I-Networking Growing Network kunye nobuchule bobudlelwane obudala be-9-Old Age's Relationships
Umhlaba wezentlalo uneminyaka engama-9 uvula ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili. Abantwana kule minyaka bangaba nemizekelo yabantu abangabantu abangaphandle kwintsapho esondeleyo, njengomqeqeshi okanye utitshala. Basenokukhangela umntu owaziwayo abangazi njengomculi okanye umfanekiso wezemidlalo. Ubuhlobo babo buza kuthatha ukubaluleka ngakumbi ebomini babo bemihla ngemihla, kwaye baya kukhathalela ngakumbi ngezinto abanye bacinga ngazo.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 bazinzileyo . Bokuba banomdla wokuba bahambe kunye nabahlobo kwaye banako ukukwazi ukuhlala ubusuku bonke (abantwana abancinci badla ngokuvuyiswa ngcamango ye- sleepovers kodwa baxelele ukuba bafuna ukuya ekhaya ngaphambi kokulala).
Ukususela ekubeni ithandane kunye neengcinezelo zontanga ziba nemiba emikhulu malunga neminyaka eyi-9 nangaphezulu, abazali bangathanda ukuhlala benolwazi malunga nobuhlobo babantwana babo. Indlela efanelekileyo yokukwazi ukuba ngubani ohlobo lomntakweno wakho ngokusebenzisa ixesha kunye nomntwana wakho kwaye uthetha nabo malunga nokuba kwenzekani ebomini babo. Ingxoxo rhoqo kwitafile yokutya kunye nangeminye imisebenzi yansuku zonke ibalulekile ukugcina imigca yonxibelelwano evulekile kwaye incede umntwana wakho ahambe nemingeni okanye iingxaki kubangane, esikolweni okanye nakweyiphi enye indawo ebomini bakhe. Abazali banokuqiniseka ukuba badibana nabahlobo babantwana babo, babe neenkomfa eziqhelekileyo kunye nootitshala babantwana babo, kwaye babandakanyeke esikolweni sabantwana babo.
Bahlobo
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 baya kubaluleka ngakumbi kubahlobo kunye noontanga nabantu abangaphandle kwintsapho esondeleyo. Inxalenye yeflip yale nxaxheba ekhulayo yabamanye ingozi yempembelelo yontanga kunye nokunyanzeliswa-into ethile abazali kufuneka bahlale bephaphele ngayo ngeli xesha. Ukuzithemba ngokubalulekayo kubalulekile kule minyaka kuba kunokunceda abantwana banxamnye noxinzelelo lwabaontanga kwaye baphephe ukuziphatha kunye nokukhetha okungalungile kwimpilo yabo okanye impilo yabo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba ubuhlobo phakathi kweminyaka eyi-9 ubudala buguquke. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abale minyaka banabangane abasondeleyo besini esifanayo. Kodwa banokutshintsha abo bahlobo baze bathathe isigqibo sokuba umntu okanye ungengumhlobo aze abuyele kwakhona. Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 bahlakulele ukunyuka.
Abantwana abaneminyaka elithoba ubudala baya kunandipha imisebenzi yeqela njengokudlala kwikomiti kwaye bangathanda ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiiprojekthi zeqela ezifana nesikolo apho kubambisana khona intsebenziswano.
Ukuziphatha kunye neMithetho
Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala banengqondo efanelekileyo yokulungelelanisa kunye nokuchanekileyo. Abantwana kule minyaka banokuthi banokubambisana kakhulu kwaye banokufuna ukunqoba (kwaye bayakuzonda ukulahlekelwa). Bangaba zi-sticky for the rules kwaye bangakholiswa xa bebona ukungabi nabulungisa (ukuba umntakwenu ukhangele i-TV ngaphezu kokuba avunyelwe ukwenza, umzekelo).
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 banomdla wokubona izinto ezimnyama kunye ezimhlophe, kwaye banokugqithisa into into abayibona njengobulungisa okanye into engalunganga .. Basenokunyaniseka ukunganyaniseki nokubiza nayiphi na into ebonakalayo emibi abayibonayo, njengokuba Umfundi ofunda naye olala ngento ethile.
Ukwazisa ezentlalo
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala banokuqala ukuba banomdla kwiziganeko zangoku.
Basenokuqala ukuqonda ukuba izinto ezenzekayo ngoku, njengenguqu yemozulu, zingathintela ikamva labo. Akuqhelekanga kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala ukuba babuze imibuzo kwaye banomdla ekwenzeni into ekuncedeni ukuxazulula iingxaki ezifana nobuhlwempu okanye impembelelo yeentlekele zemvelo. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala banokuba nenzondelelo malunga nomcimbi othile, njengento sonke esinokuyenza ukuze sincede ukusingqongileyo.
Abazali banokusebenzisa ngokunjalo ukuqonda ngokweenqanaba loluntu ngokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bancede abanye baze bafunde ngeendlela zokuphila ubomi obuninzi.