Ubume benkcazelo yeNtandokazi yoMntwana oneminyaka eyi-9 ubudala, Amakhono kunye neZenzo
Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-9 uya kubonisa umdla kwaye akwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwisigqibo sokwenziwa kweentsapho, njengendawo yokuya eholide okanye ukutya okuzithengela ukutya. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 bayakuthanda ukucwangcisa iintsuku zabo kwaye banokuzonwabisa ngokucwangcisa ishedyuli yakhe kwisicwangciso.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 bahlala bezimeleyo kwaye banomdla kubantu nakwizinto ezingaphandle kweentsapho ezisondeleyo.
Ngelo xesha, abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 banokukwazi ukuphatha imisebenzi kunye nexanduva ekhaya.
Abazali kunye nabanakekeli kufuneka bahlawule ngokugqithiseleyo imizekelo ababeka ngayo umntwana wabo. I-9 yithuba lokuphuhliswa kwabantwana elizele utshintsho kunye nemingeni yabantwana. Baye kwinqanaba lokukhula kwimizimba kunye nemvakalelo kwaye baya kuthatha ubunzima obunzima kwaye bafuna umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nomsebenzi esikolweni.
Ukutya
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 baqala okanye bafika ebusheni , kwaye imiba enjengomfanekiso womzimba kunye neengxaki zokutya zingaqala ukufikelela kwabanye abantwana. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuba abazali bathathe umzekelo wokutya ukutya okunempilo , ukuzivocavoca rhoqo, kunye neminye imikhuba yokuphila enempilo yokubeka imizekelo abantwana babo abanokuyilandela.
Cinga ukuba indlela ozinyamekelayo ngayo kunye nempilo yakho inokuba yindlela ohlala ngayo umntwana wakho. Ukuba uchitha ixesha lakho lokukhulula ebhedeni libukela iTV kunye nokutya ukutya okungenampilo, amathuba omntwana wakho uya kwenza okufanayo.
Kuyafana nakwimo simo sengqondo sakho ngokutya kunye nomzimba wakho. Ukuba unobungozi obungalunganga kunye nokutya okanye uhlala uhlamba umzimba wakho, loo myalezo uza kuba nomthelela kumntwana wakho.
Ukulala
Kulula kakhulu ukuvumela ixesha lokulala ixesha elizayo xa umntwana wakho ekhula. Kodwa inyaniso, abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala basadinga iiyure ezili-10 ukuya kwe-11 zokulala.
Kwaye uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba ubuthongo bubalulekile ekukhuleni kwengqondo nangokwenyama.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uya kulala ngehora leshumi okanye kamva ebusuku kwaye uvuka ngo-6 ngentsimbi yesikolo, umzekelo, mhlawumbi akunako. (Kukho ukwahlukana komntu ukulala okungakanani umntwana akufunayo, okwenene; ukulinganisa ukuba umntwana wakho ulala ngokwaneleyo , khangela iimpawu ezifana nobunzima bokuvusa kusasa okanye ukugxila esikolweni.
Ngoko unamathele kwimikhwa emihle yokulala uze ulungise indlela yakho yokuhlwa ukuze umntwana wakho alele embhedeni. Njengokuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-9 ubudala unokufumana ukukhula komzimba kwaye unokubonakala ekhulile ngamanye amaxesha, usengumntwana omncinane kwaye ufuna ukulala okungakumbi kunomntwana oselula.
Imisebenzi
Ukuncedisa ngemisebenzi ejikelezayo kwindlu yindlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa abantwana ukuba babe noxanduva. Ukwenza imisebenzi inokukunceda nokwandisa ukuzithemba komntwana, kwaye kumncede abe nomuvo onjengoko wenza inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kwintsapho.
Abazali abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala bafuna ukuhlela imisebenzi ethile njengokuxubha amazinyo abo nokwenza imibhede yabo ibe yinto efunekayo yokuba banomsebenzi wokwenza imihla ngemihla. Imisebenzi yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala, enokudibaniswa nesibonelelo, ingaquka imisebenzi enjengokulayisha i-dishwasher okanye ukuthatha udoti.
Kakade, kunokubakho ukukhonkxa kumntwana wakho malunga nokwenza imisebenzi. Kodwa ukuba uqhubeka ugcizelela umyalezo wemisebenzi yinto yonke ilungu lendlu yakho elenzayo kwintsapho kwaye kulindeleke kuye, umntwana wakho uya kusetshenziselwa umgangatho. Kwaye ukuba unokwenza imisebenzi eyonwabisayo ngakumbi, yithi, ukubetha umculo xa uhlambulula kwaye uqiniseke ukuba unike umntanakho udumo oluninzi ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle, umntwana wakho akayi kukhononda.