Ncedisa Intsha Yakho Yokufunda Le Skill ngaphambi kokuba Iphume
Kungenxa yokuba umntanakho ujika 18 akuthethi ukuba ulungele ukuphuma endlwini kwaye ahlale yedwa. Ngaphandle kokuba umfundise izakhono zobomi eziyimfuneko ukuhlala kwihlabathi lenene, kunethuba elihle ukuba uzakuzabalazela ukuba azimele.
Enyanisweni, abaninzi abatsha baya kuba ' abantwana bebhoomang ' kuba abanalo ubomi bokuphila. Bazama ukufumana ngaphandle koxhaswa ngemali, ngokwenyama nangokomzwelo yabazali babo.
Nantsi izakhono zobomi ezisisiseko ezifunekayo zokufumana ukuzimela kubazali bazo:
1. Izakhono zoLuntu
Ungacingi ukuba nje ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho owenzayo esikolweni uya kuba nako ukwenza umsebenzi. Imithetho yabasebenzi ihluke kakhulu kwii-high school. Iintswelo kufuneka zikwazi ukugqiba isicelo somsebenzi, ukuya kwintetho yodliwano-ndlebe, kwaye ulandele imiyalelo yomphathi.
Umsebenzi wexeshana ngexesha lesikolweni esiphakeme okanye umsebenzi wehlobo usemlungiselele wakho umntwana ukuba asebenze kwikamva elizayo. Ukongezelela, ukunikezela imisebenzi kunye nemithwalo yemfanelo rhoqo ekhaya kunokulungiselela umntwana wakho osemsebenzini.
2. Izakhono zoThutho
Kungenxa yokuba i-teen yakho inelayisenisi yokushayela ayithethi ukuba unayo izakhono zokuhamba. Iintswelo kufuneka zikwazi ukufumana ukusuka kwinqanaba A ukuya kutsho B. Oku kuthetha ukuba uyazi indlela yokuhamba ngeeyure zokukhawuleza okanye ukuqonda indlela yokusebenzisa i-GPS.
Kakade ke, akubona bonke abaselula abaziyo ukuqhuba okanye ukuqhuba ilayisenisi yokuqhuba.
Kuloo matyala, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho aqonde indlela yokusebenzisa izithuthi zikawonkewonke.
Kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho ufune ukuhamba ngomsebenzi, okanye uceba ukushiya urhulumente ukuya ekolishi, ukwazi ukuba indlela yokuhamba kwisixeko esingaqhelekanga kubalulekile.
3. Iinjongo zokubeka izakhono
ingaba umntwana wakho ufuna ukulahlekelwa isisindo okanye unomdla ekusebenzeni indlela yakhe phezulu kwinqanaba leenkampani, izakhono zokubeka iinjongo zibalulekile.
Fundisa wakho umntwana ukuba useke umgomo. Emva koko, thetha malunga nendlela oza kuthatha inyathelo ukufikelela ezi njongo. Intombazana owaziyo ukulandelela inkqubela yakhe inokuthi ihlale ishukumisekile.
Sebenza kwizakhono zokubeka iinjongo rhoqo. Nceda umntwana wakho abone into enye afuna ukuyifumana aze amncede ekwenzeni kwenzeke. Ngomgomo ngamnye omtsha afikelela kuwo, uya kuzuza ukuzithemba ekukwazi ukufikelela kwiinjongo eziphambili kwixesha elizayo.
4. Uphuhliso lwezakhono zoLwazi
Zonke izakhono zemfundo okanye isakhono sezemidlalo kwihlabathi ziza kufumana umntwana wakho kude kakhulu ebomini. Kubalulekile ukuba intsha ikwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo.
Emva kwakho konke, ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukulawula ulaka lwakhe, akayi kuthatha ngokufanelekileyo ukulungiswa. Okanye, ukuba akakwazi ukujamelana nokuxhalaba, akanakuze akhuphe ngaphandle kwendawo yakhe yokuthuthuzela.
Fundisa umntanakho indlela yokujongana neemvakalelo ezingenakukhathazeka ngendlela ephilileyo. Emva kwexesha, uya kuzuza ukuzithemba ngokwazi kwakhe ukwenza izinto ezinzima.
5. Ikhono lokujongana noxinzelelo
Xa iqela lakho lijongene nexakeka, akuyi kubakho ixesha lokuba bacinge. Ngako oko, abazali abayimfuneko bathabatha ixesha lokufundisa abafana babo ukuba bajongane njani neengxaki xa behlala ekhaya.
Umlilo wokugcoba, ukulimala kakhulu, okanye iintlekele zemvelo zizinto ezimbalwa zezoxakeka ukuba umntwana wakho oza kuhlangana naye ngenye indlela.
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba wenzeni xa amandla ephuma okanye iindonga zeefowuni ziphantsi. Abantwana abakhulile iteknoloji badla ngokulibala ukuba ngexesha loxakeka lokwenene, ii-electronics azihlali zikhona.
6. Ulawulo oluSiseko lwaseMakhaya
Ngelixa unokuba ulingeke ukuba uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba akhuphe ikhonkco xa kuziwa kwimisebenzi, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho azi indlela yokuphatha indlu. Ingaba uhlala kwindawo egumbini lokulala okanye uhlawula indlu, uya kufuneka azi ezinye izakhono ezisisiseko.
Fundisa isakhono sakho sokulungiselela isilwanyana esisisiseko. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukwenza njani ukulungiswa okulula - kunye nokuba nini ukubiza uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
Ukongezelela, ungamthumeli ngendlela yakhe ade azi indlela yokuhlamba impahla yakhe kwaye ahlambulule indlu yokuhlambela.
7. Izakhono zezeMali
Esinye sezakhono ezibaluleke kakhulu oza kufundisa wakho umntwana ukuba njani ukuphatha imali. Ngelishwa, abaninzi abatsha bashiya indlu bengenalo ingqalelo indlela yokwenza uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali okanye indlela yokulinganisela i-checkbook. Kwaye abaninzi babo bafumana amawaka eedola kwiityala ngaphandle kwexesha.
Sebenzisa ixesha lokufundisa yakho isakhono solawulo lwezemali oluyisiseko. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi malunga neengozi zekhadi lesikweletu kunye nokubaluleka kokutyalo-mali. Ukufundisa ezo zakhono kusenokwenzeka ukuba ungenza umehluko omkhulu kumgangatho wobomi bomntwana wakho.
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