Nantsi into ekufuneka uyibuke xa utshintsho luqala.
Ngexesha elithile phakathi kwexesha eliphakathi kweminyaka, inkwenkwe iya kuqala ukufumana amaxesha okubanjwa . Ulwalamano phakathi kwamakhwenkwe kunye nobuntwaba lunokuba nzima kumntwana kunye nabazali bakhe.
Ukwazi ukuba ungayibheka njani kunokuncincikisa ingqondo yakho kwaye uncede phakathi kwakho ngalezi zinguqu ezinzulu zomzimba nezomzwelo.
Ngezantsi zikhona ezinye zeempawu ezibonakalisa ukukhulelwa kwamakhwenkwe .
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ezi zigaba zingabonakala ngokuthe ngcembe, kwaye kungathatha iminyaka emininzi ukuba umntwana wakho ajikeleze zonke iindidi zobushushu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amakhwenkwe aqala ukutshatshaza ngexesha elithile phakathi kweminyaka eyi-9 no-14. Amantombazana aqala ukutshatyalaliswa phakathi kweminyaka eyi-8 no-12.
Utshintsho oluthile kwiintetho ngexesha loPhulo
- Iintlobo zoKhula: Unokujika unomnye uze uqaphele ukuba unyana wakho uyintshi okanye ubude obude ngaphezu kokugqibela. Nangona amantombazana e-7 kunye ne-8 bakala ahlala ekhupha abafana babo ubudala, abafana banokukhawuleza ukufumana esikolweni esiphakamileyo kwaye ukukhula ngokukhawuleza okuqhelekileyo akuqhelekanga.
- Izinwele Esibusweni: Ezi zikhwebu ezincinci zomlomo wengane yakho kunye neengxuma zingase zikhule ngokukhawuleza, zinyamezele kwaye zigqitywe. Unokuphuma kwindlu yokuhlambela ngolunye usuku kusasa kwaye unokumangalisa ngesicelo sokuthenga i-razor. Uninzi lwabafana bathanda lolu tshintsho kuba bajonga iintloko zobuso bubonakaliso bokwenene.
- Iigxala eziBanzi kunye neentloko ze-Chest: Ngokuqhelekileyo utshintsho olubuqili, ubunzima bomntwana wakho ophezulu buya kuqala ukuphuhlisa. Amagxa akhe aya kuba ngobanzi kwaye izihlunu zesifuba sakhe ziya kuchazwa ngakumbi. Xa ubona lo tshintsho, sebenzisa ithuba lokumkhuthaza ukuba asebenzise rhoqo. Isizathu esikhulu sokumgcina esisebenzayo!
- Iqumrhu elimnandi: Njengokuba ama-hormone akhula, abafana bayakuqala ukuthukuma ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunye nokuvumba komzimba kuba ngumba. Akunakuzibona ngokwakhe ekuqaleni kwaye kukulungele ukuba mnene xa usondela kwesi sifundo. Yithenge enye imodaka kwaye mxelele ukuba isitya sohla ngemihla sinokubaluleka.
- Iimpuphu kunye nokuqhekeka: Abanye abantwana baneengxaki ezininzi nge-acne kunabanye, kodwa phantse bonke abafana abaselula bayaphula ngeempumpi ngezikhathi ezithile. Oku kungenxa yokuba isikhumba sabo siba yi-oilier ngenxa yokwanda kwamahomoni. Mfundise indlela yokuhlamba igranti yakhe ngokucokisekileyo ukuze kuncitshiswe okanye kukuthintele intsimbi embi.
- Ubunzima bomzimba: Ukukhula kweenwele kwi-pubic kunye nasezindaweni eziphantsi komhlaba kuya kwenzeka ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Unyana wakho unokuba nemibuzo kwaye akanako. Makhe athathe iinqongo kule ndawo. Ngexesha elithile, uya kuqalisa ukukhula iinwele zesifuba kunye nezinye iinwele zomzimba ziya kuba zikhuni kwaye ngezinye izikhathi zibe mnyama.
- Ukukhula kwetekisi: Amathambo enyana akho akhula kwaye enye (ngokuqhelekileyo ngakwesobunxele) ingaxhoma ngaphantsi komnye njengoko ikhula. Oku kuqhelekileyo kwaye kwenzeka kunye namakhwenkwe amaninzi. Isikhumba sazo siyakumnyama, sincinci kwaye siqale sibe ne-follicle yezinwele ezincinci.
- Izilungiso kunye neeDreams eziManzi: Kuqhelekileyo ukuba abafana bafike ekufikeni ubuntwaba ukuba babe neendlela zokuzibandakanya kunye nokuphupha kwamaphupha. Le nto inokuba yinto enokuhlazeka ngayo yonyana wakho. Thetha ngaye kwaye uchaze ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye akukho nto ihlazo. Kwakhona, mazise ukuba uya kukwazi ukulawula njengoko ekhula.
- Utshintsho lwamazwi: Nangona kunokwenzeka kakhulu kwiimigangatho emva kokutshatyalaliswa, ilizwi lendodana yakho liya kuzinza . Ngokuqhelekileyo emva kokukhula kokukhula kuba ibhokisi lakhe lezwi likhule. Ekuqaleni, ilizwi lakhe lingahle lidibanise kwaye lenze ukuba abe neentloni.
Utshintsho lwabantwana kwiintombi ngexesha loPhulo
- Inomdla: Umntwana wakho unokuhlakulela esikolweni okanye akuxelele ngelinye ilanga ukuba unentombi okanye intombi. Unokubonisa unomdla omtsha ngokuba neentloni okanye ukhathazekile malunga nabantu abathile kwaye ungamthabatha ngothando.
- Utshintsho lweemeko : IiHormones kunye noshintsho kwingqondo yakhe kuya kubangela ukuba unyana wakho abe namahloni ngamanye amaxesha . Kuqhelekileyo kwaye kuya kuba nzima xa ekhula. Kubalulekile ukumvumela ukuba asebenze ngolu hlobo lwengqondo kwaye amnike indawo xa kuyimfuneko. Kufuneka ucele uncedo ukuba ucinga ukuba kukho ingxaki enkulu enjengeyokudandatheka.
- Ukuxhalabisa Ngeenguqu: Ukuxhalabisa okanye ukuzonwabisa malunga nokutshintsha kwakhe kuqhelekile. Eminye yezinto eziza kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kunokubangela ukuba unyana wakho akhathazeke kwaye azibuze ukuba 'uyinto evamile.' Abanye, njengamadevu kunye nemisipha, bangamenza avuyiswe gqitha kuba zibonakalisa ukuba uyaba ngumntu!
- Kuvaliwe kubazali: Nangona unyana wakho enokukuxelela yonke into eyenzekayo ngosuku lwakhe esikolweni esiprayimari, unokumfumana uncinci xa ungena ebusheni. Unokuva ezininzi 'Akukho nto.' xa ebuzwa oko kwenzeka esikolweni ngexesha lesidlo sakusasa kwaye unako ukuxhoma egumbini lakhe ngaphezu kokubukela iTV kunye nosapho. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuzama nokuthetha rhoqo kunye naye okanye ukumenza ahlale phantsi aze abukele umdlalo kunye. Le nqanaba kwaye ufuna ukugcina ubudlelwane bakho buqinile.