Iingcamango zokujongana neentlebo kunye namahemuhemu esikolweni
Nangona abantwana bakho bezama ukuhlala kude nomdlalo esikolweni, akuqinisekisi ukuba abaxhatshazwayo okanye bathetha amantombazana abayi kubajolisa ngokuhleba kunye namahemuhemu. Ngelishwa, xa kuziwa ngamahlebezi kunye nokuhleba, bonke abatsha basengozini, ngakumbi xa abantu besasaza amahemuhemu bezabalazela umona okanye bafuna ukuziphindisela.
Ingakumbi, iithagethi zokuhleba ziyakutshintsha ngesaziso somzuzu.
Ngenye imini abantwana bayathetha malunga nabani owenze ntoni kunye nomzuzwana olandelayo, ngumntwana wakho ojoliswe kuyo. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ulungele indlela yokusingatha le meko. Ukujongana neemeko ngokukhawuleza kwaye ukuhlangabezana neendlela eziphilileyo kunokuthintela intlungu eninzi ekupheleni.
Ngoko, umntwana wakho kufuneka asebenze njani ngamahlebezi kunye nokuhleba ngendlela engayi kuyenza imeko ibe yimbi? Nangona zonke iziganeko zihluke, zimbalwa iingcamango malunga nendlela onokumnceda ngayo umntwana wakho ukuba akwazi ukujamelana neentlebo kunye namahemuhemu.
Khangela apho ivela khona kwaye kutheni.
Ukuqaphela ukuba ngubani owaqala i-rumor unokukhawuleza isizathu sokuba kwenzeke ntoni. Ingaba i-rumor yayenzelwe ukulimaza umntwana wakho okanye ngaba yimeko nje yeengcaciso ezingalunganga? Ngaba umntu ukuhleba okanye ukusabalalisa amahemuhemu enomnqweno wokugxotha umntwana wakho kunye nokwenza abanye bavukele? Le ngcaciso ibalulekile ukwazi ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho asabele kwi-rumor.
Ngokomzekelo, kulula ukuba kucacise ityala lokungaxeli kakuhle kunokuba liphendule kwintlanzi yobudlelwane . Ukuqokelela ulwazi oluthile lenkcazelo luza kukuxelela ukuba yeyiphi inyathelo ekufuneka uyenze ngokulandelayo.
Gwema ukuhlala ngamahlebezi.
Nangona oku kudla ngokulula kunokuba kwenziwe, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho angahlali kwizinto ezithethwa ngaye.
Ukukhanyisa ngeentlebo kunye namahemuhemu kuya kwenza umntwana wakho azive engakumbi. Kunoko, zama ukunceda umntwana wakho ugxilise kwezinye izinto. Mngenelele kwimisebenzi engaphandle okanye cwangcisa uhambo oluncinane-khetha into eya kumkhumbuza ingxoxo. Kwakhona ingcinga efanelekileyo yokuphepha i-media yoluntu kwithuba elithile, ingakumbi ukuba yiyo apho iindlebe zisasazeka khona. Nangona le nto yinto enzima ukuba intsha iyenze, kwaye mhlawumbi banokuba bathi bafuna ukwazi oko abanye bathethayo, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuba angayifunde inkohlakalo enomntu othile.
Jonga ngeempawu zoxinzelelo lwengqondo.
Khumbula, kungekhona zonke iifana ezinokukwazi ukuzityhila kunye kwaye ulindele ukuba ukuhleka kufe. Namahemuhemu amancinci, ukuhleka kunye nokubiza amagama kungathatha umonakalo omkhulu kumntwana wakho. Qiniseka ukuba ubukele iimpawu zokudakumba , ukuxhalaba, imeko echaphazelekayo kunye neengcinga zokuzibulala . Nangona iimpawu ezinobungqina zeemeko ezinzulu ezifana nokutya , ukulimaza kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengxaki emva kokudandatheka akufaneleki. Yenza umntwana wakho axhumane nomcebisi onokumnceda ukuba ahlangabezane neemvakalelo zakhe ezimbi. Yaye qi ni sekise ukubonelela indawo yokuhlala ekhaya ngokuphulaphula, ukukhuthaza nokuva novelwano. Nangona umntwana wakho ubonakala ehle ekhaya, lihlala liluvo oluhle ukubonelela umcimbi ukuba ahlanganyele iimvakalelo zakhe.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ongcono kakhulu ukuzithengela umntu ongenaso impembelelo kwimeko.
Melana nesifiso sokwenza okanye ukuphindezela.
Xa abantu bebonke, kunzima ukuziva bexakekile kwaye basabele ngeendlela ezimbi. Kodwa nje ngezinye iintlobo zokuxhatshazwa , kwenza kube nzima xa abantwana bevuza imizamo yokuxhaphaza ngokubangela ukukhungatheka. Kwakhona kuyalinga ukuba abantwana baphendule ngohlobo lobuxoki kunye neentlebo zabo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba angaziphindiseli kodwa ukuba athathe indawo ephezulu. Abanye abantwana baye bafumanisa ukuba kunceda ukuguqula imeko kunye nokwenza into enhle ebusweni bobubungqina ababufumanayo.
Yenza ngokukhawuleza ngeentengiso ze-intanethi.
Xa abantwana basebenzisa i-Intanethi ukusasaza iindlebe kunye nokuhleka, qiniseka ukuba ugcina iikopi zokusebenzisana. Bika ulwazi esikolweni sakho somntwana. Abaninzi bathi ngoku banemithetho kwindawo evumela izikolo ukuba zijongane kakubi kweendaba zoluntu. Ukongezelela, ukuhleka kunye neendlebe akukhawulelwanga kwiindawo zentlalo ngaphandle kweeyure zesikolo. Bayihlunga kwiindawo zokuhlala zesikolo. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ulungele ukujongana neentlebo kunye namahemuhemu njengokuba uza kujongana ne-cyberbullying .
Ukunciphisa amathuba okuba kuya kwenzeka kwakhona.
Khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bacinge malunga noko bakufundile ukuba bahlelwe ngamava kunye neentlebo . Kwakhona, uxinzelelo olufunekayo ukuba bakhumbule oko bathethayo kwabanye kubandakanya oko bafaka khona kwi-intanethi, kwimilayezo yombhalo nakwi-imeyile. Yonke le ngcaciso ingasetyenziselwa ukudala amahlebezi ngabo. Cacisa ukuba ulwazi oluthile lwabucala olwenza uluntu, ezinye iimpembelelo ziya kuba nazo. Ngoko bafanele baqaphele ngokubhekiselele kubo.
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Ngokuqinisekileyo indlela eyona ndlela intsha yakho yokuthintela ukuba yintetho yesikolo kukuthatha amanyathelo okulawula iimpendulo zabo kwi-intanethi. Bamele bakhuthele kakhulu ngokucoca kunye nokubeka esweni abo babeka kwi-intanethi. Kwaye ukuba bafumana amahlebezi kunye neentlebo esikolweni, qiniseka ukuba abaphendulanga kuphela kwiindlela eziphilileyo kodwa bazikhathalele ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.