Banike izakhono ukwenza izigqibo ezintle
Ingaba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukufumana umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo okanye ukuba ukhohliwe isidlo sasemini, izakhono ezintle zokuxazulula iingxaki zibalulekileyo ekuncedeni ukulawula ubomi bakhe.
Uphando lwe-2010 olupapashwe kwiCandelo loChando noPhando lufumene ukuba abantwana abangenazo izakhono zokuxazulula iingxaki banokubeka ingozi enkulu yokudandatheka nokuzibulala. Ukongezelela, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba ukufundisa izakhono zokulungisa iingxaki zengxaki kunokuphucula impilo yengqondo .
Unokuqala ukufundisa izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki ngexesha lokusesikolweni kwaye uncede umntwana wakho aphucule izakhono zakhe esikolweni esiphakeme nangaphezulu.
Izizathu Zezingane Zifuna Ingxaki-Ukuxazulula Izingane
Abantwana bajamelana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo imihla ngemihla, ukusuka ekubunzima kwezemfundo ukuya kwiingxaki kwibala lemidlalo. Sekunjalo, bambalwa babo banomlinganiselo wokusombulula ezo ngxaki.
Abantwana abangenazo izakhono zokuxazulula iingxaki banokuphepha ukuthatha inyathelo xa bejamelene nengxaki. Esikhundleni sokubeka amandla abo ekuxazululeni ingxaki, bangatyala ixesha labo ekukhuseleni imbambano. Yingakho abantwana abaninzi bewela esikolweni okanye bazama ukugcina ubuhlobo.
Amanye abantwana abangenazo iingxaki zokuxazulula iingxaki baqalisa ukusebenza ngaphandle kokubona ukukhetha kwabo. Umntwana unokutshitshisa oontanga onqamle phambi kwakhe kumgca kuba akaqinisekanga ukuba yintoni enye enokuyenza.
Okanye, unokuhamba ngaphandle kweklasi xa ehlaselwa ngenxa yokuba akanakucinga ngezinye iindlela zokumisa.
Ezi zigqibo ezinokubangela ukuba zidale iingxaki ezinokuthi zidale iingxaki ezinkulu nakwixesha elide.
Fundisa abantwana Indlela yokuvavanya ingxaki
Abantwana abaziva bexakekile okanye bangathembekanga kaninzi abayi kuzama ukulungisa ingxaki. Kodwa, xa ubapha umgaqo ocacileyo wokuxazulula iingxaki, baya kuziva benokuzithemba xa bekwazi ukuzama.
Nazi iindlela zokusombulula iingxaki:
- Ukuchonga ingxaki . Ukuchaza nje ingxaki ngokukhawuleza kungenza umehluko omkhulu kubantwana abaziva benamathele. Nceda umntwana wakho asho ingxaki, njengaye, "Awunawo umntu odlala naye ekuphumeni," okanye "Awuqinisekanga ukuba kufuneka uthabathe iklasi yezibalo eziphambili."
- Ukuphuhlisa okungenani izicombululo ezinhlanu . Cinga iindlela zokusombulula ingxaki. Gxi ninisa ukuba zonke izisombululo akudingeki ukuba zibe zilungileyo kwiingcamango (ubuncinane kungekhona kweli nqanaba). Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphuhlise isisombululo ukuba unzima ukuza neengcamango. Nangona impendulo engenangqondo okanye ingcamango echanekileyo isisombululo esinokwenzeka. Ingundoqo kukumnceda ukuba abone ukuba ngobuchule obuncinane, unokufumana ezininzi izisombululo.
- Ukuchonga iingxaki kunye neengxaki zesisombululo ngasinye . Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba abone iziphumo ezintle neziphumo ezimbi kwisisombululo ngasinye esinokuzifumanisa.
- Khetha isisombululo. Xa umntwana wakho evavanya iziphumo ezilungileyo nezimbi, mkhuthaze ukuba akhethe isisombululo.
- U vavanyo . Mxelele ukuba uzame isisombululo uze ubone oko kwenzekayo. Ukuba ayisebenzi, unako ukuzama esinye isisombululo ukusuka kwoluhlu aluphumelele kwisibini.
Ziqhelise ukuxazulula iingxaki
Xa kuphakama iingxaki, musa ukukhawuleza ukuxazulula iingxaki zomntwana wakho. Kunoko, mncede ahambe ngamanyathelo okulungisa iingxaki. Isikhokelo sokunikezela xa ufuna uncedo, kodwa mkhuthaze ukuba asombulule iingxaki.
Ukuba akakwazi ukufumana isisombululo, nyathelo kwaye uncede acinge ngezicombululo. Kodwa musa ukumxelela ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba wenzeni.
Xa uhlangabezana nemicimbi yokuziphatha, sebenzisa indlela yokuxazulula ingxaki. Hlala phantsi kunye kwaye uthi, "Ubunzima ukufumana umsebenzi wesikolo okwenziwe kwangoku nje.
Usenokufuna ukunikela ngesiphumo sokuziphatha kakubi, kodwa kucacise ukuba utyalomali ukukhangela isisombululo ukuze akwazi ukuqhuba kangcono ixesha elizayo.
Ungasebenzisa indlela yokuxazulula ingxaki ukuze uncede umntwana wakho abe omeleyo. Ukuba wayelibale ukupakisha ibhola lebhola ekhatywayo, cela, "Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuze siqiniseke ukuba oku kungenzeki kwakhona?" Makhe azame ukuphuhlisa izisombululo ngokwakhe.
Abantwana bavame ukuphuhlisa izisombululo. Ngoko unokuthi, "Ndiya kubhala inqaku kwaye ndiyifake emnyango ukuze ndikhumbule ukuwapakisha ngaphambi kokuba ndihambe," okanye "Ndiza kupakisha isikhwama sam ubusuku kwangaphambili kwaye ndiya kugcina uluhlu lokuhlola ndikhumbuze oko kufuneka ukuba ndihambe esikhwameni sam. "
Nika ininzi yokudumisa xa umntwana wakho esebenzisa izakhono zokulungisa iingxaki.
Vumela iziphumo zendalo
Imiphumo yemvelo ingaphinda ifundise izakhono zokulungisa iingxaki. Ngoko xa kufanelekile, vumela umntwana wakho ukuba abhekane nemiphumo yemvelo yesenzo sakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba ukhuselekile ukwenza njalo.
Umzekelo, vumela umntwana wakho osemncinci achithe yonke imali yakhe ngemizuzu eyi-10 yokuqala epakini yokuzonwabisa ukuba yiloo nto ayifunayo. Emva koko, mvumele ahambe yonke imihla ngaphandle kokuchitha imali.
Oku kungakhokelela kwingxoxo malunga nokuxazulula iingxaki ukumnceda enze ukhetho olungcono ngexesha elizayo. Cinga ngemiphumo engokwemvelo njengomzuzu onokufundiswa ukunceda ukusebenzisana kunye nokuxazulula iingxaki.
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