phakathi komdlalo okanye enye ingxoxo ingahle ingabi ngempumelelo ngexesha elide emva koko. Zama into enjengokuthi, "Ndiyabona uxakekile okwangoku; ngaba kuya kuba nekhefu kumzuzu embalwa xa sinokuthetha?"
Yenze ukuba benze okuphinda.
Enye into eyenziwa ngabayihlo xa abantwana bephazamiseka ngethuba le ncoko bacela ukuba baphinde baphike oko sathetha ukuze siyazi ukuba umyalezo ufumene.
Ukuphindaphinda emva kweyona nxalenye yenkqubo ebizwa ngokuphulaphula ngokukhawuleza apho umyalezo womntu ubalulekile ngokwaneleyo ukuqiniswa ngokuphindaphinda. Ngoko xa unethuba lokunxibelelana, bacele ukuba bakuxelele oko bakuzwileyo. Ukuxelela ukuba ubuyele kuwe kuya kwenza ukuba umyalezo ube lula ukuba umntwana akhumbule.
Zama ukuthinteka komzimba.
Ukufika egumbini lokuthetha nomntwana kunokuphuculwa xa ubeka ingalo ejikelezileyo okanye ubambezele ngenyameko ihlombe labo. Abantwana bathambekele ekufundeni ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye xa sisebenzisa imiyalezo yomlomo kunye nomnxeba ofanelekileyo, sinokuyibona ingcono ngakumbi. Ukunxibelelana komzimba okungenjalo njengobumnene kunokuba yinto engenakwenene xa uzama ukuthetha, ngoko qiniseka ukuba isicwangciso sakho sokuthintela sinobubele, sicinga, kwaye sithetha uthando kunye nentlonipho.
Ukuvuza imilinganiselo yokuphulaphula kakuhle.
Ukucinga okufutshane malunga nokuqiniswa komntwana xa benza okulungileyo kunokuba namandla. Ukuba udinga umntwana ukuba eze esidlweni sakusihlwa aze ayeke ukubukela umabonwakude, unokumvumela ukuba abe neminye imizuzu engama-15 kunye neTV emva kokutya kunye nangaphambi kokulala xa efika kanye ngaphandle kokukhononda. Ukunikela umvuzo omncinci okanye ukukhuthaza kunokuncedisa ukuziphatha okuphulaphulayo.
Khetha iimfazwe zakho.
Ezinye izinto zibaluleke ngakumbi kunabanye. Umzekelo, ulawulo lweentsapho lufana nokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ngaphambi kokuba imidlalo yevidiyo ivunyelwe. Xa udinga ukunxibelelana ngokukhawuleza malunga nolu hlobo lwezinto, kufuneka ufumane ingqalelo ngoku ngoku. Ukushiya ibhegi ngebhokisi le-peanut phezu kwalo kwikhiphithi yekhitshi, ngakwelinye icala, unokukwazi ukulinda ixesha elincinane.
Ukunika abantwana bakho ukunyaniseka kwizinto ezinjalo kunokubanceda ukuba baphendule xa kubaluleke kakhulu.
Hlonipha imfuno yabo yokunxibelelana.
Ukumodareyitha iipatheni zokunxibelelana kwentsapho kunye nokuphulaphula ngokukodwa kunokukwenza izinto ezininzi ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba aphulaphule. Okokuqala, ubabonisa intlonelo xa wenza ixesha lokuphulaphula iinkxalabo zabo, kwaye kulula ukuba babonise intlonelo xa beziva behlonishwa. Okwesibini, abantwana bafunda ngakumbi kwizinto abazibonayo kunokuba bazive, kwaye baya kulandelelanisa iimpawu zokuziphatha xa befunda ngokubanzi malunga nokuxhumana nabanye. Thatha ixesha lokuthetha xa bekulungele kwaye baya kuba nokuphendula xa usuke ufuna ukuba bakuphulaphule.
Unxibelelwano lweentsapho lunokuba yimiba enzima kunazo zonke abazali abanokujamelana nayo, kwaye kunokuba lula xa sinceda abantwana bethu bafunde ukuphulaphula kwaye xa sibonisa iindlela zethu zokunxibelelana ezilungileyo ekusebenzisaneni kwethu nabo.