Abaqeqeshi babazali bavela njengendlela entsha yokuba abazali bafumane inkxaso kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zomzali. Ngokungafani neengqondo ze-psychotherapists eziphatha izifo zempilo yengqondo, abaqeqeshi baziphatha ngokungakumbi njengabacebisi. Banikeza izixhobo, iingcamango, kunye nenkxaso ngaphandle kokuphathwa kweengxaki, njenge-ADHD okanye ukuxinezeleka.
Ndiyazi njani ukuba ndifuna umqeqeshi?
Abaqeqeshi babazali banokunceda ngemiba eyahlukeneyo.
Nazi iinkonzo ezimbalwa umqeqeshi womzali unokukwazi ukukunika:
- Iingxaki zokuziphatha - kukunceda ufumane iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokujongana nemiba enjengobundlobongela , ukuxabana nomntakwabo kunye nokungahloneli .
- Imiba engumzali oxininise uxinzelelo-fumana iindlela zokuzinyamekela nokulawula uxinzelelo lwakho.
- Iindlela ezilungileyo zokuba ngumzali- zinokukulandela ngokulandela iindlela eziphambili zophando ngokubhekiselele kwimicimbi enjengomsebenzi wasekhaya, i-electronics, kunye nokuzilolonga.
- Imisebenzi yokuphuhlisa-imibandela exhasa ukukhula komzimba, ngokomzwelo kunye nentlalo.
- Ukuba ngumzali ngexesha lokuguquka okanye inkathazo -nceda ube ngumzali ongcono kakhulu ngexesha lobunzima okanye ubunzima, njengokuqhawula okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo.
- Imibuzo yabazali-iphendula imibuzo eyahlukahlukeneyo malunga neendlela ezifanelekileyo zokuba ngumzali.
- Iingxaki ezifanelekileyo -nceda wenze isicwangciso sokujongana nemiba yokunakekela abantwana okanye iingxaki zemfundo.
IiNkonzo zinikezelwa njani?
Abanye abaqeqeshi abazali baya kumakhaya omzali kwaye banike ingxelo xa unakekela umntwana wakho.
Abanye abaqeqeshi badibana nabazali naphi na, kubandakanywa noluntu, okanye kwiofisi yakho. Abanye abaqeqeshi abazali malunga neenkonzo ngefowuni, i-imeyili okanye ngekomfa yevidiyo.
Kuye kuwe ukufumanisa uluphi uhlobo lweenkonzo oluya kunenzuzo kuwe. Nangona abanye abazali bekunwaba nomqeqeshi banokufowuna kwifowuni ngehora langokuhlwa, abanye abantu bathanda iintlanganiso ebomini kuphela.
Ixabiso elingakanani Umqeqeshi wabazali?
Abaqeqeshi bazisa amanani abo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, unokulindela ukuhlawula kwindawo ejikeleze i-$ 100 ngeyure, kodwa imali iyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumqeqeshi kunye nommandla ohlala kuyo.
Iinkampani zomshuwalense azifihla iindleko zabaqeqeshi zabazali. Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unempilo yengqondo okanye ingxaki yentuthuko, unokufumana ilungelo lokufumana iinkonzo ezifunyenwe yinshurensi yakho yempilo. Thetha ugqirha, umntwana wezingane zakho, okanye inkampani yakho yomshuwalense ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ucinga ukuba unokufanelekela lolu hlobo lwenkonzo.
Yintoni endimele ndiyifunde kuMqeqeshi wabazali?
Nangona kukho iiprogram zokuqinisekisa abazali, abaninzi abaqeqeshi abaqinisekisiweyo. Abanye babo baneekholeji zeekholeji kunye namava okusebenza njengabagqirha okanye ootitshala, kodwa abanye banamabanga ambalwa. Ukubuza malunga naluphi uhlobo lwamava, uqeqesho, okanye isatifikethi umqeqeshi ngaphambi kokuba enze naziphi na izigqibo.
Kubalulekile ukufumana umqeqeshi oziva ukhululekile ukuthetha ngezinto ezahlukeneyo zomzali. Ulwalamano oluvulekileyo nolunyanisekileyo luyisinyathelo esibalulekileyo sokufumana umntu onokukunceda ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho.
Buza imibuzo malunga nemigaqo-nkqubo yomqeqeshi ngokuphathelele imfihlo kunye nephepha.
Qiniseka ukuba umntu osebenza naye uya kugcina ingxoxo yakho ngasese.
Ingaba unethemba lokuba ukhetha ukudibana nomqeqeshi ubuso nobuso, okanye ufuna umntu othetha naye ngaphezu kwefowuni, ukukhangela ngokukhawuleza kwi-intanethi kunokukunceda ufumane iinkonzo ezilungileyo kakhulu kuwe. Abaninzi babo banikela ukubonisana ngokukhululeka kokuqala kunye nengxoxo esheshayo inokukunceda ukuba unqume ukuba loo mqeqeshi ungumdlalo ofanelekileyo kwiimfuno zakho.