Iintsana zikhula ngamazinga ahlukeneyo, kwaye ukufunda ukuhamba akufani. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abazali bayakhathazeka xa umntwana engazange athabathe le nto ibaluleke kakhulu ngeenyanga ezili-12 ubudala. Ukuba ungakhathazeki, kuqhelekileyo ukuba umntwana angayi kuhamba ngosuku lokuqala lokuzalwa. Enyanisweni, ezininzi iintsana aziqali ukuqala ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-13. Abanye abanakho ukuhamba ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-15 ukuya ku-16 ukuya kweyure kwaye kusele kakuhle.
Khumbula ukuba ngamnye umntwana uhlukile kwaye unokuzihlaziya ixesha lokuphuhlisa.
Iintsana Eziqhekeza Ngamanye amaxesha Azinanomdla Ekuhambeni
Ngoku, nangona umntwana wakho esebenza ngesantya sakhe, yazi ukuba unokuhlala unika isikhuthazo esincinane. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho ungumkhweli weengcali, umzekelo, ongenomdla wokuhamba. Uhamba ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye ukukhwela kumkhonza kakuhle. Ukuba uqala ukuhambisa isenzo phantsi komgangatho, mhlawumbi, unokuba ngumdla ngokukhawuleza ekunikezeni.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufana nale okanye uchitha ixesha elide edlala phantsi, qalisa ukubeka amathoyizi ekupheleni kombhede okanye phezulu kwitafile yekhofi. Emva koko, xa loo nto inomdla wayo kwaye ihlala ikhupha kwaye ifakisha ifenitshala, isusa itafile yekhofu ngokukhawuleza ukusuka ebhedeni, kufuneka ihambe isinyathelo esinganyaniseki ukuba ivela kwindawo enye ukuya kwenye. Ukuba uhleli phantsi, vumela umntwana wakho akhuphe phezulu usebenzisa isitulo esinamandla, uze uhlale kunye neenyawo ezithandayo uze ubone ukuba uzama ukuthatha inyathelo elilodwa ukuba ufike kuwe okanye kudlala.
Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba awunasoloko unika isangqa encinane samathoyizi ngqo kumntwana wakho phantsi. Uzisasaze ngoko ke unesizathu esithile sokuhamba. Akunakunzima ukuba kuphazamisekile, kodwa kufikeleleke ekufikeleleni ukuba uzimisele ukuwusebenzela kancinci.
Iintsana Ezibathandayo Ukuzonwabisa Izixhobo Zingadinga ixesha elingakumbi Kwixesha
Abanye abantwana abanokuba banomdla ekuhambeni ngenxa yokuba abanamathuba amaninzi okuzisebenzisa.
Abanye abantwana banelisekile ngokukhawuleza ukudlala kwi-exersaucer, isihlalo esiphezulu, i-playpen, isikrini okanye iingalo zakho. Kwaye oko kulungile, kodwa ukuba lo ngumntwana wakho, qinisekisa ukuba naye unika ixesha elide lokuhamba ngokukhululekile emgangathweni ukuze asebenzise ezo zakhono ezinkulu ezikhulayo. Unokucinga ukuba i-exersaucer, i-jumper okanye i-walk-in walker imfundisa ukumisa okanye ukuncedisa ukuhamba, kodwa ngokwenene, into echasene nayo ifumaneka. Iintsana zisebenzisa amaqela ahlukeneyo ngamahlunu ngala macebo kunokuba aya kufunda ukuhamba kwaye athembele kwisixhobo sokubamba kunokuba afunde ukuzilinganisela.
Ngenhlanhla, umntwana othanda i-exersaucer kwakhona unokuthanda amathoyizi anesiseko esikhulu, esisekelayo kunye neevili kunye nomqulu othobekileyo, onqandekileyo. Le mibhayibhile kunye nabanye kulaluhlu lwabancinci abahambahambayo banokuzonwabisa , bancedise abantwana ngokuhamba kunye nokulinganisela izakhono kwaye banikele ukunyuka kokuhamba. I-Bonus: Benza indawo engaphantsi kwe-exersaucer, nayo.
Abazali Basenokubangela Ukulibala
Kwakhona, abaninzi abantwana bahamba phakathi kwexesha bajika unyaka ubudala kunye neenyanga ezili-16 kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani umama okanye ubaba okanye akwenzi. Kodwa kukho ezinye izinto. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokulimaza komntwana wakho, khumbula oku: Kuya kwenzeka.
Umntwana wakho uya kulahlekelwa ukulinganisela kwakhe, aphule intloko yakhe, aqhube umlomo wakhe aze awe phantsi. Mamaxesha amaninzi. Le nxalenye yenkqubo yokufunda kwaye akukho ncinane ongayenza ukukhusela ngaphandle kokuba ufune ukuziyeka phantsi kweenyanga ezide zokukhwaza umntwana okanye ukuxhomekeka kwiinkqubo zokumisela ukugcina ukhuseleko. Kwaye akunjalo nje indlela yokuphila.
Kunoko, gxila kwizinto onokuzenza. Musa ukususa itafile yekhofi. Sebenzisa i-bumper ngeenxa zonke emacaleni okanye kwiikona ezibukhali. Ukuba indlu yakho yonke ikhutshwe ngetekisi, itekisi elityebileyo, ukuthenga iisoksi kunye neengqungquthela ezinobunzima kwaye utyalole kwimimandla emigqabantshintshi kule mimandla apho umntwana wakho edlala khona.
Kwaye uhlale ukulungele ukubamba kunye nekhwama yezingqungqele ezinqabileyo okanye i-popsicle ukuze unciphise loo maqhwenga kunye nemivimbo.