Bawo, ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba uzuza ubunzima kunye nokukhulelwa komlingani wakho? Ngaba uziva uziva unzima kumaxesha athile omhla? Ngaba uye waziva utshintsho? Ngaba ubonile ukunyuka kwindleko yokwenza izinto eziphathekayo? Emva koko unokufumana iimpawu zokukhulelwa, ezibizwa ngokuba yi-Couvade Syndrome.
Yintoni I-Couvade Syndrome?
I-Couvade ivela kwigama lesiFrentshi elithi couvee elisentsingiselo elisentsingiselo ethi "ukukhahlela." Kuye kwathetha indoda ephethe "ukukhulelwa." Ewe, oku kuthetha ukuba iqabane lakho lingaqala ukuhlamba, ukuzuza ubunzima, kwaye luninzi "oluvuyo" oluhambisana nokukhulelwa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimpawu zokukhulelwa ziqala ekupheleni kwekota yokuqala kwaye zanda ngokukhawuleza ukuya kutsho kwi-trimester yesithathu. Ukuphela kwonyango eyaziwayo yokukhusela kukuzalwa.
Ukungabaza iiNtloko
Abanye abantu bayathandabuza into yokuba isifo se-couvade syndrome. La mabhinqa athi ukufumana ubunzima obuthathwe ngubawo bubangelwa kukutya komama, amaxhala, okanye ezinye iinguqulelo zokukhulelwa ezenza ebomini bomntu. Ukuhlanza? Ngokuqinisekileyo, oko kuthethwa ngamathambo, kwakhona.
Yintoni aba bathetha ngayo ngale nto? Abazi ukuba bacinga ntoni ngokuhlanza, ukuzuza ubunzima, kunye nokutshintsha kwinqweno yesondo. Unokuxelela njani wonke umntu emsebenzini ukuba udinga ukulala phantsi ngenxa yokugula kwasekuseni ?!
Kwaye, ke, bayayeka ukuhlanza xa benako.
Uphando malunga nokukhulelwa komonde
Le nto yenzelwe uphando kwaye ifumaneke ukuba yinyani. Amanye amadoda atholakala ekukhunjweni kunabanye. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba wena kunye nomlingane wakho nibone ukungabi nentsholongwane okanye ukuba wamukelwa, unokufumana ithuba lokufumana isifo se-couvade syndrome.
Akukho phando oluqhubekayo kweli nqanaba kunye nabalingani bobulili obufanayo, kodwa oko kunokutshintsha kwikamva.
Inyaniso mhlawumbi asiyi kubona uphando oluninzi kwesi sihloko ngokubanzi ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo kubandakanya ukuba ingathatyathwa ngokungqongqo ngabantu abaninzi. Maxa wambi amaqabane abanobu bunzima bengazange baqaphele - bacinga ukuba ziqhelekile okanye bacinga ukuba akuhambelani nokukhulelwa nonke. (Kude kube nini unomkhuhlane?)
Ngoko, bantu, niyazi ukuba awunedwa kwaye ukuba uluntu lonyango luyakusixhasa. Yidla abanye abaphangi, baphume ebhedini ngokukhawuleza, niphuze itiye le-ginger, kwaye nizame ukufumana ixesha lokuphumla kwaye niyazi ukuba ukuzalwa kulungile kumbindi. Ungavumi ukuba umntu ahlekise wena xa uthe ufumana isisindo kwaye mhlawumbi ufumane iimpahla ezintsha ngenxa yokuba uye wavala abanye.
Ngokwenene, konke onokukwenza kukunyanga iimpawu ngoncedo lonyango lwakho. Oku kunokuba luncedo kwabanye abantu. Abantu abaninzi baya kuziva bebe bhetele xa ukhulelwe, okwakusoloko kukhululekile ukufumana abantu kubantu.
> Imithombo:
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