I-syndrome yengane yengozi yimeko yesifo esichaphazela abantwana kunye nabazali babo. Kukhula xa umntwana enomngcipheko wobomi ngexesha lokusana njengengxaki yokuqala , ingxaki yokuzalwa, okanye isigulo esibangela abazali ukuba babe neengxaki ezixhalabileyo kunye nokwesaba ngempilo yengane nangona umntwana eqhuba kakuhle kwaye ekhula ngendlela eqhelekileyo, enempilo .
I-syndrome yengane eyingozi kakhulu impendulo enkulu kakhulu apho abazali banomuvo wokuba bajonge kwaye bakhusele umntwana wabo ngokucophelela kunabanye, "abantwana abanobomi". Olu hlobo lokusabela kwiziganeko ezixinzelelekileyo ezikhokelela ekuzalweni okanye ekukhutshweni kwesibhedlele komntwana wabo kunokuba nemiphumo emibi yengqondo kunye nengqondo kwixesha elide.
Ukunyamekela kwabazali Okubangakhokelela kwi-Child Syndrome enobungozi
Ezinye zeendlela zokuziphatha ezinokubeka umntwana engozini yokuhlakulela i-syndrome yabantwana abasengozini ziquka xa abazali bethetha:
- Uhlala exhalabele ngempilo yomntwana kwaye ukholelwe into embi eya kwenzeka kuye.
- Thatha umntwana kumgqirha yonke ixesha kuba becinga into engalunganga.
- Gwema ukuvumela umntwana ukuba abe kunye nabanye ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuba athathe iipilisi okanye izifo.
- Musa ukuvumela umntwana wabo ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi kunye namanye abantwana ngenxa yokuba bayesaba umntwana uya kulimala.
- Awufuni ukushiya umntwana kunye nawuphi na umkhathaleli ngenxa yokuba abakholelwa ukuba omnye umntu unokukhusela umntwana ngendlela efanayo.
- Ngaba ukwesaba ukuqeqesha umntwana ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukumcasula umntwana baze bamphathe.
Iintsana Zengaphambi Kwangaphambili kunye ne-Child Syndrome Eyingozi
Xa usana luzalwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye lufuna unonophelo olukhethekileyo kwiNyunithi Yonyango Ejongene Nokunakekelwa KweNonatal (iNICU) okanye kwiNqanaba eliPhakathi lokuLondolozwa kweNqanaba, kuyatshiswa kubazali.
Usana luncinci kwaye lukhuni ngakumbi kunomntwana ozelwe ngokusondeleyo kumhla wokugqibela. Ngoko, akumangalisi ukuba abazali banenkxalabo. Ukukhathazeka kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ingakumbi emva kokuba umntwana eshiya esibhedlele kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala kunye neenyanga ekhaya . Yaye, ewe, i-preemie ifuna ukujongwa ngokukhawuleza ngexesha leenyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala. Kodwa, ezininzi iintshaba ziya kwenza kakuhle njengoko zikhula kwaye ziza kuthathwa ngokukhawuleza zibe ziqhelekileyo, iintsana ezinempilo.
Ukuba umntwana usenza kakuhle emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zokuba ekhaya, abazali kufuneka baqale beziva bebhetele kwaye bengakhathazeki. Ukuba, endaweni yoko, njengoko ixesha liqhubeka, uxhalaba luba lukhulu, kwaye oomama kunye nobawo banokuba ngababi kakhulu, kunokuba nefuthe elibi endleleni umntwana akhula ngayo kwaye ahlakulele. Kukho iphuzu xa uzama ukukhusela umntwana kwaye uzikhusele ngaphandle kwengozi okanye ukugula kungabangela ingozi kwaye kungabonakali kakuhle umntwana kunye nabazali.
Ngubani Osemngciphekweni?
Ukuqhawuka kwangaphambili akuyena kuphela umqathango onokuyibangela ukwesaba okukhulu kubazali. Ezinye iziganeko ezinokubangela ukuxhatshazwa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokukhathazeka ngokweqile ziquka:
- Abantwana babazali abaye bahlaselwa ngamathambo
- Abantwana babazali abaye baba neengxaki zokuzala kunye nexesha elinzima ukwakha intsapho yabo
- Abantwana babazali abalahlekelwe ngumntwana
- Abantwana babazali abanesifo okanye uxinzelelo
- Abantwana abaye bazalwa ngokuzalwa ngokudabukisayo
- Abantwana abanesifo sobuntwana
Indlela i-Child Influential Child Syndrome ichaphazela ngayo abantwana
Abantwana abakhulayo ekhaya kunye nemeko engaphephekanga kakhulu banokwesaba ihlabathi. Basenokungakwazi ukufumana ukuzithemba kwabo, kwaye banokuba nexabiso eliphantsi lokungabikho nantoni na ngokwabo. Aba bantwana banokuxhomekeka kakhulu kubazali babo.
Njengoko bekhula, banokuphuhliswa ngokwenyama ekujoliswe kuyo, kodwa abafumani ithuba lokukhula ngokuqhelekileyo ngendlela yomntu kunye nengqondo.
Ngoko ke, aba bantwana banokuba nobunzima obuninzi kwiimeko zoluntu. Abantwana abanokuxhatshazwa banenkathazo enkulu esikolweni kwaye bangahlakulela ukukhubazeka kokufunda . Basenokungalala kakuhle, kwaye babonakala behlala behlushwa uhlobo lokugula. Abazali banokuziva benetyala ngokumisela umda okanye ukujezisa umntwana ngenxa yokuba bakholelwa ukuba umntwana uyagula. Ukungabikho kwemida efanelekileyo yabantwana kunokukhokelela kwimicimbi yokuziphatha njengoko umntwana ekhula.
Indlela i-Child Child Syndrome eyingozi ngayo inokuchaphazela abazali
I-syndrome yengane engabhubhisayo ayinomphumo onobungozi kubantwana. Iyakuchukumisa ubomi kunye nempilo yabamama nabagadi:
- Kungaba nzima kubazali ukuba baqonde ukuba umntwana wabo osengozini ekuqaleni kobomi bakhe ngoku unempilweni kwaye unako ukukhula ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Bathi bembona umntwana wabo enobuthakathaka kwaye obhekene nokugula.
- Ukuphila kwabazali kunokuba konke ngokukhusela umntwana wabo. Akunakuziva bekhuselekile bemshiya umntwana kunye nomntwana okanye umkhulu-nkulu, ukuze bangaphumi. Ingcamango yokuba kude nomntwana wayo ingabangela ukuxhalaba okukhulu. Kulula ukuba abazali balahlekelwe ngokwabo baze baqale ukuhlala kuphela ngomntwana wabo.
- Abazali bayakhathazeka malunga nento encinane. Bavame ukuzisa umntwana kwiofisi yegqirha okanye kwigumbi lexakeka kwiimeko ezincinane.
- Abazali abalala kakuhle. Basenokuvuka amaxesha amaninzi ebusuku ukujonga umntwana.
- Abazali abambona umntwana wabo njengengozi bangaphantsi koxinzelelo olunzima.
Indlela yokukhusela i-Child Syndrome enoMnxeba
Njengomzali, ukuthintela isifo sengqondo sabantwana abasengozini kuqala ngokuyiqonda. Xa uyazi ngakumbi, uya kukwazi ukuhlawula iingcinga zakho kunye neendlela oziphathe ngayo ngomntwana wakho. Akuthethi ukuba awuyi kuhlala uxhala, kodwa uya kukwazi ukumisa ixesha okanye ucinge malunga nokuba ungayibambeli umntwana wakho ngenxa yengozi yangempela okanye ukwesaba kwakho. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukwesaba kwakho ukungena endleleni yokukhula komntwana wakho:
- Ingxoxo kunye nodokotela wengane yakho malunga neenkxalabo zakho. Iqela lezononophelo lwezempilo lonyane lingakunika inkcazelo yezempilo enomdla kakhulu kumntwana wakho. Bangakucebisa malunga noko umntwana wakho akwazi kwaye akakwazi ukunyamezela ngokusekelwe kwimeko yakhe.
- Xoxa nomcebisi malunga nokuxhalaba, imbali yakho kunye nembali yengane yakho. Ukuzama ukufumana isizathu sokuxhalabisa kwakho kwaye usebenze ngaphandle kunokukunceda ukujamelana nokuqhubela phambili.
- Zama ukugcina uloyiko lwakho lokungena endleleni yokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba achithe ixesha elijikeleze abanye.
- Phatha umntwana wakho njengomntwana oqhelekileyo. Nangona wazalwa ngokukhawuleza, njengoko ekhula, uya kufumana . Nangona kufuneka athathe amayeza, usengumntwana oqhelekileyo.
- Vumela umntwana wakho athathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi kunye namanye abantwana.
Umzali wakho we-Preemie
Abazali bayakhathazeka. Ingxenye eqhelekileyo yobazali. Uyamthanda umntwana wakho, kwaye awufuni ukuba kwenzeke nantoni na kuye. Kunzima, ngakumbi xa une-preemie ekhuselekileyo ngokwenene ekuqaleni. Kodwa, njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, kubalulekile ukumnceda ukuba afumane ihlabathi kwaye amvumele ukuba aqale ukwenza izinto ngokwakhe, nokuba ngaba unezidingo zonyango eziqhubekayo. Uya kuba khona xa umntwana wakho efuna wena, nje ungammisi ekufundeni nasekuhloliseni, kwaye ungagxumi ukwenza konke kuye.
Ewe, unokufumana i-bump kunye nosimaza ngexesha elide, kodwa uya kuphinda ahlaziye, ujabulele amava ahlukeneyo, aze akhumbule. Uya kuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo kunye nokuzithemba . Nangona kunokuba kunzima ekuqaleni, njengoko ubukela umntwana wakho ukufunda ukuphatha kakuhle kunye nokubi, kuya kuba lula. Kwaye, uya kuziva ungcono ukuba uncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba akhule kwaye aphuhlise amandla akhe ngokupheleleyo kwiindlela ezinempilo kakhulu.
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