Funda indlela yokuphendula kunye nendlela yokwazi ukuba ufuna ukufumana uncedo luni lobugcisa
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa ukuziphatha ngokwesondo, kufanelekile ukukhathazeka. Kodwa musani. Ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso sokujongana nokuziphatha kwaye ugqibe ukuba ngaba uya kufuna ukufumana uncedo lwezakhono.
Zifundise NgoPhuhliso Lwezocansi
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekujonganeni nokuziphatha ngokwesondo kubantwana kukuphuhlisa ukuqonda ukuphuhliswa kwesondo .
Nangona kungenjalo ukuba umntu oneminyaka engama-3 ubudala afinyelele phantsi iincindi zakhe, akuqhelekanga ukuba uneminyaka engama-13 ubudala ukuba abonise ukuziphatha okufanayo. Funda malunga nophuhliso olufanelekileyo lwezesondo ukuqinisekisa ukuba ngaba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuqhelekile .
Fundisa ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo
Abantwana abancinci abaziqondi ngcamango malunga nokuthozama kunye nemida ngaphandle kokuba bafundiswe. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba abanonophelo bafundise ukuba zeziphi iziphathamandla ezifanelekileyo kwaye zeziphi iziphathamandla ezingalungile.
Abantwana abancinci kufuneka bafundiswe ngemizimba yabo kunye nemiba ejikeleze ukukhupha okukhuselekileyo. Bamele banikwe ulwazi malunga nendlela yokuphendula xa umntu ezama ukuwachaphazela ngendlela ebenza bazive bengakhululekile. Banike ngolwazi ukuze bancede bahlale bekhuselekile.
Abantwana kufuneka banikezelwe ulwazi olufanelekileyo kwiqela labo leminyaka. Umzekelo, xa umntu oneminyaka emi-5 ebuza apho iintsana zivela khona, ungamniki zonke iinkcukacha.
Kunoko, phendula ngolwazi olufanelekileyo kumntwana wakho.
Abantwana abakhulileyo kufuneka banikwe iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo malunga nobulili obuhlukile kunye nosuku lokukhula njengoko bekhula. Kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa umgca ovulekileyo wonxibelelwano ukunceda abantwana bazive bekhululekile bebuza imibuzo baze bafune uncedo xa kuyimfuneko.
Ukuphuhlisa imithetho yasekhaya efundisa imida efanelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, faka umgaqo othi, "Bhuqa iingcango ezivaliweyo uze ulinde impendulo ngaphambi kokungena," okanye "Umntu omnye kwindawo yokuhlamba ngexesha."
Ukuphendula kwisimo esingathandekiyo sesondo
Xa kukho ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga ngokwesondo, kubalulekile ukuphendula ngendlela engeyiyohlazo . Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uneminyaka engama-4 ubudala ufike phantsi kwebhulukhwe zakhe ngelixa usesevenkile, mkhumbuze ukuba akufanelekanga ukwenza njalo kuluntu. Mfundise ngokumahluko phakathi kokuziphatha kwangasese kunye noluntu.
Phendula ngokuzinzileyo uze ugweme ukusebenzisa amagama anokuhlazisa umntanakho njengaye, "ungathandeki" okanye "ungenangxaki." Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlazekile, unokuziva ngathi akafanele akhulume nawe ukuba unemibuzo ezayo malunga nocansi okanye umzimba wakhe.
Khangela iMpawu zoMxwayiso zeNgxaki enkulu
Khangela iimpawu zokulumkisa ukuba ukuziphatha ngesondo kunokubonisa ubungxaki obunzulu okanye kunokufuna ukungenelela kwengcali. Iimpawu ezinokubakho izilumkiso zingabandakanya:
- Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo okungenakuphuhliswa kakuhle- Umzekelo, umntu oneminyaka engama-12 ubudala ezama ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke endlwini ayihamba kakuhle.
- Ukuziphatha ngokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo - Akunakulungele ukuziphatha ngokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo, njengokuba umntwana ezama ukukholisa omnye umntwana ukuba ahlanganyele kwisenzo socansi ngokusongela okanye ukusebenzisa ulwaphulo.
- Ukuziphatha okubambisene ngesondo - Ukuba umntwana ugxininisa ixesha elininzi kunye nombane kwisenzo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo, njengenjongo yokuzama ukubukela umntakwenkqonkqo, ibhendi ebomvu.
- Indlela yokuziphatha engaphenduliyo ukuziphatha - Ukuba uye waziphatha ngokufanelekileyo ngokuziphatha ngokwesondo kodwa iyaqhubeka eyenzekayo, kufuneka ibe yimbangela yokukhathazeka.
- Ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo okuphazamisa ubomi bomntwana - Ukuba ukuziphatha kuphazamisa ubungane, njengokuba umntwana engavunyelwanga kwakhona endlwini yomngane ngenxa yokuzama ukukhupha ibhulukwe lomhlobo wakhe ngokuphindaphindiweyo, yingxaki. Kwakhona ingxaki xa ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kuphazamisa isikolo kunye nemfundo yomntwana wakho.
- Ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini ebonisa ulwazi oluvuthiweyo ngesondo - Luphawu olubomvu xa abantwana benolwazi oluvuthiweyo lwezenzo zesondo kwaye benza ngokolo lwazi. Umzekelo, umntu oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala akafanelekanga ukuxelisa umntu omdala wesondo kunye nomntwana oneminyaka engama-8 akufanele azame ukufikelela kwimifanekiso engamanyala.
Izizathu zokuziphatha ngesondo
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuziphatha ngokungafanelekanga ngokwesondo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bayabonisa ukuziphatha ngokwesini ngenxa yokuba abaqondi ukuba akufanelekile. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba ngumqondiso wenkinga enkulu.
Abantwana abachazwe kwisiqulatho sesondo banokubonakalisa ukuziphatha ngokwesondo. Ngamanye amaxesha iimpawu zokuziphatha ngesondo ziyisibonakaliso sokuthi umntwana usenokuba waxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Nangona kunjalo, akusikho konke ukuziphatha ngokwesondo okubangelwa ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwesondo. Abantwana abonakaliswe kwiTV okanye ii-movie ezingenakuphuhliswa kakuhle zingaqalisa ukwenza umxholo wesini. Abantwana bangabonakaliswa kwimifanekiso eqingqiweyo kwi-intanethi okanye xa bexoxa nge-intanethi.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bayaboniswa kwisiqulatho sesondo ngabaontanga babo. Izingane ezindala ebhasi zingachaza amahlaya angafanelekanga okanye abantwana banokuziva abaontanga bexoxa ngezinto ezibonakalayo ezibonwe.
Funa Uncedo loLuntu xa ufuna
Funa uncedo lwezakhono kwiingxaki zokuziphatha ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho. Thetha ugqirha wengane yakho okanye ingcali yengqondo yengqondo ukuze uxubushe iingxaki zakho kwaye unqume ukuba nayiphi na inkqubo yesenzo ingafuneka. Ingcali ingaqhuba uvavanyo kwaye yenza iingcebiso zonyango ukujongana neengxaki zokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
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