Ukunyamekela ukuziphatha kakubi kuyindlela evumelekileyo yokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka idibaniswe nezinye izixhobo zokufundisa ukuze kusebenze. Ukuba ukhetha ukungayithobeli iimpawu ezithile, kufuneka ukuba yinxalenye yesicwangciso solawulo lokuziphatha ngokubanzi.
Iingcamango Ezingalindelekanga
Ukungahoyi nto akuthethi ukuba uyayihoxisa ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho. Kunoko, kuthetha ukuthintela indlela umntwana oziphatha ngayo.
Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kusetyenziswa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle kunye nesohlwayo ukuphazamisa ukuziphatha okubi. Ingqalelo ingaba yomelela enkulu kumntwana, nangona ingqalelo ingqalelo. Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba uxinekile xa uthe u-hayi kuye, kufuneka afunde iindlela ezifanelekileyo zoluntu zokusingatha uxinzelelo lwakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukungahoyi, kuyindlela enhle yokuphazamisa ukuziphatha ngokuqhubekayo kwaye kunokukunceda ukuba ugweme iingxaki zamandla . Kusenokwenzeka ukuba xa umntwana wakho ecula okanye ephosa phantsi, unethemba lokufumana ingqalelo. Ngoko, nokuba uthetha kuye kaninzi, "Yeka ukukhawuleza kwaye uzinqamle," unika ingqwalasela enokumomeleza ukuziphatha.
Ukungahoyiyo kunokunyusa izakhono zobomi ezithandathu ukuba uqeqesho lwakho lufanele lufundise umntwana wakho. Xa ungayinaki imizamo yomntwana wakho ukuba ingqalelo ngendlela engafanelekanga, uyambonisa ukuba iindlela zakhe aziphumelelanga.
Ukufundisa indlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo zakhe nokuziphatha ngokubalulekayo kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba uya kufumana izakhono afuna ukuba ngumntu omdala onoxanduva.
Ziziphi Iingcali Zikusho Ngokungahoyi
Nangona abazali abaninzi bevakalisa ukungonwabi ngokunyaniseka kokuziphatha kakubi komntwana, uphando lubonisa indlela enempilo nangendlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha.
Ngamanye amaxesha ubizwa ngokuba yiqhinga lokungahoywa, ukucetywa ukungahoywa okanye ukunyamekela, kuyindlela yokuziphatha eyamkeleka kakhulu kwiingcali ezininzi.
- I-American Academy ye-Pediatricians '"Isikhokelo soMyalelo oPheleleyo" sincoma, "ukungahoywa, ukususa okanye ukunqanda umzali ukunqanda ukuhanjiswa kwexesha okanye ubunzima bezenzo ezingathandekiyo."
- UDkt. William Sears ovela ku-AskDrSears.com uthi, "Ukunyamekela kukunceda umntwana wakho ahloniphe imida yomsebenzi wenkcazo yomzali (umzekelo," andizenzi iingxabano ezincinane ")."
- I-Oregon yezeMpilo neNzululwazi yoPhuhliso lwaBantwana kunye neZiko loKuHlaziya, ithi, "Ukucatshungulwa kweqhinga kukucetyiswa ngeendlela ezininzi ezidangeleyo / ezinokuzikhukhumeza."
Indlela yokwenza ukuthoba ukuphumelela
Ukungayithobeli ukuziphatha kakubi kuya kusebenza kuphela xa unobungane obuhle nomntwana wakho kunye nomntwana wakho ufumana "ixesha" kwixesha elizeleyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana uninzi lweendumiso kunye nokuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo ngokuziphatha okulungileyo, ukungahoywa kuya kuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokunciphisa ukuziphatha.
Khangela ukungahoywa njengendlela encinane yexesha . Esikhundleni sokuthumela umntwana wakho kwigumbi lakhe lokuphumla ngokusemthethweni, ungamnyelisa xa ehleli kwigumbi elinye. Ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kuqhubeka ngakumbi, unokuhlala umthumela ngokukhawuleza njengecebo lokugcina.
Thetha kwintombi yakho ngaphambi kwexesha lakho malunga nesicwangciso sakho sokunyamezela intlungu yakhe . Yenza kucace into enokuyenza ukuze uqwalasele kwakhona. Mxelele ukuba, "Xa uhlala uzinzile, ukuba ufuna ukuthetha malunga nokudabuka okanye ukuhlambalaza, sinokukwenza oko." Xa ehlalise, mdumise kwaye umncede ngokukhawuleza.
Intombi yakho inokufuna ukuba ufunde ezinye izakhono zokumnceda ukuhlangabezana neemvakalelo zakhe ngokufanelekileyo. Fundisa umntwana wakho ngeemvakalelo aze amncede afunde indlela yokuzivakalisa. Kwakhona, fundisa ulawulo lwengqumbo lomsindo ukuze afunde indlela yokuzihlaziya xa ekhungathekile.
Izilumkiso Ngokungahoyi
Inyaniso yokuba ukungahoywa kubonakala yenza ukuba intombi yakho iphathe kakubi kakhulu ekuqaleni, ithetha ukuba ukungahoywa kusebenza.
Ngokucacileyo, uxhatshazwa kukuba awuyi kunika ingqalelo ukuze ahambe kancane.
Ukuba unako ukugcina, ungasebenzisi ukungahoywa. Endaweni yoko, qwalasela ixesha okanye uthathe ilungelo . Ngaphandle koko, kuya kuqinisekiswa kuye ukuba ukukhwaza okukhulu okanye ukukhala ngokukrakra kuyindlela enhle yokufumana oko akufunayo.
Ukuba unomdla wokuba umntwana wakho unokuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo, funa uncedo lochwepheshe . Nangona kunjalo, ukuvutha komsindo, ukukhala kunye nokuziphatha okufuna ingqwalasela kuzo zonke iingxaki zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo eziya kuhamba kunye nokuziphatha okufanayo .