Iingcamango zabazali malunga nendlela yokujongana ne-cyberbullying
Njengoko i-media media iba yindlela ekhethekileyo yokunxibelelana kwabaselula, kukho ukunyuka okuphawulekayo kwinani leengxelo ze-cyberbullying zichazwe. Kwaye mhlawumbi kuninzi okuya kubizwa. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi indlela yokuphendula kwiziganeko zokuxhatshazwa kwe- intanethi . Nangona yonke imeko ihluke kakhulu, inceda ukuba ube nezikhokelo eziqhelekileyo malunga nendlela yokusingatha i-cyberbullying, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufumane umntwana wakho endleleni yokulwa noxhatshazo .
Nazi izinto eziphambili wena nomntwana wakho enokuzenza xa wakho umntwana ejongene ne-cyberbullying.
Musa ukuphendula . Myalela umntwana wakho ukuba indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana ne-cyberbullying kukungaziboni izithuba, izimvo, itekisi kunye neefowuni. Nangona kunzima ukugwema ukuphendula into engeyinyani, kungcono ukuyeka nokubika isiganeko kumzali okanye umntu omdala othembekileyo endaweni yoko. Ukuxinezeleka kubantwana bakho ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba amazwi abuhlungu kangakanani, ayifanele ayifake impendulo. Ii- cyberbullies zifuna ukuphendula. Qiniseka ukuba abantwana bakho bayazi ukuba banike omnye. Umba ukhululeke kakhulu ukuba ungapheli xa kungekho mpendulo ekujoliswe kuyo. Khumbula, ukuphendula kuphela kuvumela imeko ukuba ikhule.
Phrinta kwaye ugcine iikopi zazo zonke i-cyberbullying . Gcina yonke imilayezo, izimvo kunye nezithuba njengobungqina. Oku kubandakanya i-imeyile, izithuba zeblogi, izithuba zeendaba zoluntu, iifayile, imiyalezo yombhalo kunye njalo. Nangona umntwana wakho wokuqala unokususa yonke into, umkhumbuze ukuba ngaphandle kobubungqina obunakho ubungqina bokuba u-cyberbullying.
Emva kokuba uhlanganiselwe ubungqina kwaye uthetha nesikolo kunye namapolisa, kufuneka ukwazi ukususa amazwana. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuba izithuba zibandakanya ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okuqukethe ubunqunu, oku kufuneka kususwe. Ukugcina okanye ukushicilela imifanekiso yomntwana ongaphantsi komntwana kubangelwa i-pornography yabantwana kwaye kunokubangela isenzo somthetho malunga nawe nomntwana wakho.
Bika isiganeko ngokukhawuleza kwaye uvumele amapolisa ukuba agcine ubungqina. Musa ukugcina iikopi zaso nasiphi na izithuba zesini.
Bika i-cyberbullying kumcebisi wakho wesikolo okanye inqununu. Ukuxela ezi ziganeko kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba ukuqhutyelwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka kwiindawo zesikolo. Kodwa nangona oko kwenzeka kwiindawo zesikolo, ezinye iivumela ukuba izikolo zivunyelwe ukuba zongenelele, ingakumbi ukususela kwi-cyberbullying nezinye iintlobo zokuxhatshazwa ziya kungena ngaphakathi kwisakhiwo esikolweni ngexesha elithile. Okona, nangona ukuqhutyelwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka kwi-campus, abafundi baya kuqhubeka bexubusha esikolweni.
Ngokomzekelo, amaxesha amaninzi abantwana baya kufunda izithuba kwi-Facebook okanye kwi-Instagram. Besebenzisa le ngcaciso njengemibutho ukubandakanya ukuxhatshazwa okongezelelweyo esikolweni kuquka ukubiza igama , ukunyanzelana kunye nokuxoshwa . Xa ubika ingxelo nge-cyberbullying kwisikolo, faka ikopi yee-tweets, imiyalezo yombhalo, izithuba okanye enye incwadi yeefayile zazo. Qinisekisa ukugcina ikopi yakho. Ukuba isithili sakho esikolweni asikwazi okanye singathandi ukuphendula kwi-cyberbullying, cinga ukuqhagamshelana namapolisa ukuba ufake ingxelo.
Bika i-cyberbullying kwiindawo zezobuntu kunye noMboneleli weNkonzo ye-intanethi (ISP). Xa ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka kwiakhawunti yakho yomntwana okanye kwenzeka ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba uthumele iikopi ze-cyberbullying kwi-ISP yakho.
Kwaye ukuba ukuqhutyelwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka kwindawo yezobuntu, qiniseka ukuba uya kubaxelela kwakhona. Iinjongo ezifana ne-Instagram, i-Facebook kunye ne- Twitter ziza kuphanda iingxelo ze-cyberbullying, ngakumbi xa zibandakanya encinane. Nangona i-cyberbullying engaziwa okanye ivela phantsi kwe-akhawunti yefake, kufuneka uyixele. Amaninzi amaninzi, i-ISP, kunye namapolisa, iyakwazi ukulandelela phantsi ngubani othumela okanye othumela imiyalezo. Khumbula, umntwanakho akadingeki ukuba abeke ukuxhomekeka kwe-cyberbullying. Ngamaxesha amaninzi, i-cyberbully iya kushiya indlela ecacileyo yobungqina bokuba ukuba kunikwe ingxelo kumagosa afanelekileyo kunokuhamba ngendlela ende ekupheleni kwayo.
Qhagamshelana namapolisa ngokukhawuleza malunga naluphi na isongelo. Izisongelo zokufa, ukusongelwa kobundlobongela, izibonakaliso zokutshatyalaliswa kunye neziphakamiso zokuzibulala kufuneka zixelwe ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneka uphinde uxele nayiphi na intshutshiso eqhubekayo ngexesha elide kunye naluphi na unxibelelwano olubandakanya ukuhlukunyezwa ngokusekelwe kubuhlanga, inkolo okanye ukukhubazeka. Amapolisa aya kulungisa ezi ziganeko.
Nciphisa unxibelelwano . Ukukhansela ii-akhawunti zangoku zentlalo zentlalo kubandakanya i-Twitter, Instagram kunye ne-Facebook kunye ne-akhawunti entsha. Ukuba ukuqhutyelwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka ngefowuni, tshintsha inombolo yeselula yomntwana kwaye uthole inombolo engabhalwanga. Emva koko, thintela i-cyberbully kumasayithi omnxibelelwano omtsha womntu, ii-akhawunti ze-imeyile, umyalezo osheshayo kunye neefowuni. Isitshixo kukukwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuba i-cyberbully iqhagamshelane nomntwana wakho.
Qaphela imiphumo ye-cyberbullying . Abantwana abaxhomekeke kwi-cyberbullied bafumana iziphumo ezahlukahlukeneyo kuquka yonke into yokuziva bexakekile kwaye bexhatshazwa ukuba bazive bexinekile baze bazibulale. Qaphela kakhulu imiphumo ye-cyberbullying kwaye ungesabi ukufumana uncedo oluyidingayo ukuze uphilise. Jonga utshintsho ekuphatheni kwaye uqhagamshelane imihla ngemihla nomntwana wakho. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuphazamisa umntwana wakho kumajelo asekuhlaleni. Yenza okuthile okuzonwabisa kunye okanye ukhuthaze umntwana wakho ukuba athathe umdlalo omtsha. Inqakrazo ukulungisa ingqalelo yakhe kwinto abanye abakutshoyo nokwenzayo.
Funa ucebisi kunye nenkxaso . Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying yinkinga enkulu engafanele iphathwe yodwa. Qiniseka ukuba ujikeleze umntwana wakho kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho abancedisayo. Khumbula, kunceda ukuthetha nomntu malunga nento eyenzekayo. Cinga ukufumana umcebisi weengcali ukunceda umntwana wakho aphilise. Kwakhona kufuneka ukuba umntwana wakho ahlolwe ngumphathi wezonyango, ingakumbi xa uqaphela utshintsho kwimvakalelo, imikhuba yokulala okanye yokutya. Kwabafundi beekholeji abaye baxhaswa nge-cyberbullied kufuneka bafumane ngaphandle.
Yeka ukuthatha iteknoloji . Kuqhelekile ukuba abazali bafune ukuphelisa oko kuphazamisa umntwana wabo. Kwaye kubazali abaninzi, impendulo enengqiqo kubonakala ukuba iyisusa ifowuni kunye nekhompyutha. Kodwa, ukuba intsha, oku kudla ngoku kuthetha ukunqumla uxhulumaniso kunye nehlabathi labo lonke. Iifowuni zazo kunye neikhompyutheni zazo zizona ndlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthetha nabo. Ukuba loo ndlela yokunxibelelana isusiwe, banokuziva behlangene kwaye banqunywe kwihlabathi labo. Oku kunokunyanzela iimvakalelo zodwa kunye nokuzihlukanisa. Kunoko, ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba abuyele kwimeko ngokutshintsha ukuziphatha kwe-intanethi , ukubeka imida kunye nokukhawulela ixesha kwi-intanethi.
Khumbula, uphando lubonisile ukuba abaninzi abantwana abakuchazi ukuxhatshazwa kuba besaba ukulahlekelwa ifowuni okanye ikhompyutha. Endaweni yoko, khumbula ukuba akuyiyo iteknoloji ephazamisayo umntwana wakho, kodwa umntu ngomnye ukuphela kwetheknoloji. Qinisekisa abantwana bakho ukuba abayi kulahlekelwa ifowuni yabo xa bexela i-cyberbullying. Emva koko, gcina izithembiso zakho.