Ukulungisa iingxaki zokulala ezincinci
Umfundi uyabuza:
"Intombi yam ineminyaka engama-2 ubudala kunye nobaba kwaye nditshintshana ngexesha lokulala. Senza isimiso sokuhlamba, iipajama, iincwadi, kwaye silala naye ade alele aze aphume egumbini. ukufumana oku kude kwaye sikulungele ukulala kwakhe ngokuzayo. (Ngokukodwa kunye nosana esendleleni!) Xa sele elele, uhlala elala ubusuku malunga neeyure ezili-11, ngamanye amaxesha avuke kanye kunye wehla kunye naye kwaye walala ngokulala kwakhona.Sinesango lomntwana emnyango wokhuseleko ngoba sinesitofu somthi. Ngoko umbuzo wam, ngaba simfumene kwaye simbuyisele embhedeni wakhe xa emele esangweni? Okanye simshiya apho size silinde ade abuyele embhedeni ... okanye yintoni? "
Ewe, kukho imiba emibini apha neemeko zakho, ngoko masizidlale.
Mhlawumbi umxelele izihlandlo ezizigidi ezifunekayo ukuba alele embhedeni kwaye mhlawumbi uye wambeka apho ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Uyazi ukuba yilapho ubuthongo bufanele kwenzeke, kodwa aluveki ngathi umkhwa ukhona ngokukhawuleza ukuba uthe wahlala esangweni. Amathuba kukuba, wenza enye yezinto ezimbini. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba utyhafile ukuma esangweni aze abuyele embhedeni wakhe ekugqibeleni (kwimeko apho andizange ndenze nto kuba ejongene nale meko ngokuphumelelayo) okanye uyalala ephantsi ngesango. Oku kuhle kakhulu. Ngoko, kumbono womzali, ngelixa lingafezekanga, liyavuma. Okwangoku...
Enye yezinto ezinkulu ngokuba ngumzali, nangona kunjalo, sikwazi ukuqala ukucinga ngaphambili. Siphucula kwaye siphumelele kule nto njengoko senza iimpazamo ezinemivuzo engapheliyo, kwaye, ngokwalo, ndicinga ukuba oku kusemthethweni ukubeka ityala kwi- Two Worryble ass .
Asinakulungele ukucinga kwangaphambili kwiminyaka emncinci kwaye sifuna ukulala / ukuthula / ukungcola kwangoku !
Ngoko ukucinga ngoku ngoku, ukhuselekile. Akakwazi ukuphuma esangweni kwaye akukho nzakalo eyona eyenziwa ngu-sleeping on the floor. Enyanisweni, ukulala kwisantya esingakhululekile apho angabanda khona enye yemiphumo engokwemvelo engamkhuthaza ukuba abuyele ebhedeni.
Ukucinga phambili, kunjalo, kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezinokuba yingxaki:
- Okokuqala, akakwazi ukunyuka okanye akhuphe isango phantsi ngoku, kodwa unokukwazi ukwenza njalo kwikamva elikufuphi. (Cinga phambili malunga nendlela oza kuyisingatha ngayo le ngxaki kwixesha elizayo ukuba liqhubeka - ufuna ukufaka ingcango emnyango wakhe?)
- Okwesibini, ukuba umisa umkhwa wokulala esangweni, uya kuba nalo mbutho kwaye kufuneka usebenze kunye naye ukuwuqhawula ekugqibeleni okanye ukujongana nayo ixesha elide lingagcina. (Ulungele ukujongana nalo ngoku ngokugqithisileyo xa unomntwana osemgangathweni.)
- Okwesithathu, usondele kwixesha lokuqeqeshwa kwamathambo kwaye ngelixa esenxiba i-diaper ukulala ngoku, ekugqibeleni uya kuba ngaphantsi kweengubo kwaye angamisa umbhede. Kwindlela elula ukukhusela umthamo ngaphezu komgangatho womgangatho wonke (nangona iincwadana zokuqeqeshwa ezilahlayo zingasombulula loo nto).
- Ekugqibeleni umyalezo othumela ngawo. Ukuba uyamxelela ngamagama akho afuneka ukuba aye kulala kwaye ukuba umbhede wakhe ulele ukulala kodwa umxelela ngezenzo zakho ukuba kulungile xa ehlala egumbini lakhe kwaye engenzi indawo, ngoko ufumana umyalezo odibeneyo .
Ngoku, abanye abazali bahle kakuhle kule meko yokugqibela kwaye isebenza kwiintsapho zabo.
Kodwa ukuxhalabisa kwam kukuba ngaba ebudeni be-2 ngoku kwaye elele ngokulala ngokukhawuleza xa ekhulile, unokugqiba ekubeni ekubeni ufanele ukuba abe egumbini lakhe kwaye akadingeki ukuba aye kulala, ukuze akwazi ukuhlala edlala egumbini lakhe. Njengoko ekhula kwaye ekhulile, ukuba loo nto isisigidimi esiyifumanayo, unokuba ngumnye walabo bantwana abaswele ukulala ngenxa yokuba unezinto ezininzi ezithandekayo ukwenza ekamelweni lakhe kwaye akaze athathe ixesha lokulala . (Ndithembele, oku kukuxhalabisa ngokwenene kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo, ngoko ke ukufumana imibutho yokulala enempilo ehamba ngoku iyanceda.)
Ngoko, ukuba ndibe nguwe, ndiya kuhamba ndibuye ndibuye ndibuyele embhedeni wakhe ngenye ixesha kunokumvumela ukuba eme esangweni.
Awuyi kubeka kuphela umkhwa wobuthongo obuhle kunye nobudlelwane bakhe, kodwa xa kufika usuku kwaye lixesha lokuthabatha isango ngenxa yokuba uyayidlula, uya kuziva unokukhuseleka ngakumbi ukuba uya kuhlala ulala embhedeni. Uya kuba nako ukubeka umzekelo omhle kumntakwabo omncinane okanye udadewabo kwaye oko kunokukwenza ukuba ixesha lokulala lilula lula elilandelayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ababini abangozicango. Ukuba oko kwenza ukuba azive ekhuselekile ngakumbi, kunjalo, ndiyakuchukumisa ukuhambisa umbhede wakhe kufuphi nesango / umnyango, kodwa ungasondelanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba angasebenzisa umbhede ukuze aqalise isango kwinkululeko.