Iimpawu eziphambili zoPhuhliso lweMinyaka eli-9 ubudala

Ixesha lokuguquguquka okukhulu njenge-Adolescence Nears

Ngeminyaka eli-9 ubudala, amantombazana namakhwenkwe azimisele ukutshintshana okukhulu njengoko bejonge ukunyuka kwexesha lokukhula. Ngeendlela ezininzi, banokuthi bathathwe njengabantwana kodwa bahlala bezimeleyo kwaye banako ukujongana nemithwalo ethile yemfanelo kunye nokulawulwa komntu omdala.

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Indlela yokuziphatha kunye nemihla ngemihla

Ngo-9, abantwana banako ukuthatha uluhlu olubanzi lwemisebenzi kunye noxanduva olujikeleze indlu kwaye baya kufuna ukuqala ukuthatha inxaxheba kwizigqibo ezinentsapho.

Abantwana beli lizwe bafuna ukunqwenela iqela elithile lemibutho ebomini babo kwaye baya kuhlala begcina imisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla kunye neeshedyuli. Baya kuqhubeka befuna iiyure ezili-10 ukuya kwe-11 zokulala ubusuku bonke, kodwa kunokuba kunzima ukunyanzelisa ixesha lokulala.

Abantwana abasithoba banokuthi bangqubuzana. Ngelixa abaninzi banokufuna ukwandisa iindidi zabo zentlalo, baya kuqhubeka befuna ukukhusela kunye nosapho ukuba baziva bekhuselekile. Kwisithoba, abantwana basakhunyiswa kakhulu ngabazali babo.

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Uphuhliso Lwenyama

Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 baya kuqalana nokujamelana nemingeni emininzi nangokomzwelo njengoko besondela ebusheni. Ingaba ixesha lokurhaxela abanye njengabalingana nabo baqala ukuphuhlisa ngamaxabiso ahlukeneyo.

Ubushushu buya kuqala naphakathi kwe-sibhozo ukuya kwi-12 kumantombazana kunye nesithoba kunye no-14 kubafana. Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngale nto kunye nomntwana wakho, ngakumbi ukuba utshintsho (okanye ukungabi naluphi utshintsho) lubangela uxinzelelo. Imiba yomfanekiso yomzimba inokuqala ukuvela.

Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 baya kuqala ukulawula ukuqina kwemisipha, ukubenza bakwazi ukwandisa imida yabo nemithwalo yabo. Baya kuba bazimeleyo ngakumbi kunye neendlela ezithile zokulawula ucoceko lwabo kunye nokuzilungisa.

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Uphuhliso Lomoya

Kwisi-9, abantwana baya kuba baqokelelekile ngokomoya kwaye baphumelele ukusingatha iimfazwe ezidibeneyo. Ukuzimela kwabo okuya kubakhokelela ekufuneni ubudlelwane obuzimeleyo bentsapho yabo, kubandakanywa ne- sleepovers kwizindlu zabahlobo.

Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala baya kuba nesifiso esinamandla sokuba liqela kunye nokuseka indawo yabo kwinqanaba lezenkolo zesikolo. Njengomphumo, abaninzi baya kuba besichengeni ukunyanzeliswa koontanga kunye nezinye iimpembelelo.

Abantwana banokuhlala bexhala ngenxa yale nto kwaye bajamelana neengcinezelo ezingabaziyo. Ngethamsanqa, ngo-9, abaninzi baya kukulungele ukubuyela kubazali babo ukuze baxhaswe.

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Uphuhliso loCognitive

Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 banomdla ngokucacileyo malunga nehlabathi elibajikelezayo kwaye baya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukusuka kwimdla ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo. Njengoko i-span yabo iya kwanda, baya kunika ixesha elikhulayo kwimisebenzi engaphandle, ngokukodwa ukuba iquka amaqela okanye iindidi zentlalo.

Kwisithoba, abantwana baya kuba nako ukucinga ngokucokisekileyo kwaye bangathanda ukwabelana ngeengcamango zabo malunga nezifundo ezahlukeneyo. Ubuchule babo bokufunda nokubhala buya kuba nzima kakhulu, kwaye baya kufunda indlela yokusebenza ngamanani amaninzi, i-geometry kunye nenhlangano yedatha kwimathematika.

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Phuhliso loLuntu

Ihlabathi lezenhlalakahle labantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala livule ngeendlela ezingekacingelwa ngaphambili. Abaninzi baya kuba neefowuni kunye nobukhulu bezinga eliphezulu kwimidiya yoluntu. Oku (kunye nesinqwenelo esifanayo) kubangelwa ukuba basengozini kwiimpembelelo ongenakukwazi ukulawula, kuquka ukuxhatshazwa kwe-inthanethi kunye nomxholo wewebhu olungalunganga.

Ngelixa unako ukunqoba ezinye zezinto ngokusebenzisa ulawulo lwabazali , abanye, njengengcinezelo yontanga, bangadinga ukukhokelwa, ukukhuthazwa kunye nenkxaso.

Kwimeko elungileyo, abantwana abathandathu abathandana nabo banomdla ochanekileyo kunye noko kulungile okanye kakubi. Baya kuba nolwazi ngakumbi kuluntu njengoko befuna ukufumana indawo kwihlabathi elikhulu.

Kuyixesha lokufumanisa okukhulu ukuba unokuthatha inxaxheba kuyo:

• Ukubonisa uthando kumntwana wakho
• Ukuqaphela nokudumisa izinto ezifezekileyo
• Ukunikezela imisebenzi eninzi "abadala" kunye nemisebenzi
• Ukuthetha nomntwana wakho ngesikolo, abahlobo, iziganeko, iindaba kunye nezinto akhangele phambili kuzo
• Ukusebenzisa isiyalo ukukhokela umntwana wakho kunokuba ujeziswe, oku kunokunciphisa ukuzithemba komntwana
• Ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze izinto ezibandakanya umdlalo, ezobugcisa kunye neemeko zoluntu

> Umthombo:

> Amacandelo okuLawula nokuLawula izifo. "Ubuncinane boBuntwana (iminyaka yobudala ukuya ku-8 ukuya ku-8)." Atlanta, Georgia; hlaziywa ngoJanuwari 3, 2018.

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