Amacandelo okuLawula ukuziphatha kwabafundi besikolo
Ukumisa umntu oneminyaka engama-4 kubonisa imingeni ekhethekileyo. Asekho mncinane, kodwa engakhuli ngokwaneleyo ukuba abe "yinkwenkwe enkulu," abantwana abasesikolweni bafuna inkululeko engaphezulu kunokuba bayakwazi ukuyenza.
Nangona abantwana abaneminyaka engama-4 bahluka ngokubanzi ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhlisweni kwabo, ininzi yabo ibonisa ubuchule obuphawulekayo bokulandela imigaqo-ubuncinane xa befuna. Xa kuthelekiswa nabalingani babo abancinci, abaninzi babo banokuqonda ngokucacileyo kwimiphumo emibi .
Kodwa oko akubavumi ukuba bavavanye umda kunye nokuphula imithetho. Ukongezelela, unomdla oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala ukujongana neemvakalelo ezixhalabisayo ezinjengomsindo, ukuxhalabisa nokudumala. Ixinzelelo lwabo luvame ukukhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi.
Ukukhusela iingxaki zokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba ziqale
Xa kuziwa ekuqeqesheni umntu oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala, ukuthintela kungabikho icebo elifanelekileyo. Hlalani nenyathelo elilodwa ngokuzikhumbula iingxaki ezinokuba nzima kumntwana wakho.
Uninzi lwabadala abaneminyaka engama-4 ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabo xa belambile, bexakeke, okanye baxakeke. Ngoko ipakethi yokutya, vumela ukuphumla okuninzi, kwaye cwangcisa ukuphuma xa umntwana wakho enokwenzeka ukuba abe ngowona nto.
Yenza umgangatho wemihla ngemihla ukuze umntwana wakho azi oko kulindelwe kuye yonke imini. Abafundi besikolo bahamba phambili xa benesakhiwo esininzi .
Yenza Imigaqo Ecacileyo
Yakha imithetho yomzi ejongene nemibandela ebalulekileyo ofuna ukuyiqwalasela.
Gxininisa kwimicimbi yokhuseleko, njengokuthi, "Gcina isandla somntu omdala kwindawo yokupaka."
Ngeminyaka emine, abaninzi abantwana bayaziqhayisa ngokukwazi ukugqoka kunye nokuxubha amazinyo ngokuzimela. Kodwa kubalulekile ukubeka imida kwiintlobo zezinto umntwana wakho anokuzenza ngokwabo. Ukubonelela ngezikhumbuzo ezinje, "Cela uncedo ukuba ufuna ubisi obuninzi."
Thetha malunga nokulindela kwakho ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwiimeko ezintsha. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 kufuneka afunde uhlobo luni lokuziphatha olwamkelekileyo kwintlalo nganye. Cacisa ukuba ngelixa kubalulekile ukuthetha nge-whisper kwilayibrari, kulungile ukukhwaza umdlalo we-baseball.
Dumisani Ukuziphatha Okulungileyo
Thatha umntwana wakho ubulungile kwaye uyibeke apha xa unako. Ukunikezela indumiso ngokuthetha izinto ezinje, "Umsebenzi omhle ulinde ngokubekezela kumgca namhlanje," okanye "Ndiyabonga ngokudlala ngokuthula ngelixa ndisefowuni.
Xa umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba ufuna izinto ezintle, akayi kuba lula ukuba enze ngendlela. Ngaphezu koko, uya kukhuthazwa ukuba agcine umsebenzi omhle.
Ungayithobeli Ukuziphatha Okungafanelekanga
Ukungayithobeli ukuziphatha kakubi kungaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokunciphisa ukuziphatha okungenangqondo nokukhathazayo okuvame ukukhula kakuhle. Khangela enye indlela, yenza sengathi awuyiva nantoni na, okanye uhambe ngaphandle kwegumbi.
Emva koko, ngokukhawuleza xa ukuziphatha kuyeka, kunika ingqwalasela ngokukhawuleza kwakhona. Oku kuya kufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ukugcoba, ukucela, kunye nomsindo akuzona iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuqwalasela.
Yenza iiNkqubo zoNcedo
Nangona abanye abaneminyaka engama-4 basabela kakuhle kwiitshathi zesikhombi , abanye baye baphumelela kwiinkqubo zemivuzo engaphezulu.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akashukunyiswa ngabaxhasi bodwa, banikela ngeminye imivuzo ehlawulekayo kunye neendleko eziphantsi .
Ukuchonga iziphathamandla ezithile ofuna ukujongana nazo, ukususela ekusebenziseni ngokunyanisekileyo ukumbathisa ngaphambi kokuba i-timer ihambe. Emva koko, ukuba umntwana wakho ufinyelele injongo yakhe, mnike umvuzo olula oya kumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi omhle.
Sebenzisa ixesha lokuphuma
Xa umntwana wakho ephula umthetho, sebenzisa ixesha lokuphuma . Susa umntwana wakho kwimiba kwaye uyibeke endaweni yokuphuma kwimizuzu emine.
Ingaba yindlela enhle yokunceda umntwana wakho azinze umzimba wakhe kunye nengqondo yakhe. Injongo ephambili kufuneka ukuba imfundise ukuba asuse kwiimeko xa ekhungathekile okanye evuselelwe ngamandla ngaphambi kokungena enkingeni.
Susa amalungelo
Ukuthabatha amalungelo kunokuba ngumphumo ophumelelayo xa umntwana wakho enqaba ukuphuma ngexesha okanye xa ufuna iimpembelelo ezinkulu ngaphezu kwexesha elilodwa lomzuzu.
Thatha i-elektroniki okanye ukukhangela okhethekileyo epakini. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukususa ilungelo kwiimitha ezingama-30 kuninzi ixesha, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha unokudinga ukususa into yonke imihla.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Abantwana abaneminyaka emine bafunda izifundo ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo imihla ngemihla. Kwaye nangona uvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka uphinde uphinde ufunde izifundo ezifanayo, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho ufunda izakhono ezintsha.
Ngoko jonga ixesha elinokufundiswa ukubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba wenze ntoni endaweni yoko. Xa ehlaba ngenxa yokucaphuka, mfundisa indlela yokulawula umsindo wakhe . Yaye xa enqaba ukugubungela amazinyo ngenxa yokuba ibuhlungu kukuba lixesha lokulala, uthetha ngeendlela eziphilileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo ezingenakukhathazeka .
Njengoko umntwana wakho eqhubeka nokuphuhlisa uluntu, ukuqonda, uvakalelo kunye nomzimba, uya kuqala ukuqonda izakhono ezininzi. Kuze kube ngoko, xhasana nemizamo yakhe ekufundeni indlela yokulawula kakuhle ukuziphatha kwakhe.
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