Ingaba uneminyaka engama-5 ubudala ubeka ithoyilo ekunakekeleni kwesikhokhelo esikhwameni okanye umntu oneminyaka engama-14 ubudala eba i-nail polish esitolo, ukuqonda ukuba umntwana wakho webiwe into enokuyingozi. Kodwa isiganeko esicacileyo sokuba ngokuqinisekileyo asithethi ukuba umntwana wakho ulungiselelwe ubomi bobugebengu. Ukuqiniswa kunye nokuziphatha okungaqhelekanga kunokuthintela ukweba ekubeni ngumkhuba omubi.
Kutheni abantwana beba
Akuqhelekanga ukuba isikolo esikolweni sifumane izinto zabanye abantu. Kule minyaka, bavame ukungabi nokuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ukuba kuchaphazela abanye kunye nokuba ingaba yingozi njani. Yona ixesha elibalulekileyo lokufundisa umntwana wakho ngovelwano nokuba kutheni ukuphola kungalunganga ukuze afunde ukuhlonipha ezinye iimpahla zabantu.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engundoqo kunye nabaphakathi bexesha eliqhelekileyo bahlala bejamelana nokulawulwa komgudu. Basenokukhawuleza bafake into abayifunayo kwiipokethi zabo ngaphandle kokuqwalasela imiphumo. Fundisa umntwanakho ukulawula umfutho wokuthintela ukunqanda.
Abafundi abanezikolo eziphakamileyo nabasesikoleni esiphakamileyo bangaseba ngenxa yokuba "zipholile." Unokuba noontanga baxinzelele ukuba bathathe izinto kwivenkile okanye bathathe imali kwikhegi elingalindelekanga kwigumbi lokuprinta.
Ngamanye amaxesha, intsha iba ngenxa yokuba ifuna izinto ezintle ezingenakuzifumana. Ekugqibeleni, abanye abatsha bayaba njengeendlela zokuvukela igunya.
Kule minyaka, banokujamelana nemicimbi esemthethweni ukuba ukuba akuqwalaselwanga kakuhle.
Iingxaki zengqondo zengqondo okanye yengqondo nazo zinokufaka isandla kwiingxaki zokuziphatha ezifana nokuba. Umntwana onzima ukujamelana nokuqhawula umzali wakhe unokuqalisa ukwenza. Okanye umntwana ojongene nokudakumba angasebenzisa ukweba njengendlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo zakhe.
Iingxaki zendlela yokuziphatha zingabangela nefuthe, ukungabi nokuzisola nokuziphatha kakubi kuhambelana nokuba.
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Ingaba umntwana wakho ulethe izinto ezisolisayo esikolweni esithi uyisipho, okanye uthathe ukuba xa usendalini, indlela ojongene ngayo nengxaki iya kuba nefuthe lokuba uya kuphinda. Gwema ukuhlazisa umntwana wakho ngenxa yokuba iintloni ziyakwenza ukuphanga ngakumbi. Kunoko, landela ezi ndlela zokuziphatha ukuyeka ukuba:
- Beka ugxininiso ngokunyaniseka - Ukuthetha rhoqo ngokunyaniseka kunokuhamba ixesha elide ukukhusela ubuxoki nokuba. Nika njalo unika umntwana wakho umphumo onzima xa uthetha inyaniso kwaye anikezele indumiso emininzi nayiphi na ixesha xa umfumana ethembekileyo malunga nokungahambi kakuhle.
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahloniphe ipropati- Ncedisa umntwana omncinci ukuba aqonde ubunini ngokumenza abe nexanduva ngezinto zakhe. Ngokomzekelo, thetha ngokubaluleka kokunyanga iimatho zakhe. Yenza imigaqo malunga nenhlonipho ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uyabuza ngaphambi kokuboleka izinto. Xoxa ngokubaluleka kokunyamekela izinto ezibolekileyo nokuzibuyisela kumnini wazo.
- Ukubuyisela impahla ebiwe - Xa ubamba umntwana wakho ngezinto ezibiwe, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho abuyisele iimpahla ezibiweyo aze axolise kwixhoba. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ngokubhala incwadi yokuxolisa okanye uhambe nomntwana wakho ukuba abuyisele izinto ezibiwe. Kwabanye abantwana, ukuvuma nje ukuba bebiwe kwaye kubuyisela izinto kunokuba ngumphumo ophumelelayo.
- Ukubonelela ngesiphumo esinengqiqo sokweba - Ukubuyisela izinto kumnikazi ofanelekileyo akusoloko kube ngumphumo omkhulu ngokwaneleyo. Umntwana ohlala ethatha amathoyizi omntakwabo ozithandayo ngaphandle kwemvume unokufumana inzuzo yokubolekisa amathoyizi akhe kumntakwabo. Ukuthabatha amalungelo kunokuba ngumphumo ophumelelayo.
- Ingxaki-ukucombulula iingcambu ezizayo - Sebenzisanani kunye neengxaki-ukucombulula izicwangciso eziya kunciphisa amathuba okuba ziqhube iziganeko. Unokudinga ukususa izilingo ngexeshana. Ngokomzekelo, musa ukuvumela ukuba umntu oneminyaka engama-13 ubudala angaqaphelwanga nabahlobo kwiivenkile. Okanye ungadinga ukusebenzela ekufundiseni umntwana wakho ubulumko bokuzithiba phambi kokuba ulungele ukuba nomnye umdlalo wokudlala.
Nini Ukufuna Uncedo Lobugcisa
Ukuba ukweba kuyaqhubeka kuba yingxaki naphezu kobuchule bakho bokuqeqesha, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe . Umcebisi ocebisi angakwazi ukubona iimbangela zokuba kwaye ancedise wena nomntwana wakho ngezicwangciso eziya kumisa ukuba. Kubalulekile ukujongana nokweba ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka ukukhusela ingxaki ukuba ingabi ngakumbi.