Idrama Ingummo ongenakugwemeka woBomi beZikolo eziphakathi
Isikolo esiphakathi sinokuzonwabisa kakhulu ngeendlela ezininzi. Abafundi baseMbindi bafunda ukuzimela, bahlakulela izakhono ezintsha kunye nabahlobo abatsha . Ngelishwa, isikolo esiphakathi sikwidrama ephambili. Kuninzi umdlalo owenzekayo esikolweni esiphakathi, ukusuka ekuhlekeleni kwintetho yokuxhatshazwa . Kwaye ngoku ukuba umntwana wakho esikolweni esiphakathi, akukho nto iphunyukileyo.
Kodwa unokunceda umntwana wakho unciphise idrama yesikolo kunye namacebiso ambalwa ngokukhawuleza. Ukufundisa indlela yokuphepha okanye ukunciphisa idrama yesikolo kuya kunceda umntwana wakho kungekhona esikolweni esiphakathi kodwa esikolweni esiphakeme, ekholejini, nangaphezulu.
Indlela Yokuphepha Umdlalo WeeMidlalo Ephakathi
- Khetha Abantwana Ngenyameko: Kunzima ukuxelela umntwana ofuna nje ukuwamkela oontanga bakhe ukuba bakhethe abahlobo bakhe ngokucophelela, kodwa kubalulekile ukubonisa oko kwenza umngane omkhulu. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ahlakulele ubuhlobo nabantu abanomdla ofanayo kunye nabayekela ukuhleba kunye ne drama. Chaza indlela i-frenemy inokulimaza ngayo kwaye yenza ubomi bube buhlungu. Ukuba umntwana wakho unobungane obuhle , ukuhleka kunye ne drama kuya kuba mncinane.
- Musa ukuhleka: Inkohliso ingumngcipheko wazo zonke iidrama zesikolo, kwaye ngokukhusela ukuba umntwana wakho angakucacisa umdlalo olungadingekile. Mkhuthaze ukuba athi Hayi ukunyundela kwaye umelane nomnqweno wokuwudlula.
- Ukunciphisa Ubuninzi Bakho Kwi-Online: Ininzi umdlalo wesikolo owenzekayo namhlanje uqala kwi-Facebook, kwi-Twitter okanye nge-imeyile okanye kwiimibhalo. Kuninzi ukuyibuza, kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho ulinde iminyaka embalwa ukuvula i-akhawunti ye-Facebook, izibonelelo ziza kuba zigqithise iziganeko. Ukuba awukwazi ukukholisa umntwana wakho ukuba acacise i-Facebook, bhala isivumelwano somnatha wezentlalo ekufuneka isayine yakho isayine. Ikhonterikethi iya kuchaza ukuba yiyiphi indlela yokuziphatha kwaye ayivunyelwe kwi-intanethi.
- Ukuyihlawula: Masijongane nayo, isikolo esiphakathi sinokungcola kwaye ngokunjalo ukuziphatha kwabaontanga kunye nabahlobo abalungileyo. Nangona umntwana wakho evakalelwa kukuba uyanyanzeliswa okanye adideke ngenxa yokuziphatha komhlobo, kunokuba kunengqiqo ukumnceda ukuba afunde indlela yokuyichitha, kunokuba enze into enkulu kulo mcimbi. I-Tweens inomkhwa wokwenza intsebenziswano enkulu kwizinto ezincinci. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde umahluko phakathi kwesiganeko esidinga ukulandelelana kunye nesinye esifanele siyilibale okanye singakuhoywa.
- Yigcine kuwe: Ufuna umntwana wakho ukuba axelele kubahlobo bakhe xa efuna, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba phakathi okanye umntwana ukuba azi ixesha lokugcina ulwazi oluzimeleyo ngasese. Esi sifundo esinzima kwabanye ukuba bafunde, kwaye abaninzi bayifunda indlela enzima. Umgca ophezulu: ukuba awufuni ukuba wonke umntu azi malunga nento ethile, kungcono ukuba ungaxeleli mntu, okanye ukuxelela kuphela umhlobo osondeleyo owaziyo ukuba uthembekile kwaye uya kugcina iimfihlelo zakho. Kwiphepha le-flip, umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ukuba xa umhlobo efihla kuye, akayi ku sasaza ulwazi olukufutshane. Ukwahlukana xa umhlobo enokuba yimeko ephazamisayo, kwaye kuya kuba bubulumko ukuxelela umntu omdala othembekileyo.
- Hlonipha: Imidlalo idla ngokuqamba ngamanga. Nokuba amanga amancinci amancinci angabangela iingxaki ezininzi. Ukuba umntwana wakho uxelela umngane wakhe ukuba akayi kuchitha ubusuku ngenxa yokuba uyagula, kodwa ngokwenene uxhoma kunye nomnye umhlobo, oko kukuqala kwengxaki. Khuthaza phakathi kwakho ukuba uthembeke kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye ugweme loo malunga amhlophe. Bangabonakala bengengcamango elungileyo ngexesha, kodwa banokuphelisa ubuhlobo kwaye baqale inkathazo eninzi.