Ukukhulelwa kungabakho ixesha elididekayo phakathi, kunye nabazali. Njengoko utshintsho lwasemntwaneni, kunjalo nomoya wakhe, umzimba, umdla, kunye neentsapho ezinokuthi zitshintshe. Nangona unokukhetha ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale encinci ngonaphakade, ubusuku buza, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ulungiselele. Nazi izinto abazali abafanele bazi ngaphambi kokuba umntwana ahlasele ubusuku. Yaye ungakhathazeki, ukuthetha kunye phakathi kwakho malunga nobuntwaba akudingeki ukuba ungakhathazeki, nje ngokuba ulungele.
Ubunzima bokusasazeka Okufanele Uwazi
I-Tweens ishintshana ngokwayo, kwaye loo nto ingenza izinto zibe nzima ngabo bangena ebusheni ngaphambi okanye emva koontanga babo. Amantombazana aqala ukufumana iimpawu zokuqala zokususela phakathi kweminyaka eyi-8 no-12. Abafana baqala kamva, ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kweminyaka engama-9 no-14. Ubushushu bokuqala bentshukumo bungabangela impembelelo enkulu kumntanakho, kwaye kufuneka ukwazi imingeni yakho umntwana unokujamelana nokuba ubusuku bufika ngokukhawuleza kungekudala. Xoxa ngezinto ezixhalabisa ngodokotela wakho wezingane, ukuze uncede uncedo lwakho lokuhlukunyezwa kwontanga, ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga kunye nokukhathazeka kwakho phakathi.
Ukuthetha Ngezo Zinguqulelo
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwakho konke malunga noshintsho, kwaye phakathi, utshintsho lunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba ungalindela ntoni, ngoko unokulungiselela umntwana wakho utshintsho oluza phambili kwaye uthethe naye malunga nosuku kunye nemingeni yakhe kunye nembuyekezo. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba abanye bahlengahlengisa lula ukutshintsha, ngelixa abanye befumana uxinzelelo kwaye bacinezelekile.
Yilungiselele ukuba neengxoxo ezininzi malunga nexesha lokukhulelwa, kunengxoxo enye ende. Yaye qinisekisa ukuba phakathi kwakho uyazi ukuba uhlale ukhona ukuthetha malunga nantoni na into enokumkhathaza.
Izibonelelo zamantombazana
Kukho inani lezinto ezifumanekayo kumantombazana afikelela ekufikeni.
Iincwadi kunye neekethi zivela kwiinkcukacha ezizeleyo ukuya kufaka kuphela iziseko. Qinisekisa ukuba yeyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu phakathi kwakho, uze uthenge ngeenxa zonke osebenzela kuye.
Izibonelelo zabafana
Kukho nje kungabonakali ukuba zininzi izixhobo zabafana abangena ebusheni njengoko kukho intombazana. Kodwa kuthatha kuphela umthombo ontle ukunika umntwana ulwazi, kunye neentembelo azifunayo.
Ukwenza kube lula
Kulula ukuba abantu abathathu babone kuphela izinto ezimbi malunga nokukhula, kunye nokutshintsha. Kodwa ukutshatyalaliswa akuyona yonke into embi. Qinisekisa ukuba ubonisa izinto ezintle zenguqu, ukukhula, ukuthatha uxanduva oluninzi, nokufunda izinto ezininzi.
Ezinye izinto
Akunakukhathazeka kwaye ujabulise ukubona ukuba phakathi kwakho uthatha umdla kumntu wesini esahlukileyo, ukuthandana, kunye nokukhula. Ubomi bwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, ngoko qiniseka ukuba ulungele ukutshintshwa kwangaphambili, ukuze uxoxe ngexabiso leentsapho, ulindelo, uxanduva, kunye nokunye.
Ngamantombazana
Amantombazana athatyathwa kukuba baya kufumana ithuba lokuqala xa besuka ekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuba uyilungiselela intombi yakho kumava phambi kwexesha, xa ungeke ube khona xa kufika ixesha.