Kanye njengoko uhlolisise rhoqo ukukhulelwa kwakho ugqirha okanye umbelethisi, umntwana wakho uya kuba nohambo olufanayo lokutyelela. Oku kwaziwa nangokunakekelwa kwabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunikwa ngumntwana wezilwanyana, umongikazi, okanye uncedisa ugqirha (PA).
Izinto ezibandakanyiweyo kwiNyamekelo yoBantwana
Ingcali yakho yezingane iya kufuna ukubona umntwana wakho okokuthiwa yinkwenkwe yentsana okanye kakuhle ukunakekelwa kwabantwana.
Ezi tyelelo zikwahlukana rhoqo ngexesha lokuqala kunyaka wakho wobomi. Zingaquka izinto ezinje:
- hlola isisindo
- intloko
- ubude
- imibuzo yokondla / imiba
- Uvavanyo lophuhliso jikelele ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabantwana
- iingxoxo malunga nokugonywa okanye ukugonywa
- eminye imibuzo yomzali
Inkqubo yoNakekelo loNyango lwaBantwana
Kukho iindidi ezahlukeneyo ezisetyenziselwa ukunyamekela umntwana. Nangona ishedyuli yokutyelela umntwana isenokubonakala ngathi:
- Iintsuku ezimbini-ezintathu emva kokukhutshwa
- Iiveki ezimbini
- Inyanga enye
- Iinyanga ezimbini
- Iinyanga ezintathu
- Iinyanga ezine
- Iinyanga ezintandathu
- Iinyanga e zithoba
- Unyaka omnye
Nangona kubonakala ngathi ukutyelela akuqalanga de kube emva kokuzalwa, akunjalo. Udokotela wakho wezilwanyana okanye umhlobo wabo uya kuhlangana nawe esibhedlele okanye kwisiko lokuzalwa emva nje kokubeleka. Kwaye nangaphambi kokuhlangana kwabo, umntwana wakho uya kunikwa uvavanyo olupheleleyo lomzimba ngugqirha okanye umbelethisi okanye umongikazi wezonyango, ukuze abone ukuba ngaba unonyameko olufunekayo.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ufune umnxeba wezingane phakathi kokuqeshwa kunye neengxaki okanye imibuzo.
Ukwenza Unonophelo Lwempilo Yakho Yincinci Yomntwana
Xa ufika kulezi zikhundla, fikela ngexesha uze uze ulungele ukuphendula imibuzo malunga nemikhwa yokutya yentsana, iipatheni zokulala, umsebenzi we-diaper , kunye nokuziphatha ngokubanzi.
Le yithuba elibalulekileyo lokuba ubuze imibuzo malunga nale miba kunye nokunye. Udokotela wakho wezilwanyana usetyenziswe kwimibandela eyahlukeneyo, kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhetha, ungakhathazeki ngabagweba malunga nemibuzo oyicelayo.
Ezi tyelelo ziindlela enkulu yokwakha ubudlelwane nabantu abanyamekela umntwana wakho. Oku kuya kusebenza xa umntwana wakho engaphili kakuhle, udokotela wezilwanyana okanye omnye ugqirha sele esazi ukuziphatha komntwana wakho "ngokuqhelekileyo" ekutyelelweni kwakhe xa beziva bengcono.
Ngexesha lo tyelelo lunomzekelo okanye ishedyuli, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba kukho ukuguquguquka. Unokucwangcisa kwakhona ukuhanjelwa ngokukhawuleza xa kuyimfuneko kwaye akufanele unganqikaze ukubiza udokotela wezingane ukuba uphendule imibuzo. Olu tyelelo lunokulungiswa ngokuxhomekeke kwizinto ezifunwa ngumntwana wakho ngeli xesha.
Ukuhlawula Ukunyamekela Abantwana
Unokuba uxhalabele ukuba uhambo lokunyamekela ulondolozo lwabantwana luya kuba nexabiso elininzi ekuhlawuleni. Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba ngo-Care Affordable Act (ACA) idluliselwa, kakuhle ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kuhlanganiswe i-100%. Akunakho ukuhlawula ngokukodwa ngenxa yokutyelela kwidokotela ophantsi kwezilwanyana ezi tyelelo. Injongo kukufumana ukungenelelo kwiingxaki zangaphambili, oko kukuthintela ukugula okungakumbi kunye nokunyanga okugqithisileyo kunye nokunyameka kamva.
Kufuneka ukhethe ootitshala besidanga okanye umntu ukuba anikezele umntwana umntwana kakuhle ngononophelo xa ekhulelwe. Unokufuna ukuqala ukujonga ngapha phakathi kokukhulelwa kwakho. Kukho izinto ezininzi zokucinga ngazo ngokukhetha umqeqeshi ofanelekileyo. Lo mntu unokukunceda wenze izigqibo kwintsana yakho ngaphambi kokuzalwa.