Ubomi bomntwana buxhaswa ngenguqu-nokuba ngaba ulondolozo olusenyweni olutsha, isikolo okanye umntwana, umhlobo ohamba ngendlela, imisebenzi emitsha kwimisebenzi yasemakhaya okanye imeko eninzi okanye engathandeki kunabantwana, abantwana babo bonke ubudala bajamelana nokuguquka imihla ngemihla. Sekunjalo, umntwana ukhula xa eyazi into enokuyilindela - nangona engasithandi njalo. Ngokudala indawo ehleliweyo kumntwana wakho, unokunceda ukuba azive ekhuselekile kwaye ekhuselekile, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekukhuseleni iingxaki zokuziphatha .
Kutheni Ulungelelanisa Izinto
Ngokumisela nokulandela rhoqo isethi yemithetho kunye nemizila, unokuthi ubizwa ngokuba ngumzali "oqinileyo". Mkele esi sihloko. Abantwana bafuna le migaqo kunye nemizila ngezizathu ezininzi: ukuqonda imida kunye nemida, ukufunda ukuziphatha , ukuxhalabisa nokulibazisa ukuxhaswa kunye nokusebenzisana ngokufanelekileyo kunye nehlabathi elibangqongileyo, ukubiza ezimbalwa.
Ukongezelela, imimiselo ifundisa ngokuzimela. Emva kokuba umntwana wakho eqonda ukuba kusasa kusasa ngokuxubha amazinyo, ukugqoka, ukutya ukutya kwasekuseni size ulayishe isikhwama sakhe esikolweni, mhlawumbi akuyi ku funeka umkhumbule njalo - okanye umlandele ngaphandle emnyango, umemele ukuba abuyele wakhe wesikolo. Ukuzimela kungakhuthaza ukuzithemba komntwana wakho njengoko ethembele ekuzinyamekeleni.
Ukusekwa rhoqo
Ukuba usuku lomntwana wakho lunezakhiwo ezincinane kakhulu, qalisa utshintsho ngokukhawuleza.
Ukusebenzisa umgaqo ngokugxila kwinxalenye enye yosuku, njengehora okanye ezimbini phakathi kwexesha lokutya kunye nexesha lokulala. Uyazi kakuhle ukuba yimiphi imisebenzi efunekayo ukufezekiswa ngeli xesha, njengemigcobo yokupakisha, ukugqiba umsebenzi wesikolo, ukuhlamba kunye namazinyo okuxubha, ixesha lebali kunye nezibane, ngoko uququzelele imisebenzi ngendlela enengqiqo kwintsapho yakho.
Ukuba unayo "isikhululo somyalelo" endlwini yakho, yakha iphosta ephethe uluhlu lwemisebenzi eya kuyenzeka ngokulandelelana. Ungabandakanya iifoto zomntwana ngamnye owenza lo msebenzi ngendlela elungileyo ukuze ungabi nako ukukhokela kuwo xa sele uyazi kakuhle - ekushiye unako ukupakisha isidlo sasemini, uqedele imisebenzi yokusebenza kwaye uzilungiselele umhla olandelayo. Ingathatha nantoni na kwiiveki ezimbalwa ukuya kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ukuze abantwana baqhelane neziqhelo zabo.
Xa udala i-routine yakho, ungakhohlwa ukufaka ixesha elincinci lokuzonwabisa, njengexesha lebali okanye uxoxa ngosuku lwakho kunye. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukugxininisa kakhulu ekufezeni umphumo wokugqibela weendlela eziqhelekileyo ukuwela phezu kwamathuba okuxhuma njengentsapho.
Ukudala iMithetho yeNdlu
Ulwakhiwo lithetha ukuphunyezwa kwemithetho yentsapho . Le migaqo ifanele ibe icacile kwaye ikhethiweyo-njengamashishini obugcisa ahlale kwigumbi lokudlela okanye akukho Tshoni kude kube yinto eyenziwa ngumsebenzi wesikolo - kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo. Zifanele zibekwe ngaphambili, kwaye imimiselo emitsha ayifanele ibe yenziwe ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngayo kuqala.
Unokuphinda uxubushe ngemiphumo yokuphula le mithetho, ngoko umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba yintoni egcinwe ukuba wenza isigqibo esibi. Iingxaki ezinokuthi zithetha ukuba akukho mrhumo, akukho mdlalo wexesha okanye akukho imisebenzi yentlalo ngeveki.
Ukuphambuka kwiMithetho kunye neRoutine ngokuphumelelayo
Ezinye zezona zininzi ezingabikhoyolekayo zobomi bomntwana, xa abazali bakhe banquma ukuphosa iifestile ngaphandle kwefestile ngokumnandi, njengokuhlala ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubukele iinkwenkwezi zokudubula okanye ukudlala umdlalo webhodi ebusweni besikolo. Ngoko ke, abazali kufuneka babe nokuguquguquka okuncinane. Xa ugqiba ekubeni uphambuke kwimithetho okanye ngokuqhelekileyo, chaza kumntwana wakho ukuba kutheni ukwenza oko kwaye ukuba yinto ekhethekileyo, isiganeko esisodwa.
Ukongezelela, vumela ukutshintsha isakhiwo sekhaya njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula. Imithetho kunye neendlela ezifanelekileyo ezisemncinci kufuneka zixutywe ukuba zisebenzele umntwana osemtsha, ngokwemvelo.
Zonke iinyanga ezimbalwa, gxuma indlela umzi wakho owakhiwe ngayo kwaye wenze nayiphi na into efanelekileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, isakhiwo sesakhiwo siya kuphelisa ukulwa kwamandla , ukulungelelanisa intsapho yonke kwaye uncede umntwana wakho azive ekhuselekile kwaye azimeleyo-isiphumo esiphumelelayo seenyanga ezimbalwa zomzamo ojonge.