Xa kukho imbambano yokugcinwa kwabantwana, inkundla kufuneka inqume ukuba ngaba umzali oyedwa ungumlondolozi oyintloko, nokuba ngaba abazali baya kubelana ngemisebenzi yabo ngokulinganayo, njengoko kwimeko yokubambisana ngokomthetho okanye ngokubambisana ngokusemthethweni; Oku kuyinyaniso yokuqhawula izibini, kunye nabazali abangatshatanga, xa kukho imbambano yokugcinwa kwabantwana.
Izinto ezisetyenziswayo
Nangona iinkundla kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zijongene nokuzimisela ukugcinwa kweendlela eziphambili, ezi zinto zilandelayo ziqwalaselwa ngokubanzi:
- Ngubani othabatha umntwana esikolweni imihla ngemihla?
- Ngubani ogqoka umntwana?
- Ngubani olungisa zonke ukutya?
- Ngubani osinceda umntwana ngomsebenzi wakhe wesikolo?
- Ngubani oqeqeshwayo obomvu kumntwana?
- Ngubani oqeqesha umntwana?
- Ngubani othabatha umntwana kwimisebenzi yonqulo, njengokwicawa, i-mosque, i-sikhungu, okanye i-bible bible school?
- Ngubani othutha umntwana ukuya kunye nokusukela kwintsuku, esikolweni, kunye nemisebenzi yesikhashana?
- Ngubani olungiselela ukunyamekela abantwana okanye abantwana?
- Ngubani olawula yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye neemfanelo?
- Ngubani obeka iliso lokubukela umabonwakude?
- Ngubani ohlala ekhaya xa umntwana egula okanye enemihla yokuphumula?
- Ngubani othabatha umntwana kumatye?
- Ngubani othatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yechungechunge, efana nokuqeqeshwa kwemisebenzi yezemidlalo okanye ukukhonza njengentombazana ye-scout okanye i-boy scout leader?
Indlela Ezi zinto zilinganiselwa ngayo
Akukho nanye yale miba ithwala ubunzima kunabanye. Inkundla iya kuhlola yonke into kunye kunye nokuqwalasela ukuba umzali unoxanduva lokudibanisa uninzi lweemfuno zentsuku zentsapho.
Injongo yenkundla yokunikezelwa kwemvume kumzali ophethe ubuninzi bemisebenzi yengqesho yemihla ngemihla kukuba ukulinganisela kobomi bomntwana kunokuthukuthela xa beza kususwa kumzali ohlala ephethe uxanduva lwabo ngosuku imisebenzi yosuku. Ukongezelela, omnye umzali unokufumana ukuvakashelwa rhoqo.
Indlela yokulungiselela iNkundla
Abazali abajongene nemfazwe yokugcina kufuneka baqwalasele nganye yezinto ezikhankanywe ngasentla ngaphambi kokuvela enkundleni. Ukongezelela, inkundla inokuqwalasela abanye izinto ezinokuthintela umzali ukuba angabakhonzi bokugcina, njengenkqubo yokuxakeka emsebenzini okanye ukukhubazeka. Ekulungiseleleni inkundla, kucetyiswa ukuba abazali bajolise ekunikeni iminikelo yabo yokunyusa abantwana ngosuku.