Nangona umsebenzi olandelayo emva kwesikolweni ubonakala njengesiko esihlonishwa ngexesha, inani labaselula abaye bawa phantsi kwiminyaka yamuva. Ukuncipha kwabasebenzi abasakhulayo kungabangelwa ngenxa yobunzima abaninzi abatsha abafumana umsebenzi.
Abanye abatsha banokuthi baphume ekusebenzeni ngelixa esikolweni esiphakeme kuba iishedyuli sele zikhulile. Phakathi kweenkqubo zemidlalo kunye neeyure ezinde zifunda, kusenokungabi naso ixesha elide lokufumana umsebenzi wexeshana.
Nangona kukho ezinye izinto ezinokuthi zisebenze ngexesha lokufunda esikolweni esiphakamileyo, uphando lubonisa ukuba kukho ezinye iingxaki. Ngokucacileyo, umsebenzi olandelayo emva kokufunda awuyi kusebenza kubo bonke abatsha.
Ukuba ucinga ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba angene emsebenzini, kufuneka uqikelele ingozi kunye neenzuzo.
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Umsebenzi olandelayo emva kokufunda unokuba luncedo kubantu abatsha. Nazi ezinye zezona zinzuzo ezinkulu ezingenakho ukufumana:
- Izakhono zemali . Ngenkxaso evela kuwe, i-paycheck ingaba nethuba lokuba umntwana wakho afunde indlela yokuphatha kakuhle iimali. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athathe uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali ukuze asebenzise ukugcina izinto ezinkulu zetikiti.
- Ukuqonda kwixesha elizayo lomsebenzi . Umsebenzi omhle unokunika ingqiqo yakho ebalulekileyo kwinto afuna ukuyenza emva kwesikolo esiphakeme. Unokufumana ukuba uyakuthanda ukusebenzisana nabantu okanye unokugqiba isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukumnika ishishini. Ukuba akukho nanye into, umsebenzi wexeshana unika ithuba lakho lomsebenzi onokubaluleka ukuba angabhala kwiimfuno zomsebenzi ezizayo.
- Isixa esingaphakathi ukungena enkingeni . Ukuba i-adolescents yakho ihamba ngokuthe ngqo ukusuka esikolweni ukuya emsebenzini, iyanciphisa inani lexesha elikhululekile elifunekayo lokuzibandakanya eziphatheni ezinobungozi. Akayi kuba nzima xa umqeshwa ehlala exakekile.
- Izakhono zobomi . Umsebenzi ungabangela ukuzithemba nokuzimela kwintombazana yakho. Ukuba usebenza nabathengi, unokumfundisa indlela yokusingatha imeko ezinzima nokuphucula izakhono zakhe zokunxibelelana.
- Izakhono zomsebenzi . Umsebenzi olandelayo emva kwesikolweni uza kunceda umntwana wakho athole izakhono zomsebenzi-njengendlela yokugqiba isicelo somsebenzi, indlela yokusebenza kakuhle ngendlebe nodliwano-ndlebe kunye nendlela yokusebenzela umphathi.
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Kukho nakwezinye iingozi zobutsha abajongene nazo xa beqeshwe. Nazi ezinye zeengxaki ezinkulu ekusebenzeni emva kwesikolo:
- Isikhathi esincinane sokufunda. Uphando lubonisa ukuba abafundi abasebenza ngaphezulu kweeyure ezingama-20 ngeveki banamanani angaphantsi kwebakala kunabantwana abasebenza iiyure ezili-10 okanye ngaphantsi kweveki. Umntwana wakho usemva kufuneka ahlale emva ukugqiba umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo okanye angafaka umlinganiselo omncinane kwisikolo xa eqeshwe.
- Ukuphazamiseka komsebenzi . Ukusebenza kumqeshi ongekho phantsi okanye umphathi wesifundo angakhange afundiswe angenza umntwana wakho acinge ngempembelelo yengqesho. Ngelishwa, uphando lubonisa ukuba intsha ingaba ngamaxhoba okuhlukunyezwa ngokwesini xa iqeshwa.
- Amathuba alahlekileyo . Ukuba unyanzelekile ukuba usebenze utshintsho kunokususa esikolweni "samava." Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwiqela lezemidlalo, umdlalo weedrama okanye umsebenzi wokuzithandela ukuba unomsebenzi wesikhashana.
- Uxinzelelo olungakumbi . Ukusebenza iiyure ezininzi kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho agxininiswe. Injongo yomsebenzi ukunika umntwana inkululeko encinane ngokufumana imali yakhe. Ukuba akaze abe nexesha lokuchitha loo mali ezonwabisa, yintoni na into?
- Ukongeza umngcipheko wokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi . Izifundo zibonisa abantwana abasebenzayo ngokwenene banomngcipheko wokusela utywala okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi. Imali ethe xaxa yokuchitha imali kunye neembopheleleko ezongezelelweyo kunokubangela ukuba abatsha bathathe ukhetho olubi.
Ukugqiba ukuba uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba athole umsebenzi akusiyo isigqibo omele uyenze. Ukuba ungowomcingo, khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aqale ngomsebenzi wehlobo . Umsebenzi wehlobo awuyi kuphazamisa isikolo kwaye unokugcina umntwana wakho ehlala exakekile kwiinyanga zasehlobo. Ukuba umsebenzi wehlobo uhamba kakuhle, wakho umntwana usemlungele ukusebenza kumnyaka wesikolo.
> Imithombo:
> Greene KM, abasebenzi J. Intsha yokuqeshwa kunye nokulungela umsebenzi. Izikhokelo ezintsha zoPhuhliso loLutsha . 2012; 2012 (134): 23-31.
> Mortimer JT. IiNzuzo kunye neengozi zengqesho ye-Adolescent. UmNophisi woKhusela . 2010; 17 (2): 8-11.