Umbuzo: " Umntwana wam oneminyaka eminyaka uqale ukukhuphuka kwisibhedlele ebusuku. Ndingamgcina njani ukhuselekile? "
Impendulo:
Qala ngokucinga ngokusingqongileyo kwimijikelezo emikhulu nangaphezulu, ukusuka kwisibhedlele ukuya emnyango. Okokuqala, isikhalazo. Kukho ukulahla bonke abo bumpers (ezo-oh-cute-cute tads pads ezisebenzisayo ukukhusela umntwana wakho ukuba angabhinqa intloko yakhe ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwisibhedlele).
Iibumpers zenza amatye amakhulu okunyuka kwabaqhubi. Kwakhona, thatha zonke izilwanyana ezinkulu, imithwalo, kunye nabaduduzi abanzima abasesikhwameni. Ezi zinto zinobungozi njengengozi yokuxhatshazwa xa umntwana wakho encinci. Kaloku ukuba ekhulile, ithikithi kwinkululeko.
Qala ngokuchazela umntwana wakho ukuba le yakhe yodwa, ikhuselekile, ibhedi ekhethekileyo kwaye alala khona ubusuku bonke, njengokuba uMama noTata benza embhedeni wabo. Emva koko, ukuba awukwenzi oko, hlengisa i-mattress ye-crib ukuze kubekwe kwisimo esingaphantsi komgangatho. Ukuba umatshini ophantsi kunye nokungahambi kwezixhobo zokukhuphuka akusayi kuphepheka ukuphunyuka, unokhetho oluthile.
Ukusebenzisa iiGates okanye iiNtshulo zoKhuseleko
Unokucinga ukuba uthengisa enye yeenethwekhi zokukhusela ezithengiswayo zentengiso ezifanelwe ngaphezulu kwesibhedlele njengedola elikhulu. Ezi netha zihlala zibonakala zifana nje nokubopha umntwana wakho, kodwa ziyisisombululo sethutyana (nazo zilungele ukugcina izilwanyana ezihambayo ziphuma kwi-crib).
Ukuba ukhuseleko lweetayitili akuyiyo isitayela sakho, qwalasela ukufaka isango ngasemnyango wakhe okanye usebenzise ikhava yokukhusela i-cookie yokunceda umntwana wakho angakwazi ukuvula. Ukuba uhamba le ndlela, kunjalo, qi niqiniseke ukuba igumbi lomntwana wakho alikhuselekanga ngokupheleleyo ngabantwana.
Njengoko umntwana wakho esondela ezimbini, uya kuqalisa ukudibanisa ukunyuka nokugxuma kunye nokuhleleka kokuwa kwaye unokuziqaphela ngokwakhe.
Unokukunceda kwinkqubo ngokumkhumbuza- "Khumbula indlela owawa ngayo waza wavala intloko yakho waza wakhala?"
Nantoni na oyenzayo, musa ukuyeka kwaye ubeke imilenze ejikeleze isikhala, njengabantu abathile. Ngenxa yokuba imilenze ingatshintshisa kwaye ibonakalise umgangatho ongekho phantsi, oku akusiyo isisombululo esihle sexesha elide.
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