Izibango Zokugwema
Kuyatshitshisa ukucinga ukuba ijaji elingazi kakuhle ngawe kunye nabantwana bakho iya kuba yinkxaso yokuxhaswa kwabantwana oza kubakhokhela (okanye ufumane). Nangona kunjalo inkqubo yokuxhasa abantwana namhlanje iyakhiwe kubagwebi ukutolika ulwazi lwezemali oludluliselwa kubo ngabazali kunye namagqwetha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, inkqubo ayifezekanga, kodwa ikhona ukukhusela nokubonelela abantwana kulo lonke ilizwe.
Ukulungiselela ukuNikwa kweNkxaso yeNtwana
Njengoko ulungiselela ukuvalelwa kwenkxaso yakho yabantwana, nolu uluhlu lwezinto ongayenzi:
- Musa ukuyihoxisa i-imeyile yakho. Sonke sisekho; maxa wambi ukhululeka, kubonakala kulula ukujonga. Kodwa kunyanzelekile ukuba ufunde yonke i-imeyile ezayo kuwe evela kwigqwetha lakho, igqwetha lakho, okanye iinkundla. Kungcono ukulifunda kanye, ulibeke eceleni malunga nemizuzu engama-30 okanye njalo, uze ufunde kwakhona. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuphephe iphutha lokungahambi kakuhle okanye ukuchazwa oko ufundayo. Yaye xa ufunwa ukuthatha isenzo, yenza njalo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Musa ukuphendula ukuphendula kwisicelo, udibanisa negqwetha lakho, okanye ulandele izinto othe uzakwenza.
- Ungazami ukusetyenziswa kolwazi olunikezela enkundleni. Yiba yi-100% inyaniso kwifom nganye nganye. Musa ukungayeki ukunika ingeniso engaphantsi kwetafile okanye ngaphezulu-ingxelo ngeemfuno zakho zemali ngenzame yokulawula umlinganiselo wokuxhasa abantwana oya kunikezelwa. Imizamo yokudlala umdlalo ngale ndlela iqhelekile kwaye iyakubonakalisa kakubi kuwe phambi kwejaji.
- Musa ukufika emva kwexesha lokuva inkxaso yenkxaso yakho yomntwana - okanye ukuhluleka ukubonisa konke. Zenzele ubabalo kwaye uze khona kusasa . Ngale ndlela, i-jam ye-traffic jam engalindelekanga ayiyi kubonakalisa ithuba lakho lokwenza umboniso wokuqala kwijaji. Yaye ungamangalisi ukuba ityala lakho aliqali ngexesha. Ukuba amanye amatyala athabatha ixesha elide kunalindelekileyo, sebenzisa ixesha ukulungisa iingxaki zakho kwaye uthathe ukuphefumla okuncinci ngaphambi kokuqala kwecala lakho.
- Ungaphambuki kwisihloko esisondeleyo. Injongo yenkxaso yakho yokuxhasa abantwana yenze ijaji ithathe isigqibo malunga nokuba uncedo olunjani lwabazali oza kulufumana okanye uhlawulwe. Akenalo igunya lokutshintsha ukugcinwa kwakho komntwana okanye amalungiselelo okutyelelwa ngexesha elifanayo, ngoko ungabangeli iziphazamiso ezingadingekile ngokuzama ukuxoxa ngaleminye imiba ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane yakho.
- Musa ukulindela izinto ezingalindelekanga. Inkundla iya kugxininisa inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana ngokusekelwe kuzo zonke iinkcukacha ezinikezelweyo - nguwe kunye nesikhokelo sakho sokuxhasa abantwana. Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba yakho yangaphambili ayiyiyo inyaniso malunga nemvuzo yakhe, yithetha njalo. Kwiimeko apho inkundla inokukrokrela ukungafuneki ngokuzithandela, ijaji iya kubangela ingeniso yomzali. Ngamanye amazwi, inkundla iya kuxhasa inkxaso yabantwana ngokusekelwe kwinto abakholelwa ukuba umzali kufuneka akwazi ukuyifumana, ngokusekelwe kwingqesho yangaphambili, imfundo, njl. Nangona kunjalo, ungabanjwa ngokuya kuthethwa ukuba uyala ubone iimeko zengxaki. Ukuba yakho yangaphambili ingenayo encinci engenayo ingeniso, ke inani lemali yokunikezelwa kwabantwana liza kuba lincinci. Kwaye nangona loo nto ingadakalisa, kubalulekile ukuba ukhangele into efanelekileyo kwimeko yakho kwaye uzilungiselele kwinkundla.