Okwesibini namhlanje, ifowuni iphantse ilungile. Namhlanje namhlanje bayazi into abayifunayo kwaye bafuna iifowuni zefowuni!
Iifowuni zefowuni ziyazi, ngokunjalo, njengoko zijolise kwiimarike ezilishumi elinesibini kunye neefowuni ezibhenela ngqo kubantwana. Iintsapho ezibiza izicwangciso zithengwa ngokufanelekileyo kwaye abaninzi baye bafaka imiqathango yesibini kunye nemikhwa yabo yefowuni kwiphakheji.
Kuqikelelwa ukuba malunga nama-10% abantu abathintekayo sele beneselula. Unokubheka i-90% eseleyo ukuba ufumane enye. Kodwa ngaba i-tween yakho ifanele ifowuni? Ngezantsi zizinto ezimbalwa njengoko ucinga ngezingane, iifowuni kunye neengxaki zeminyaka emibini.
Ingaba ufuna ngokwenene ifowuni?
Mhlawumbi akunjalo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ifowuni ayinakwenzeka ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba unyana wakho uneshedyuli exakeke kakhulu okanye ishedyuli engasoloko iqikeleleka, ifowuni inokukunceda uhlale unxibelelwano kwaye uhlale usesikhathini apho uya khona.
Umbuzo wokwenene abazali kufuneka bazibuze ukuba ngaba umntwana wabo ukhule ngokwaneleyo kwesofowuni. Yonke inyane liya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo, kodwa kufuneka ikwazi ukuqhubeka kunye nefowuni yayo kwaye ilawulwe isicwangciso seminithi yenyanga, isicatshulwa kunye nedatha.
Iifowuni zeeSeli kunye nemiGaqo
Ngaphambi kokuba uphume kwaye uthenge ifowuni nesicwangciso, uya kufuneka ukwazi ngemithetho yesikolo malunga nefowuni.
Izikolo ezingakumbi azivumeli iifowuni kwiindawo okanye zifuna ukuba zicime ngokupheleleyo ngeeyure zesikolo. Kukho imiphumo xa bengabikho.
Ukuba yonke imbono emva kokuthenga ifowuni iyakwazi ukuqhagamshelana nomntwana wakho nanini na emini, unokugqiba isigqibo seendleko zefowuni kwaye isicwangciso asifanelekanga.
Kwakhona, uya kufuna ukuqwalasela amanyathelo okulungiswa okufanelekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho asebenzise kakubi amalungelo akhe eefowuni. Ngaba kuya kufuneka unyanzele imimiselo engqongqo? Ngaba uya kulahleka yakhe ifowuni?
Iifowuni zeSeli kunye neZiko
Awuyenzi intombi yakho (okanye uluntu) nayiphi na into enokuyithenga ngokumthengisela umnxeba kwaye ungaphumeleli ukumfundisa kwisenzo sefowuni esifanelekileyo. Kwabakho abantu aba-12 kufuneka baqonde isicatshulwa sefowuni ukuze bazisindise kwiimeko ezinokuhlazisa.
Myalela umntwana wakho ngezinto ezisiseko:
- Xa kufanelekile ukuguqula ifowuni ukuba idudle.
- Zithethelele kwabanye ukuze uqhubeke nencoko yefowuni.
- Vala ifowuni xa isetyenziswe kuluntu.
Ngokweqile, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba kunengqondo ukuthatha (okanye ukwabelana) ngemifanekiso ehlazo yabangani bakhe ngefowuni yakhe okanye ukusebenzisa ifowuni ukunyelona ngabanye. Ukufikelela kwefowuni kwi-intanethi kwenza kube nzima kubazali ukuba baphathe imisebenzi yabo yee-kid kunye nokuthunyelwa kwee-texting kwenza kube lula ukusabalalisa iindlebe.
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba ukuziphatha kakubi kusembi xa kusefowuni okanye kwi-intanethi.
Ngaba iifowuni zikhuselekile?
Ijaji isaphuma kule nto. EYurophu, abazali baye baxwayiswa malunga neengozi ezinokubangelwa iifowuni kunye nombane owenziwe ngumbane.
Kungcono ukuba uthethe nonyana wakho okanye intombi malunga nokukhuselwa kwefowuni kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba basebenzise kuphela ifowuni xa kuyimfuneko. Ukongezelela, iifsetsetshi yinto efanelekileyo kubafana okanye abatsha abachitha ixesha elide kwiifowuni zabo kwaye kufuneka babe yindlela yokuqwalasela.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbuza ukuba iifowuni zeefowuni zinokunika abazali nabazali babo ithuba lokuzikhusela. Qinisekisa ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho iyaqonda ukuba zonke izikhuselo zokuzikhusela ozifundisayo kwiminyaka zisasebenza.
Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba akufanele bazinge kwiimeko ezinobungozi, njengokuhamba bodwa ebusuku okanye ukukhwela uhambo kunye nomfokazi, becinga ukuba ifowuni iya kubabonelela ngomnatha wokhuseleko.
Ngeke.
AmaTween kufuneka axelelwe ukuba angalokothi athethe okanye atshintshele umntu ongazi. 'Ingozi yangaphandle' kuthetha ukuba kusebenza kule teknoloji entsha. Ngelishwa, kukho abantu ehlabathini abafuna ukuxhamla abantwana ngeefowuni zabo. Akufanele banikeze inombolo yabo yefowuni ngaphandle.