Xa umntwana wakho evuka phakathi kobusuku, mhlawumbi unesiqhelo sokumbuyisela ukulala. KuColeton kunye nam, kwakuxeliswa . Ndandisoloko ndamnceda ade ade alele. Ngeyure nganye, sasinomzekelo ofanelekileyo: uColeton waphaphama, ndammisela kwelinye icala, ndaye ndamanga intloko, waza wancinci - isithethe esihle, esilumkileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha wayevuka aze ahlasele, efuna ukumanga nokutshintsha. Njengamnandi njengolu hlobo, emva kweenyanga ezili-12 zale mbhiyozo yasebusuku / yehora, ndandifuna kakhulu utshintsho.
Njengokuba kubhalwe le ncwadi, ukufunda indlela yokuphula umbutho kwakuyimpumelelo, inkqubo ecingayo eyayifuna ukuzihlola. Ndafumanisa ukuba ndiphendula kuColeton ngokukhawuleza nangokungenakucinga ukuba ndambeka ebusweni ngaphambi kokuba enze isandi sangempela-wayeya kupheka nje, athande, okanye "athande" kwaye ndiza kumbeka. Ndaqala ukuqonda ukuba, ngezi ezininzi kwezi zihlandlo, wayeya kubuya elele ngaphandle kwam.
Ndingumlandeli we "ungaze uvumele umntwana wakho akhale" ulawulo, kwaye ndayithatha kakhulu. Into endiyiqondiyo, nokuba kunjalo, ukuba iintsana zenza izandi ekulala kwazo. Kwaye ezi zandi akuthethi ukuba umntwana uyakufuna. Iintsana zixhala, zixhaphaza, zihlutha, zikhuphe, zize zizikhala zilele.
Iintsana zinokunyamekela nangomhlengikazi ebuthongweni babo.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokunceda umntwana wakho alele ixesha elide kukuqinisekisa ukuba umehluko phakathi kokulala nokukhala. Xa wenza isandi: Yeka. Mamela. Yima. Peek. Njengoko uphulaphula ngokukhawuleza umsindo wakhe, kwaye umlinde, uya kufunda umahluko phakathi kokulala kunye nokuthi "Ndivuka kwaye ndiyakudinga" ngoku.
Xa ndafunda le ngcezu yolwazi lokuvula amehlo, ndaqala "ukulala" xa uColeton enza ingxolo yasebusuku. Ndandula ndiphulaphule ndize ndibukele - ndingagudluli isisu esisodwa - ade aqale ukwenza imisindo evukileyo. Olunye ixesha, akazange akwenze; Wabuyela ekulala!
Ingcamango, ke, kukuba ufunde xa kufuneka ukhethe umntwana wakho ukuze usondle ubusuku kwaye ungamvumela ukuba abuyele elele.
Eli lixesha apho ufuna ukuba ugxininise imvelo yakho kunye ne-intuition. Kulo xesha kufuneka uzame kunzima ukufunda indlela yokufunda iimpawu zomntwana wakho.
Kufuneka uphulaphule kwaye ubukele umntwana wakho ngokucophelela. Funda ukuhlula phakathi kwezi zandi zokulala kunye nokuvakala nokulamba. Ukuba uvukile kwaye ulambile, uya kufuna ukumondla ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uyasabela ngokukhawuleza xa elambile, uya kubuyela ngokulala ngokukhawuleza.
Ngoko, okona ngundoqo ukuphulaphula ngokunyamekileyo xa umntwana wakho enza ubusuku busuku: Ukuba wenza "ukulalisa" - makhe alale. Ukuba uthe wavuka ngokwenene - kha wuleza ngokukhawuleza.