Ukunyamekela ukuziphatha kakubi kuyisicwangciso esisemthethweni sobuzali. Kubonisa umncinane wakho ukuba i-antics yakhe ayifumanekanga impendulo, oko kuthetha ukuba akayi kuba lula ukuphinda ukuziphatha ngaloo ndlela.
Nangona kunjalo, ngelixa unako ukhetha ukunyanzelela ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha , abanye bafanele bengahoywa. Ngaphandle kokungenelela okufanelekileyo, banokuguquka kwiingxaki ezininzi phantsi kweendlela.
Hlalani nibheke ezinye zezinto ezincinci-kodwa ezibalulekileyo zokuziphatha ezifanele zilungiswe njenge-ASAP.
Ukunyanisela inyaniso
Ekuqaleni, abancinci-ngokomzekelo, ukuxelela umngane ukuba angaqhuba imitha emizuzu engama-4 okanye axelele umntakwabo ukuba wayidla yonke imifuno yakhe yokutya xa engathinteli i-pea kwi-plate. Amanga amancinci amancinci ayingozi, kodwa ayenjalo ngokuqinisekileyo.
Yintoni ingxaki? Xa umntwana wakho esetyenziselwa ukuba azibukeke kangcono kumntu womnye umntu, ukulala kuhamba ngokuzenzekelayo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuqamba amanga kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, kwaye ekugqibeleni kukudala iingxaki ezinkulu ekhaya nasezikolweni.
Ngaphambi kokuba unqume indlela yokumisa oku kuziphatha kumathrekhi ayo, gcina ingqalelo ingakanani intsha yakho. Uneminyaka engama-2 no-4 ubudala, akanalo uluvo olunzulu malunga nokuba inyaniso iphelela phi na ukuqamba amanga, kwaye akayiqondi ngokwenene umlinganiselo phakathi kweeminqweno kunye nenyaniso.
Xa ekutshela ukuba wadlala kwi-swings kwindawo yokudlala ubusuku bonke, khumbula ukuba unokukholelwa ukuba wenza! Musa ukumjezisa ngokuqamba amanga, kodwa ngokumnene ummisele ngokumkhumbuza ukuba waya kwi-swings week-end eveki, kungekudala ebusuku xa ehluthwa ebhedini.
Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula-ephakathi kweminyaka engama-4-qalisa ukuchaza ukuba buxoki, kwaye uncede aqonde ukuba kutheni kubi.
Mdumise umntwana wakho ngokunyaniseka uze umkhuthaze ukuba athethe inyaniso , nangona xa kunokumfumana ingxaki. Ukufunda okwabelwana ngokufanayo "Umfana Okhanda Umlwane" unokumnceda uqonde ukuba kutheni ukunyaniseka kungonakalisa ngakumbi kunokuba uyazi.
Ukuphulaphula
Kungaphezu kokucaphukisa xa uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuva, kodwa uzenza ngathi akakwazi. Ingaba yingxaki kuba umntwana wakho unokuqala ukukukhangela ixesha lonke. Ukuba uyazi ukuba uya kuqhubeka emkhumbuza ngokugqithiseleyo, uya kuba nefuthe elincinci lokuphulaphula okokuqala xa uthetha .
Yindlela yakhe yokubuyisela amandla amancinci kwaye, ukuba ingashiywa ingagqithwanga, inokukhokelela ekubeni umntwana wakho unqabile . Ngoko, kubalulekile ukuqeqesha umntwana wakho ukuphulaphula okokuqala xa unikeza imiyalelo .
Xa ulungele ukunika isikhokelo, hamba uye kumntwana wakho. Beka isandla sakho ehlombe lakhe kwaye umxelele oko akumele akwenze. Ngaba akhangele kuwe kwaye aphendule ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuba akenzi oko ucelile, landela kunye nesiphumo . Ekugqibeleni, uya kubona ukuba ukuphulaphula okukhethiweyo akusebenzi.
Ukuphosa Izinto
Kuyinto enomdla kumntwana wakho ukufunda indlela yokuphosa; emva koko, abayizi kakuhle ubuncinane phantsi kweenyanga ezili-18 ubudala (kunye ezinye zingadlulanga emva koko).
Ngokwemvelo, uya kufuna ukuphonsa izinto aze abone imiphumo yesiganeko esiyichukumisayo esiyazi njengobunzima.
Xa kungumcimbi wokuphonsa isiqwenga sokutya apha naphandle, akuyona into enkulu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ayilungiswanga, unokugqiba ukuphonsa izinto ezingaphula iifestile okanye ezinye izinto ezilimaza umntu. Awudingi ukummisa ukuba angaphonsa izinto ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kunoko ukugxila ekumfundiseni oko angayiphosa kwaye apho kulungile ukuba ayilahle.
Isitoreji kwiibhola ze-foam ezingayi kubangela izingozi zangaphakathi, kwaye umfundise indlela yokudlala imidlalo yokuphonsa neebhontshi zeebhontshisi. Inqaku elipheleleyo kukumfundisa ngokufanelekileyo ukuphosa xa edibanisa ukuphosa.
Ukuphazamisa Abanye
Ngengqondo yomntwana wakho, into ayifunayo ukukuxelela into ebaluleke kakhulu kwihlabathi-akaqondi ukuba abanye abantu banokuba nezidingo ezibalulekileyo njengabo. Ngoko, nangona uxelele umntwana wakho ngaphaya kwelokuba ufanele alinde kude kube yimizuzwana yemvelo kwingxoxo kwaye uthethe ngokuthobeka, "Mxolele," akayi kuhlala ekhumbula ukuba okwangoku.
Ukuze uqhubeke nokusebenza ekuphazamiseni ukuphazamiseka , sebenzisana ndawonye ukuze wenze izibonakaliso azakuziqonda. Ukuba, umzekelo, ubeka isandla sakho ehlombe lakhe, kunokubonisa ukuba uyazifuna kwaye uya kuba naye kungekudala.
Ukukhulisa enye okanye iminwe emibili kuthetha ukuba uza kuba naye kwimizuzu emibini okanye emibini. Yenza uphawu lokumkhumbuza ukuba uphazamise ngokuzithobayo, njengokungqongqoza intloko yakho. Xa ekhumbula ukuqaphela le miqondiso kwaye ulinde inani elifanelekileyo lexesha ukuvumela ukuba uqedele ingxoxo okanye umsebenzi wakho, mdumise. Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kuya kuhamba ixesha elide ukuze aphazamise.
Qhubeka ukhumbule, nangona kunjalo, ngeli xesha lokufunda ukuba kufuneka ube neenjongo ezifanelekileyo zokukhula komntwana wakho. Xa ephakathi kweminyaka emi-3 okanye engama-4 ubudala, ungalindelanga ukuba akwazi ukulinda ngaphezu kwemizuzu emibini ukuba uyithathe ingqalelo. Njengoko ekhula, unako ukwandisa inani lexesha owenza ulinde ngaphambi kokuba uphendule ukuphazamiseka kwakhe.
Ngexesha lokuLawula ukuziphatha okubi
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ukunyamekela iimpawu ezithile kukuphendula okufanelekileyo. Abanye abantwana basabela ngokufanelekileyo kunoma nayiphi na ingqwalasela, nokuba ngaba ingqalelo engafanelekanga. Ngokungayihoxisi ukuziphatha okufunayo, ubonisa umntanakho ukuziphatha okubi , ukukhenkceza , kunye nomsindo ongenakufumana ingqalelo.
Ngeendlela zokuziphatha ezingafanelekanga ukungayihoyi, landela umphumo ongenamhlanje rhoqo xa umntwana wakho engenzi kakuhle. Khumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, iingxaki zokuziphatha ziba nzima ngakumbi ngaphambi kokuba ziphucule. Kodwa ngokungenelela ngononophelo, baya kuphelisa ixesha.
Ukuba unako, fumana bonke abanonophelo babantwana bakho kwiphepha elifanayo. Xa bobabini abazali, oogogo nomkhulu, ababoneleli ngeenkonzo zabantwana, kunye notitshala basebenzisa ulwimi olufanayo kunye nokungenelela, abantwana bafunda ngokukhawuleza.