Ukuchonga ukungaziphathi kakuhle okuqhelekileyo kuyo yonke le minyaka
Abantwana kufuneka baphule imithetho ngamanye amaxesha. Imida yokuvavanya yindlela abayifunayo ngayo kunye nehlabathi. Imiphumo obaphayo ifundisa izifundo ezibalulekileyo zokuphila.
Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, iingxaki zokuziphatha zingaba ngumqondiso wenkinga ebalulekileyo. Nantsi indlela yokuxelela ukuba ukuziphatha kakubi komntwana kwakho kungena kwindawo 'yeengxaki zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo.'
Iimpawu zoMkiso weNgxaki enkulu yokuziphatha
Xa kuziwa ukwahlula phakathi kweengxaki eziqhelekileyo nezingaqhelekanga zokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukwazi malunga nophuhliso lwabantwana. Into eqhelekileyo ukuba isikolo sokufundela esikolweni asiqhelekanga kwintlekele.
Ezinye izibonakaliso eziqhelekileyo ezingabonakalisa iingxaki zokuziphatha ezinzulu ziquka:
- Ubunzima bokulawula ukuvutha komsindo - nangona kungokwemvelo kubafundi bezemfundo ukuba bahlale bexhala , abantwana abadala kufuneka bakwazi ukujamelana neemvakalelo zabo ngendlela efanelekileyo yoluntu. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukulawula umsindo wakhe, ukukhungatheka, okanye ukudumala ngendlela efanelekileyo, unokufumana ingxaki engqondweni.
- Ubunzima bokulawula iimpembelelo - Ukulawula umgudu kuqhubeka ngokukhawuleza ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Umntwana oba nomsindo emva kokuqalisa isikolo, okanye umntwana othungela utitshala wakhe njengomntwana, mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezingcono.
- Indlela yokuziphatha engaphenduliyo ukuziphatha - Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana baphinde baphendule iimpazamo zabo ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze babone ukuba ngaba umzali uya kulandela ngokuziphatha. Kodwa, akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana abonise ukuziphatha okufanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba usebenzisa isicelo esifanayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka ebonisa ukungalunganga okufanayo kungakhathaliseki nemiphumo, kunokuba yingxaki.
- Ukuziphatha okuphazamisa isikolo - Ukuziphatha kakubi okuphazamisa imfundo yengane yakho kunokubonisa inkathazo yokuziphatha ephantsi . Ukuthunyelwa eklasini, ukulwa kwi-recess, kunye nobunzima bokuhlala kumsebenzi yizo zonke izibonakaliso ezinokuyilumkiso.
- Ukuziphatha okuphazamisa intsebenziswano yentlalo - Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana babe neentlobo kunye noontanga, kodwa ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kumthinte ukuba abe nabahlobo, yingxaki. Abantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukuhlakulela nokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kunye neontanga zabo.
- Ukuzilimaza okanye ukuthetha ngokuzibulala - Nayiphi na umntwana okhanda intloko yakhe, ezitshisa yena, okanye ukuzihlahlela ngokwakhe kufuneka ahlolwe ngumqeqeshi wezempilo yengqondo . Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ahlolwe ngutitshala xa kukho nayiphi na intetho ngokuzibulala.
- Iziphathamandla zesondo ezingenakuphuhliswa kakuhle - Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukwazi ngesini esahlukileyo kunye nokufuna ukwazi apho abantwana bevela khona. Kodwa ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini akufanele kube nzima, nangaliphi na iminyaka.
Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kubafundi base-Preschoolers (iminyaka emi-4 kuya kwe-5 ubudala)
Njengokuba abantwana besikolo besikolo bafuna ukuzimela, kuyaqhelekile ukuba baphikisane kwaye basebenzise ilungelo labo lokuthi, "hayi." Ngokuqhelekileyo bachithe phakathi kokufuna ukuba bayinkwenkwe enkulu abanokwenza konke ngokwabo, ukusebenzisa intetho yabantwana ukuba bafune uncedo kunye msebenzi olula.
Abafundi basesikolweni bangabonakalisa ukukhawuleza kodwa bafanele bafumane ukulawula ngaphezulu iimvakalelo zabo kunye neziphumo zabo xa kuthelekiswa nabaselula. Naliphi na ukukrakra komsindo kweli nqanaba kufuneka kube mfutshane kwaye ungaphantsi kunomncinci weminyaka.
Abantwana abane abaneminyaka emihlanu nabaneminyaka emihlanu bangabonakalisa ubunzima obuncinane, kodwa bafanele bafunde ngakumbi indlela yokusebenzisa amagama abo endaweni yobundlobongela.
Ixesha lokuphuma liyinkqubo enkulu yokuqeqeshwa kwabafundi basesikolweni.
Bafuna ukuqwalaselwa kwaye babasuse kwisenzo kunokuba ngumphumo omkhulu. Ukunyamekela ukuziphatha kakubi kungenye indlela efanelekileyo yokuqeqesha abafundi.
Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwiBanga leSikolo sabantwana (iminyaka-6 ukuya kwe-9 ubudala)
Njengabantwana bebanga lesikolo bathatha uxanduva oluninzi, bahlala befuna inkululeko engakumbi kunokuba bakwazi ukuyenza. Baya kuthi bafune isixa esilungileyo senkxaso xa kuthethwa imisebenzi yokusebenza, ukugqiba umsebenzi wabo wesikolo nokunyamekela ucoceko lwabo.
Njengoko baqala ukuxazulula iingxaki zabo kwaye bazame imisebenzi emitsha, banokuba nzima ukujongana nokungaphumeleli. Abafundi beBanga lesikolo badla ngokuncinane uncedo olujongene neemvakalelo ezingenakukhathazeka , njengokuxhalabisa kunye nokuxhalaba, kwaye kuyaqheleke ukuba bangabi nako ukulawula ukunyanzelisa.
Iifom zemivuzo zingasebenza kakhulu kule minyaka. Sebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha ezilungileyo, ezivuza umgangatho wokuziphatha kakuhle, kwaye uphumelele kwimiphumo emihle xa imithetho iphukile. Ukubonelela ngamathuba omntwana wakho ukuba azenzele izigqibo ezintle, ngelixa enika izikhokelo ezininzi.
Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwiTweens (iminyaka eyi-10 ukuya kwe-12 ubudala)
Xa abantwana bebetha iminyaka engamawaka, ukuzimela kwabo ngokuqhelekileyo kubangelwa "isimo sengqondo" sabo kubazali babo. Kuqhelekile ukuba i-tween ibe yinto ephikisayo kunye neengxabano njengoko iqala ukuzama ukuhlukana nabazali babo.
I-Tween ingalwa nobunzima bezentlalo kwaye bangabika ukungavumelani rhoqo nabahlobo. Kwakhona banentlupheko yokungakwazi ukuqonda imiphumo yexesha elide lokuziphatha kwabo.
Gxininisa ekufundiseni ubomi bakho bomntwana, njengendlela yokuhlamba izitya, kunye nezakhono zentlalo, njengendlela yokubulisa umntu omtsha. Khangela ixesha lokufundela kwaye uphendule iimpazamo zomntwana ekufundeni amathuba.
I-Tween idinga ingqwalasela efanelekileyo ekuqinisekiseni ukuziphatha kwabo okuhle ngeli xesha elibuhlungu. Bahlala bezuza kwiinkqubo zemivuzo, ngokukodwa inkqubo yecandelo loqoqosho . Inkqubo yoqoqosho lweedokethi inokunciphisa imizabalazo yamandla kwaye inike izihluthulelo ezongezelelweyo ukuba ziphathe ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwabaselula (13 nangaphezulu)
Iintshukumo zihlala zifana nokucinga ukuba zibadala, kodwa zisasafuna uncedo ukwenza izigqibo eziphilileyo. Yilungiselele ukujongana neendidi ezahlukeneyo ezinokuthi zingene njengoko uzama ukuzimisela ukuba ngubani.
Kuqhelekile ukuba intsha itshintshe amaqela asekuhlaleni okanye uvavanye izitayela ze-styles ezintsha okanye izambatho zokugqoka njengoko zizama ukuzazisi. Ukuvukela okuncinci kuyinto eqhelekileyo njengoko intsha ihlala ifuna ukubonisa abazali bayo ukuba banokulawula ubomi babo.
Iintsana kufuneka ziphuculise ukuzithiba xa kuziwa ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo okanye ukwenza imisebenzi yabo yenziwe ngexesha. Basenokuhlala benomdla kwaye abanye bengenakuthobela kunye nokungahloneli .
Abaselula abaselula banokuzuza kwiinkqubo zoqoqosho lweedokethi kwaye kufuneka balahlekelwe ngamalungelo okungaziphathi kakuhle. Ukuxazulula iingxaki ngokuqhelekileyo kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nokuziphatha kakubi kwabaselula. Xa nje umntwana wakho ehlala phantsi kwephahla lakho, kubalulekile ukubeka imithetho ecacileyo kwaye ulandele imiphumo.
Iingxaki zoLungiso lweeNtetho kwi-Children of All Ages
Iingxaki zokuziphatha ezincinane zihlala ziqwalaselwa ngokwenza utshintsho oluthile kwiinkqubo zakho zokuziphatha. Khangela iindlela zokwenza uqeqesho luphumelele . Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ubeka umzanyana wakho umbane ngenxa yokungayifumani umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo, zama ukunikela umphumo omuhle owenza ukuba enze umsebenzi wakhe.
Iingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha zifuna uncedo lwezakhono. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, okanye izicwangciso zakho zokuziphatha azisebenzi, khuluma nodokotela wengane yakho.
Ugqirha unokukunceda uqonde ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuqhelekileyo okanye ukuba ukuthunyelwa kwingcali kuyadingeka. Uvavanyo olubanzi lunokuba luyimfuneko ukuncedisa umntwana wakho ekubuyiseleni kwindlela.
> Imithombo:
> Gleason MM, Goldson E, Yogman MW, Ukubhekiselele kwiingxaki zobomi kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha kwabantwana, i-Pediatrics, ngoNovemba 2016
> Healthchildren.org. Ukuziphatha koMntwana oqhelekileyo. Ukuhlaziywa ngoNovemba 2015.