Jonga indlela uqeqesho olufundisa ngayo abantwana ukuba babe ngabantu abadala
Ukulungiswa akukona nje ngokunika abantwana imiphumo. Kunoko, kuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bazuza izakhono abayidingayo ukuba babe ngabantu abadala.
Zininzi iintlobo zokuqeqesha kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuba ngumzali. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, kungakhathaliseki uhlobo loqeqesho olusetyenziswa ngumzali, uqeqesho lunika abantwana inzuzo ezininzi.
Uqeqesho luyabancedisa abantwana ukuba baphathe ukukhathazeka
Kholwa okanye akunjalo, abantwana abafuni ukulawula.
Bavame ukuvavanya imingcele ukuze baqinisekise ukuba abanonophelo abanokuzigcina bekhuselekile. Xa abantu abadala banikela ngemiphumo emihle kunye nemiphumo emibi , abantwana bayakhula baze bafunde.
Abantwana abanamava avumelekile bahlala bexhalabile kuba kufuneka benze izigqibo ezindala. Ukungabikho kokukhokelwa kunye nokungabikho kobunkokheli kunzima kakhulu kubantwana.
Iimfundiso zokuqeqesha Indlela yokwenza izinto ezilungileyo
Uqeqesho olufanelekileyo lufundisa abantwana ukuba benze ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Umzekelo, xa umntwana elahlekelwa ngamalungelo akhe ebhayisekile ukugibela endleleni, ufunda indlela yokwenza ukhetho olukhuselekileyo ngokuzayo.
Ukuqeqeshwa okunempilo kufundisa abantwana iindlela zokufumana iimfuno zabo. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde izakhono zokuxazulula iingxaki , ukulawula ukunyanzelisa, kunye nezakhono zokuzilawula ekufundisweni okufanelekileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa umahluko phakathi kwemiphumo kunye nezohlwayo . Xa abantwana beqeqeshwa ngemiphumo efanelekileyo bafunda kwiimpazamo zabo.
Noko ke, izigwebo zivame ukufundisa abantwana ukuba abazali babo bayayithetha okanye bafunda ukuba 'bangabanjwanga' xa bephosakele.
Uqeqesho lwabafundi abantwana ukuLawula iimvakalelo
Xa umntwana efumana ixesha lokuphuma emva kokubetha umntakwabo, ufunda izakhono eziya kumnceda ukulawula umsindo wakhe kangcono kwixesha elizayo.
Injongo yokuphuma kwexesha kufuneka ukuba ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba azibeke ekuphumeni xa ehlutywa ngaphambi kokungena enkingeni.
Ezinye izicwangciso zokuziphatha, ezifana nokudumisa , nazo zingafundisa abantwana ukuba bajongane njani neemvakalelo . Xa uthi, "Usebenza kanzima ukwakha loo nqababa nangona kunzima ukwenza. Gcina umsebenzi omhle, "umntwana wakho ufunda ngokubaluleka kokunyamezela ukuxhalabisa.
Ukunyamekela ukuziphatha kakubi kungakwazi ukufundisa abantwana ngendlela efanelekileyo yokulawula ukukhungatheka kwabo. Ukuba unqabile ukunika ingqumbo, umntwana wakho uya kufunda ukuba akuyona indlela efanelekileyo yokufumana iimfuno zakhe. Xa ungayinaki ukucwina, umntwana wakho uya kufunda ukuba ukucoca kungasitshintshi ukuziphatha kwakho.
Uqeqesho lugcina abantwana bekhuselekile
Injongo ephambili yokuqeqesha kufuneka ibe kukugcina abantwana bekhuselekile. Oku kubandakanya imiba ephambili yokhuseleko, njengokujonga iindlela zombini ngaphambi kokuwela indlela. Kufuneka kube nemiphumo xa umntwana wakho engathathi amanyathelo okukhusela okufanelekileyo.
Ulungiso kufuneka lujongane nezinye iingozi zempilo, ezifana nokuthintela ukukhuluphala. Ukuba uvumela umntwana wakho ukuba adle into ayifunayo, uya kuba nobunzima bezempilo. Kubalulekile ukubeka imida enempilo kwaye unikele ngemfundo ukunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukwenza ukhetho oluphilileyo.
Cacisa isizathu esisekelwe kwimithetho ukuze umntwana wakho aqonde imicimbi yokhuseleko. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Yeka ukuxuma," xa umntwana wakho eqaqa embhedeni, xelela ukuba kutheni ingxaki. Yithi, "Unokuwa uze ujike intloko yakho.
Xa umntwana wakho efunda ngezizathu zemithetho yakho, kwaye uyayiqonda ingozi ethile yokhuseleko, uya kuba nokuqwalasela ingozi yokuphepha xa ungekho khona ukuba umxelele ukuba wenzeni.