'Ixesha' Lonke 'linganciphisa i-'ID Out'
Ukuba nolwalamano oluhle, oluhle kunye nomntwana wakho kubalulekile kwizizathu ezininzi-kwanokuba uqeqesho. Xa unobungozi obuhle, umntwana wakho uya kuzama ukwenza okusemandleni akhe phantsi kobunkokheli bakho.
Emva kwakho konke, ngaba uya kukhuthazwa ngakumbi ngumphathi ongeyithandi okanye umphathi oyintloko owamhlonelayo?
Ukunika abantwana iintsuku zemihla ngemihla yokunakekisa okunciphisa iingxaki zokuziphatha.
Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ufanele uzinikele kwiiyure ezivuzayo kumntwana wakho. Endaweni yoko, ixesha lokubaluleka litshixo ekuqiniseni uxanduva lwakho.
Ingqalelo Efanelekileyo Inceda
Xa abantwana befumana ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokunakekelwa kwempilo, ukunyamekela, banciphisa indlela abazijonga ngayo . Abantwana abanamathuba amaninzi okubuza, babuze umbuzo ofanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, okanye baqale ukukrokra kubantwana babo xa bekunikwa iindleko eziqhelekileyo zengqalelo efanelekileyo.
Ingqwalasela entle yenza nemiphumo emibi ngakumbi. Abantwana baphendula bhetele xa befumana ixesha "rhoqo".
Umntwana ongenakufumana ingqwalasela eninzi akanakukhathalela xa ethunyelwa ngexesha lokuphuma. Kwaye ukukhetha ukunyaniseka akuyi kusebenza xa umntwana wakho evakalelwa kukuba wayengayithobeli ixesha elide.
Ukongezelela, ingqwalasela enokumnceda inokwakha ubuhlobo obuhle nomntwana wakho. Xa unesibophelelo esiqinileyo, iziphumo ezintle , ezifana nokudumisa , ziya kusebenza ngakumbi.
Ukubonelela ngeengxaki zemihla ngemihla
Nika ngamnye umntwana ngemizuzu engama-10 ukuya kwe-15 yengqwalasela yakho engabonakaliyo ngalunye usuku. Kwabazali abathile, oko akunakuvakala ngathi kuninzi. Kwabanye, ingakumbi abazali abanabantwana abaninzi, ukunika umntwana ngesinye ixesha kunokuba ngumceli mngeni.
Beka eceleni ixesha lokwenza umsebenzi kunye.
Gwema ukusebenzisa i-electronics, efana nokudlala umdlalo wevidiyo, ngenxa yokuba ixesha lakho kunye kunye nento yokwenza ukuba usebenzisane.
Dlala umdlalo webhodi, ujoyine umdlalo ocingayo, okanye udlale kunye nemidlalo yamantombazana yakho kunye. Kubantwana abadala, hamba ukuhamba okanye uchithe ixesha lokuthetha. Xa kunokwenzeka, vumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe umsebenzi.
Iingcebiso zokwenza ixesha lakho liphumelelane
- Susa iziphazamiso ngexesha lakho kunye . Ukucima ithelevishini, hlukanisa nabanye abantwana ekhaya xa ukhuselekile ukwenza njalo, uze uthulise i-smartphone yakho-yimizuzu embalwa nje. Bonisa umntwanakho ukuba unengqwalasela yakho epheleleyo kwaye engachangekanga.
- Gwema ukubuza imibuzo emininzi ngexesha lakho kunye. Ukuthi, "Nguwuphi umbala?" Unokwenza umntwana wakho abe nemvakalelo njengokuba kufuneka enze. Kwaye kubuza imibuzo enjengale, "Kwakunjani isikolo namhlanje," kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho avaliwe ukuba ungebi kakhulu.
- Igalelo kumdlalo omncinci wabantwana . Yiba ngumdlali wezemidlalo onika umdlalo ngokudlala. Yithi, "Yabona, ubeke ibhethi eluphahleni," esikhundleni sokuba, "Kutheni ungakwenza oko?"
- Vumela ukucinga kwengane yakho isebenze . Melana nomnqweno wokulungisa umntwana ozenzayo. Ukuba ufuna ukubala umbala wendlovu okanye uthi iinkomo zindiza iindiza, musa ukuphikisana. Kunoko, yithi, "Hayi, yindlovu enhle eluhlaza," okanye "Lezo nkomo zibaqhubi!"
Ukuyithintela Imingcipheko Yokunakekelwa Okulungileyo
Kukho amaxesha apho uphazamiseka ngokuziphatha komntwana wakho ongafuni ukuchitha naliphi na ixesha kunye. Unokuba usenokucinga ukuba umntwana wakho akafanelekanga ngexesha elilodwa.
Kodwa, kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokwakha ulwalamano oluhle. Ngokochitha ixesha kunye nomntwana wakho nangona unobungozi.
Kubazali abanabantwana abaningana, kukulungele umzali ngamnye ukuba athathe ixesha kunye nomntwana ngamnye. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka imihla ngemihla, cinga ukuzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ngamnye uqwalaselwe ngabanye kumntwana omnye umhla ngamnye.
Zama ukubukela ingqwalasela efanelekileyo njengotyalo-mali.
Ukubeka ixesha elingaphezulu kunokukugcina ekufuneka ubeke ixesha elongezelelweyo lokumangalela umntwana wakho kamva.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa imiba yokuziphatha ngexesha lakho kunye, ungaphendula ngendlela oqhelekileyo. Imiba encinane yokuziphatha, efana nokucwina , cinga ukungazihoxisi ukuziphatha. Imiba enkulu yokuziphatha ingadinga ixesha elifutshane.
Xa ubeka ixesha elifanelekileyo lomgangatho kunye, umntwana wakho uya kujonga ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe. Yaye uya kuba nako ukulandela imigaqo kwaye uphulaphule izikhokelo zakho. Kwaye xa ufanele ufune ukumnika imiphumo emibi, baya kuba nokusebenza xa sele unikeze umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale engqalelo.