Umzali Unokuxinezeleka, Kodwa Ugcwele Uvuyo
Masijongane nayo: umama unokuba uxinzelelo ! Nangona iindawo zizisa ezinye zezona zinto ezilungileyo kakhulu onokuzicingela-ukuzonwabisa, ukukhula, uthando-lukwazisa ngaphezu kwesabelo salo somsebenzi, ukukhungatheka, nokuxinezeleka, kwaye kunokukunokubeka ingozi enkulu yokudakumba . Ngethamsanqa, ububele bobubele yinto enokukunceda ukuba uxhathise ingxaki yomama. Enye yezona ndlela ezintle oomama abanokunciphisa uxinzelelo kukuba zivelele ngovuyo lwabazali-ukuba banandipha abantwana babo kwaye benze izipho zonke kunye nezibonelelo eziza kuba ngumama.
Nazi izinto ezibalulekileyo okumele uzikhumbule:
Yonwaba
Abantwana bazisa uxanduva oluninzi, kodwa ziingcali zokuzonwabisa. Ingaba ngumntwana osemncinci kwi-tub okanye umfana ofumana ukuvuya ngokutsha, abantwana bakho banokukunika ithuba elininzi lokufumana izinto ezinokubangela ukuba uvuyo kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ozithathayo, kwaye uphile ngamnye usuku ukuya kupheleleyo. Ukubona ihlabathi ngamehlo abo kunye nokubona izinto ukusuka kwindlela entsha kunokukunceda ukuba ujabulele ihlabathi elikufutshane nawe ngendlela entsha.
Oku kucacile kwizinto ezibalulekileyo abantwana bakho abanokuwela, njengokufunda ukuhamba , okanye "i-firsts" ekhethekileyo njengokubona ikhephu okokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye ezininzi iinkalo ezingabonakaliyo kwimeko yabantwana bakho enokuthi ibe yinto ekhethekileyo, njengokuba ubona bedlala umdlalo okokuqala ngqa, fumana indlela yokupheka ukutya okutsha (nangona xa kukho into efana neyona ndawo njengesiko eshiyiweyo), okanye ukubonisa indlela entsha yokucinga ukuba ungeke ukwazi ngaphambili.
Ukuzonwabisa kunye kunye nokwandisa ukuzonwabisa onokukufumana kuyo nayiphi na imisebenzi. Nolu uluhlu lweminye imisebenzi emnandi yokwenza nabantwana.
Isizwe ngasinye sinezipho
Inokuba nzima ukujongana neengqumbo, ukuxakeka, kunye neengxaki zonyaka ngamnye, kodwa yonke iminyaka izisa izipho zayo.
Xa umntanakho enqabile i-applesauce (okanye into ebenzileyo!) Kwiindonga umzuzu owubuyisela umva wakho ukuphendula ifowuni, kulula ukuba unqwenele ukuba unokukhawuleza ixesha elide xa unganelanga amehlo emva kwakho intloko, kodwa ukhumbula yonke into oyiphosayo-indlela ehle kakhulu ebiza ice cream 'kreshrame', okanye indlela amehlo abo ekhanya ngayo njengoko iteksi yokulahla idlula kwindlela yokuhamba-yindlela-inokumisa ezo ngcamango kwiindlela zabo, kwaye zibuyisele indawo engaphezulu. Kwaye, ukuba oko akusebenzi ...
Khumbula ukuba Iintsuku zeeNtsana
Nangona kunokuba kunzima ukujongana neemfuno zentsana okanye iimfuno zomntwana omncinci, kwaye iwashi linokubonakala limile xa unemiphunga yokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi, qaphela ukuba uya kumangaliswa ngokukhawuleza konke idlule xa iphelile. Kwaye xa sele siphume-sele ihambe! Khawucinge ngekamva elijongayo emva kwezi ntsuku kunye noxolo, kwaye uhlale ukhumbule ukuba bayabalwa ngokwenene, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kufumana umoya wakho wesibini, kwaye kunye nayo, umlinganiselo wokunyamezela kunye nokuhleka. Bancinci ixesha elifutshane!
Unako Ukuba Nendlela Yakho
Enye yezinto abafazi abaninzi abathanda ngazo ngoomama kukuba bafumana ukuhlaziya abantwana babo-ngendlela. Ukuba wawuthande ubuntwaneni bakho, unokuzonwabisa ukunika abantwana bakho amava amnandi afana nawo, ukushicilela kungekuphela amava abo kodwa kunye neenkumbulo zakho.
Ukuba ubuntwaneni bakho akusiyo into enqwenela ukuba nayo, unokubonelela ngamava akho angcono, anokufumana ithuba lokuphulukisa wena kunye nolungileyo kubo.
Musa Ukulibala Umntwana Wakho Ongaphakathi
Unokufumana iimpawu zakho zokudlala zibuya njengoko ujabulela ngosuku njengoko abantwana bakho bekunandipha, kwaye uhlakulele umqondo oxabiso lokubulela kunye nokuzibuza ebomini ngokubanzi, njengoko ubona ihlabathi ngamehlo akho abantwana. Ingaba uhlaziya ubuhle bokushona kwelanga, ukufumanisa kwakhona umonakalo omluthayo we-Yahtzee, okanye ujabulele nayiphi na imimiselo ye 'yokuqala' eqala ukususela ebusaneni kwaye iqhubeka kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo, unokufunda ukunandipha ubomi ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lakho abantwana bafunda okokuqala ngqa.