Indlela yokudala iPlani yoLawulo lweBehaviorial Management

Xa umntwana wakho ephuma, isicwangciso solawulo lokuziphatha singasombulula imiba ngokukhawuleza. Funda indlela yokudala osebenzayo ngala macebiso.

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Ukuchonga iingxaki zokufumana iingxaki

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukujongana neengxaki zokuziphatha komntwana wakho, kubalulekile ukuchonga ngokucacileyo ukuba yiziphi iimpawu eziyinkathazo. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bathetha into efana no "Johnny akabi."

Ukuzithetha kuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo ngoko kubalulekile ukuchaza indlela ethile yokuziphatha ofuna ukuyitshintsha. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa imiba ethile yokuziphatha, khetha ezintathu zokuziphatha ukulungisa kuqala.

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uneminyaka engama-4 ubudala ukhawula , utyhafa , uphosa umsindo , unqabe ukuthabatha amathoyizi akhe, kwaye akayi kulala embhedeni , anqume ukuba zeziphi iingxaki.

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Khetha izixhobo zokuLawula ngokufanelekileyo

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuziphatha ezingaqhelekanga ezingasetyenziswa ukujongana nokuziphatha okufanayo. Uhlobo lwesicwangciso soqeqesho luya kusebenza ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko zakho.

Nangona omnye umntwana engasabela kakuhle ukuba athathwe intshukela yakhe eyintandokazi ngosuku, omnye umntwana angasabela ngokufanelekileyo kwixesha eliphumayo. Cinga ngesimo sengqondo somntwana kunye nezicwangciso onokukwazi ukuzenza ngokulandelelana.

Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuphumeza imiphumo emihle yokuziphatha kakuhle. Ukudumisa , isatidi esicatshulwayo, okanye inkqubo yecandelo loqoqosho lombonakalo lingashukumisela umntwana wakho ukuba alandele imithetho. Thatha umntwana wakho ubulungile kwaye unikezele ngokuqinisekileyo okuqinisekileyo.

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Bhala phantsi iSicwangciso

Ukubhala phantsi isicwangciso sakho kuza kwandisa amathuba oya kulandela. Kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba ulungele ukujongana neengxaki zokuziphatha xa zivela.

Chaza indlela oya kuqinisa ngayo ukuziphatha kakuhle. Umzekelo, yonke ixesha umntwana wakho edlala kakuhle nomhlobo wakhe, udumise ukhetho lwakhe oluhle.

Emva koko, sigqibo malunga nendlela oya kuphendula ngayo xa eziphatha kakubi. Umzekelo, mbeke ngexesha elifutshane-xa ekhaba okanye ehlahlela.

Cacisa icebo kumntwana wakho ngokokuqonda. Zama ukuthetha into enjengale, "Ukususela ngoku, ukuba uhlala ulindile, uya kufuneka uhlale e-hall ukuze uphume ixesha." Ukuba ixesha liphuma elitsha kumntwana wakho, unokuqhubeka uchaza oko kuphuma khona.

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Ukuphonononga iSicwangciso kunye nabanye abaNonophelo

Xa bonke abantwana abanonophelo balandela isicwangciso esifanayo sokuziphatha, utshintsho lokuziphatha luya kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. Zama ukuthatha ootitshala, ababoneleli bezinsuku, oogogo nomkhulu, abazali abangabikhoyo, kunye nabanye abantu abadala abadlala indima enkulu ebomini babantwana bakho ebhodini.

Xa bonke abadala basebenzisa ulwimi olufanayo, oko kuya kusebenza. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba bonke abanonophelo bathi, "Amazinyo afuna ukuhlafuna," njengesikhumbuzo xa umntwana wakho ebetha, umyalezo uya kucima ngokukhawuleza.

Nika iikopi zesicwangciso esibhaliweyo kwabanye abanonophelo. Ukuba bazimisele ukulinganisela oko kusebenzayo noko kungavumelekanga ukutshintsha isicwangciso njengoko kuyimfuneko.

Xoxa omnye nomnye malunga nendlela umntwana wakho akwenza ngayo. Thetha malunga naluphi na utshintsho obonayo kwaye uxoxe ngendlela izicwangciso zakho zokuziphatha ezisebenza ngayo.

Ukubambisana kunokuba yintloko kwisicwangciso esihle sokuziphatha. Ukuba wonk 'ubani angayilandela ngemiphumo ngalinye ixesha elihle umntwana wakho ephosakeleyo, iingxaki zokuziphatha komntwana wakho zinokuphucula.

Hlaziya kwakhona isicwangciso njengoko kuyimfuneko. Xa ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuphucula, unokufuna ukhetho olunye ukulungisa.

Ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kungaphenduli kakuhle kwisicwangciso, shintsha isicwangciso sakho. Zama umphumo ohlukile okanye umsebenzi ekufundiseni umntwana wakho izakhono ezintsha. Indlela entsha inokukunceda ukuphelisa ukuziphatha kakubi.