Baziwa njengabantwana boomoto - abo bahamba ngaphandle kwe-18 kuphela ukuba babuyele kumama noyise kwindlu embalwa emva koko xa bexhaswe ngemali. Kwiintsapho ezininzi, ukuxhaswa ngumntwana omdala kuthatha umthwalo wemvakalelo kunye nemali.
Kule minyaka engamashumi amane edlulileyo kukho ukwanda okuthe gqolo kodwa okunyanisekileyo kwabaselula abasuka ekhaya. Ngo-2012, i-36% yabaselula abaneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-31 bahlala emakhaya abo abazali, ngokwe-survey ye-Pew Research Centre ka-2012.
Ukuba ungathandabuzeki uya kuba ngumtshatsheli wakho osemtsha ehlala embhedeni wakho de ube ngowama-30, thabathe amanyathelo okumkhuthaza ukuba ashiye isidleke - kwaye ahlale apho. Namanyathelo alithoba ongayithatha ngoku ukunciphisa amathuba okuba umntwana wakho uya kubuyela ekhaya kamva:
1. Vumela Intsha Yakho Yenze Iziphoso
Iintswelo zidinga amathuba okwenza iimpazamo ngelixa zisaphila phantsi kwephahla lakho. Ukuba uhamba ngemisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla, uya kulahlwa ngamathuba okufunda abalulekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, imiphumo yemigudu iyasebenza njengomfundisi ongcono.
2. Fundisa iZakhono zoLawulo lweMali
Isizathu esikhulu esikhulu sabaselula basuka ekhaya ngenxa yeengxaki zemali. Qala ukufundisa izinto ezisisiseko zemali ngexesha elincinane. Bonisa umntanakho indlela yokuseka uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali kwaye umnike ithuba elininzi lokuzithengela iimpahla kunye nokuhlawula ukuzizonwabisa kwisabelo-mali.
3. Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ngeentyala
Uninzi lwabantu abadala abasayikuqonda ukulungiswa kwetyala.
Umxholo othi 'uthenge ngoku uhlawule kamva' uyabaqhatha kubaninzi abaneminyaka eyi-18, nangona 'bengenayo imali yokuhlawula iibhili. Xoxa nomntwana wakho malunga neengozi zetyala kwaye qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba inzala ephezulu inokuyingozi njani kwimali.
4. Nika izikhokelo malunga neenjongo zakho zexesha elizayo
Nangona ulutsha lufuna ukhetho malunga nokusebenza kwabo kwikamva, kubalulekile ukubonelela ngesikhokelo.
Umntwana okhulayo ofuna ukunyamekela ngokukodwa ityala kwi-degree yeklasi ye-college, unokuchitha ixesha elikhulu lokuphila kwakhe omdala ukuhlawula imali. Ukubonelela ngemfundo eninzi kunye nezikhokelo malunga nokukhetha kwezinto eziphathelene nomsebenzi.
5. Fundisa Ingxaki Yakho Yengxaki-Ukulungisa Iikhono
Izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki ezinokunceda intsha yakho ifumane isicwangciso sokujongana nemiba yezindlu, ukuthutha kunye nomsebenzi ngaphandle kokubuyela ekhaya. Ukufundisa ngentsapho yakho indlela yokulungisa iingxaki ngokuzimela.
6. Nceda intsha yakho ifunde indlela yokuseka ubudlelwane obuhle
Ulwalamano olubi, nokuba luhlobo okanye ulwalamano olusondeleyo, lunokubangela ukuba kuninzi ukuphazamiseka nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunokubangela ukuba umntwana ahambe ekhaya. Nceda intsha yakho ifunde ukuqonda izibonakaliso zetyala okanye iiflegi ezibomvu ezibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane abuphilile.
7. Ukufaka i-Healthy Ethics Ethics
Ukufakela umsebenzi onempilo ngokunikezela imisebenzi eyenza ufundise umthwalo kwaye uyimhlawulela isabelo somsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle. Xa umntwana wakho ekhulile anele ngokwaneleyo, mncede afumane umsebenzi. Ncedeni ukuba abone iingenelo zomsebenzi ngoko uya kuhlala eqhutyelwa ukufumana ubomi njengomntu omdala.
8. Fundisa iZakhono zoBomi bakho beNtsha
Iintswelo zifuna ukwazi iintlobo zezakhono zobomi , ukususela kwindlela yokwenza imisebenzi yendlela yokuhlalisana ngayo nabantu abatsha.
Thatha ixesha lokufundisa ngentsholongwane yakho izakhono eziza kufuneka ziphile ngokuzimela. Ungalibali ukujonga izakhono ezisisiseko, njengokusebenzisa i-etiquette yefowuni kunye nokujongana ne-envelopes, ezidla ukuphosa ngexesha le-digital.
9. Yenza Ukulindela Kwakho Kucace
Ukuba umntwana wakho ucinga ukuba kuyinto evamile ukuba athathe imali enkulu yemali mboleko kwaye ahambe ngokukodwa ngetyala lekhadi lesikweletu, unokucinga ukuba kulungile ukubuyela ekhaya. Yenza iimfuno zakho zicacise iminyaka ngaphambili. Tshela umntwana wakho ulindele ukuba abe yimali kunye nokuzimeleyo ngokomoya. Xa eyazi ukuba ulindele ukuba asebenze umsebenzi, ahlawule iibhokhwe zakhe, aze ahlawule irente yakhe, akunakwenzeka ukuba abuyele ekhaya.