Ukuba umntanakho uye wakhula umkhwa wokudlala kunye nomnxeba wakhe, unokukhathazeka ukuba ingaqhelekanga. Ngaba kufuneka wenze nantoni na? Ukuthintela naziphi na iingxaki zonyango, nangona kunjalo, oku kuziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye akufanele ukhathazeke ngako. Funda malunga nokuba ukhangele kwaye ungenza ntoni.
Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kubafana
Ukuthintela, ukutshitshisa okanye ukukhwela kwindawo yesini nje ngumsebenzi oqhelekileyo kubafana abaneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-6.
Bamele bahlaziye izidalwa zabo zofuzo ukuze bathuthuzele okanye banciphise itchki. Ekuhambeni kokukwenza oku, abancinci bangathatha isikhashana baze baqonde ukuba uziva unonwabo. Baya kuba nolwazi olubanzi malunga nezilungiso zabo zemvelo. Abenayo loo fayili kwindawo ewaxelela ukuba ayifanelekanga ukuchukumisa ipenisi yakho nayiphi na ixesha xa umtshutshiso uxabela. Njengomncinci okanye oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, umntwana usemncinci kakhulu ukuba aqale ukuqiniswa okwangoku.
Ingane yakho inokuba isetyenziselwa ukukhwela. Xa utshintshela kwi-onesie / i-jumper uhlobo lweengubo kwiinkwenkwezi ezinkulu zengubo, iimpahla ezinqabileyo zithe gqithisa okanye zitholakala ngaphantsi kwezinto zentsana. Oku kungakhokelela ekuhloliseni ngakumbi kunye nesidingo sokulungiswa.
UkuPhathwa kweMicimbi yezeMpilo
Okokuqala, lawula nayiphi na imicimbi yonyango njengemeko ye-dermatological, intsholongwane yefungal, okanye esinye isifo. Khangela iimpawu ezibonakalayo zangaphandle njengentlungu, iingxaki zokucoca, i-skin flaky kwindawo, ubomvu, ukuvuvukala, ukuphuma kwamanzi, okanye ukukhutshwa kwesikhumba okwakungekho ngaphambili.
Ukuba kukho nayiphi na impawu zikhoyo ngoko ubone umboneleli wakho wezempilo ngokukhawuleza.
Ukutshatyalaliswa komzimba kunye nokucaphuka kuqhelekileyo kubafana, ngakumbi xa bembethe i-diapers kwimozulu eshushu. Unokufuna ukusebenzisa la maqhinga:
- Fumana ulungelelwano olufanelekileyo lwe-diaper. Iidrafers eziqine kakhulu ziyakucasula kodwa i-diapers ekhululekile ingaba yinto embi njengoko ivumela ukuqhubana okuqhubekayo kumntwana osemncinci, onomdla wokutshiza.
- Sitshintsha i-diaper ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukwenzela ukuba izitho zangasese zingabambeleli kwi-diapers yakhe.
- Ukuba uqaphela ukunamathela kwi-diaper okanye i-scrotum kunye ne-penis kunye kunye, sebenzisa umkhiqizo onjenge-Monistat Chafing Powder Powder-Gel ukukhusela oku kutshintshwa. Faka isicelo kwishintsho ngasinye se-diaper, ngokukodwa kwimozulu eshushu.
- Makugijime behamba behamba behamba behamba behamba ngeenxa zonke. Ukuba uyaphawula ukudlala kwepenisi encinci, mhlawumbi ukuba i-diapers okanye izambatho zakhe zenza umkhwa wakhe.
- Qinisekisa ukuba izibhanqa zakhe zikhululekile ukuthuthuzela.
- Cinga ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi xa umntwana wakho ekulungele.
Yintoni Ongayenzayo?
Ukuba uyenza yonke ixesha okanye ungathanda ukuba angayenzeli esidlangalaleni, unokwenza ntoni? Musa ukubiza ingqalelo kakhulu kuyo. Sebenzisa u-redirection, umnike enye into enokuyenza ngezandla zakhe (njengentonti okanye incwadi). Mcele ukuba enze into ngezandla zakhe ngemibuzo enje, "Ude kangakanani na?" "Ndibonise ukuba inkulu ikati yintoni," "Phawula uphawu lokuyeka," okanye "Ndiphe ezintlanu eziphezulu."
Xa sele ephuma kwi-diapers okanye uqaphele ukuba wenza njengento yokuzihlaziya, unokufuna ukuqala ukuguqula indlela yakhe yokuziphatha. Qala ukuthetha ngamaxesha afanelekileyo kunye neendawo zokuthintela loo nxalenye yomzimba wakho. Phantse bonke abafana bafuna loo ntetho ngethuba elithile.
Kufuneka bafunde ukwenza utshintsho ngaphandle kokuba nabani na ukuba bafunde kwaye kufuneka bafunde ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nendawo yokukhwabanisa.
Abanye abazali bathi baxelelwe ukuba ukudlala ne-penis kuyona nto ibonakaliso yokuqala ye-autism. Qiniseka ukuba ayilwelwa ngolu hlobo ngcali. Naluphina uhambo olulodwa oluthathwa lucala xa umntwana wakho ekhula ngokuqhelekileyo akufanele alahleke nge-autism.
> Umthombo:
> Ukunyanzelisa ngokwesondo kwiBantwana abaselula, Yintoni eqhelekileyo, Yintoni engekho? I-American Academy yePediatrics. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/preschool/Pages/Sexual-Behaviors-Young-Children.aspx