Amanyathelo kubazali abasanda kusebenza abangenayo inkxaso yabantwana
Ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi kunokwesabisa, ngakumbi ukuba unabantwana. Ukungabikho kwemisebenzi kunokuba nempembelelo kumandla omzali wokuqhubeka nokuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana. Abazali mabaqaphele ukuba umyalelo wokuxhasa abantwana usasebenza, nangona umzali engasebenzi. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana zingatshintsha njani iingeniso zokungasebenzi. Iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ziyimfuneko ukukunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba iimfuno zomntwana zidibene.
Umzali ongekho-cala ophethe umyalelo wokuxhasa abantwana kunye nokulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi wakhe unokuba nemibuzo elandelayo malunga nokungaqeshwa kunye nenkxaso yabantwana:
Yintoni eyenzekayo kwiNtlawulo Yenkxaso Yomntwana Xa Ndilahleka Umsebenzi Wami?
Ukungaqeshwanga akuthethi ukuba awuyi kuhlawula inkxaso yakho yomntwana. Umzali osandul 'umqeshwa osanda kuqeshwa kufuneka ahlolisise ngokukhawuleza kunye nombuso ukuba afune ukuba unelungelo lokufumana iingeniso zengqesho. Ukuba kunjalo, yazise i-ofisi yokungabikho kwemisebenzi yoluhlu olumkileyo lwemali yokuxhasa abantwana. I-ofisi yokungabikho kwengqesho iya kubangela ukuhlawulwa kwentlawulo yenkxaso yomntwana kumvuzo wokungaqeshwa komzali.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Umzali ongekho msebenzi akanakulungiswa kwiNzuzo yeNgqesho?
Umzali kufuneka aqhubeke nokusebenza nenkundla yentsapho kunye nomnye umzali wengane ngexesha lokungasebenzi. Umzali ongekho msebenzi makangqine ukuba uphando lwakhe lomsebenzi oluqhubekayo. Xa umzali egcina umsebenzi omtsha, yena kufuneka ahlawule ngenkxaso yabantwana ngekishekhi, de kube iintlawulo zithathwe ngqo kwimvuzo wazo.
Ukongeza, abazali kufuneka balungiselele ukunyuka okunyuka kweentlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana ukugqithisa ixesha lokungasebenzi.
Yintoni eyenzekayo kwiMpilo Yomntwana wam xa Ndilahleka Umsebenzi wam?
Uninzi lwabazali abaxhasa inkxaso-myalelo kufuna umzali ongekho myalelo ohlawulweyo wokuhlawula abantwana ukubonelela nge-inshurensi yempilo kumntwana.
Ukuba umzali ulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi wakhe, uya kulahlekelwa yinshuwalense yezempilo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umqeshwa unelungelo lokuqhubeka neeninshorensi zempilo ngeCOBRA. Nangona kunjalo, indleko yomshuwalense weCOBRA ayixhaswanga, njengoko iindleko zeenzuzo ezininzi ze-inshorensi, ezinikezwa ngumqeshi kwaye ngoko ke zinokuba zibiza kakhulu. Ukuba umzali akasebenzi kwaye akakwazi ukuqhubeka nokubonelela ngomshuwalense wempilo kumntwana, umzali kufuneka akhulume nomzali wokulondoloza, okokuqala. Mhlawumbi umzali okhuselekileyo unokuncedisa umntwana kwi-inshorensi yempilo yakhe ukuba kukho icebo elikhoyo. Ukuba akunjalo, umzali okhuselekileyo unokufuna ukumncedisa umntwana kwisicwangciso se-inshurensi exhaswa ngemali yabantwana.
Akukho mntu ufuna ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi kodwa kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iimali zakho zinyamekelwa xa usenza. Ukungabikho kwemisebenzi kunzima kakhulu kubabini abaxhasiweyo kunye nabangabikho bokugcina. Nangona kunjalo, imfuneko yokuxhasa umntwana ayigqiba xa umzali engasebenzi. Ukuba umzali ongeyena ongekho phantsi uyawa ngamaxesha anzima okwenene enkundleni kufuneka inikwe inkundla. Umyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana uya kutshintshwa kuphela ukuba umzali ufuna ukuguqulwa. Abazali kufuneka bafune uncedo lommeli ogunyazisiweyo kwilizwe labo abangakwazi ukuncedisa ifayili yokuguqulwa.