Khangela ukuba indlela yokusebenzisa i-cyberbullying inokuchaphazela njani amaxhoba
Ukuxhatshazwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kwendabuko okanye ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying, kubangele uxinzelelo lwengqondo nangokwengqondo. Enyanisweni, njengawo nawuphi na umxhoba wokuxhatshazwa , abantwana abane-cyberbullied banenkxalabo, ukwesaba, ukuxinezeleka, kunye nokuzithoba. Kananjalo banokujongana nokuzithoba, ukuvavanya iimpawu zomzimba, nokulwa nemfundo.
Kodwa iithagethi ze-cyberbullying nazo zifumana nemiphumo ekhethekileyo kunye neemvakalelo ezimbi. Nazi ezinye iimvakalelo eziqhelekileyo ze-cyberbullied teens kunye nama-tween ahlala eva.
Ndiziva ndixakekile . Ukujoliswa yi-cyberbullies kukutyumza ngakumbi xa abaninzi abantwana bethatha inxaxheba ekuxhatshazweni. Unokuziva ngezinye iinkhathi njengehlabathi lonke liyazi ukuba kwenzekani. Ngamanye amaxesha uxinzelelo lokujongana ne-cyberbullying kunokubangela ukuba abantwana bazive ngathi imeko ingaphezulu.
Ndiziva ndikhuselekileyo kwaye ndingenamandla . Amaxhoba e-cyberbullying athoba nzima ukuziva ukhuselekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kungenxa yokuba ukuxhatshazwa kungahlasela ikhaya labo ngekhompyutheni okanye kwifowuni nganoma naluphi na imini. Abasenayo indawo apho bangabaleka khona. Kwixhoba, livakalelwa kukuba ukuxhatshazwa kuyo yonke indawo. Ukongezelela, kuba abaxhatshazo bangakwazi ukungaziwa, oku kunokunyusa ukuvakalelwa. Abantwana abajoliswe kuyo ababaziyo ukuba ngubani owenza intlungu-nangona ezinye i-cyberbullies zikhetha abantu abazi .
Ndiziva ndivezwe kwaye ndihlaziswa . Ngenxa yokuba i- cyberbullying iyabonakala kwi-intanethi, ukuxhatshazwa kwe-intanethi kuvakalelwa ngonaphakade. Abantwana bayazi ukuba xa kukho into ephumayo, iya kuhlala ikhona. Xa kuqhutyelwa i-cyberbullying, izithuba ezimbi, imiyalezo okanye iitekisi zinokwabelwana nabantu abaninzi. Umthamo omkhulu wabantu owaziyo malunga nokuxhatshazwa kunokukhokelela kwimvakalelo enzulu yokuthotywa.
Baziva benganeliseki ngabo . Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying kudlalwa kukuhlaselwa a maxhoba apho bahlala besengozini. Ngenxa yoko, iithagethi ze-cyberbullying ziqala ukungaqiniseki ukuba zibalulekile kwaye zixabiseke. Bangasabela kwiimvakalelo ngokuzilimaza ngandlela-thile. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba intombazana ibizwa ngokuba yioli, inokuqala ukutya okuphazamisayo kunye nenkolelo yokuba ukuba uyatshintsha indlela ekhangeleka ngayo ukuxhatshazwa kuyo. Amanye amaxesha amaxhoba aya kuzama ukutshintsha into ethile malunga nokubonakala kwazo okanye isimo sengqondo ukwenzela ukuphepha ukhuseleko olongezelelweyo lwe-cyberbullying.
Yiba nomsindo kwaye uziphindiselele . Maxa wambi amaxhoba e-cyberbullying aya kuba nomsindo malunga noko kwenzeke kubo. Ngenxa yoko, baceba ukuziphindisela baze bahlanganyele ekuphindiseni. Le ndlela inobungozi kuba igcina ivalwe kumjikelezo wexhoba . Kukulungele ukuxolela inkohlakalo kunokuba ufumane.
Ndiziva ndingathandeki ebomini . Xa ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying kuqhubekayo, amaxhoba ahlala eqhagamshelana nehlabathi elibajikelezile ngokwahlukileyo kwabanye. Kwabaninzi, ubomi bunokuziva buphelelwe ithemba kwaye bungenanto. Abalahlekelwa ngumdla kwizinto abaye bazinandipha kwaye bachitha ixesha elincinci bebenzisana nabentsapho kunye nabahlobo. Kwaye kwezinye iimeko uxinzelelo kunye neengcinga zokuzibulala zingangena kuyo. Ukuba ubona utshintsho kwimvakalelo yomntwana wakho, fumana ukuba uhlolwe ngugqirha ngokukhawuleza.
Uziva wedwa kwaye uhlala wedwa . Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying ngezinye iinkhathi kubangela ukuba abantwana bangabandakanywa kwaye bashenxiswe esikolweni. Eli thuba libuhlungu ngakumbi kubahlobo kubalulekile kule minyaka. Xa abantwana bengenabahlobo, oku kunokukhokelela ekuxhatshazweni. Ngaphezu koko, xa kuqhutyelwa i-cyberbullying, abaninzi abantu batusa ukuvala ikhompyutha okanye ukucima ifowuni. Kodwa, ukuba intsha isoloko ithetha ukunqumla uxhulumaniso kunye nehlabathi labo. Iifowuni zazo kunye neikhompyutheni zazo zizona ndlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthetha nabo. Ukuba loo ndlela yokunxibelelana isusiwe, banokuziva behlangene kwaye banqunywe kwihlabathi labo.
Ndiziva ndingathandeki esikolweni . Amaxhoba ama-cyberbullying amaxesha amaninzi anamazinga aphezulu kakhulu okungabikho esikolweni kunabantwana abangenabundlobongela. Basuka esikolweni ukuze baphephe ukujongana nabantwana bexhatshazwa okanye ngenxa yokuba banamahloni baze bahlaziswe yimilayezo eyabelwana ngayo. Amabakala abo ahluphekile ngenxa yokuba bayakufumana nzima ukugxila okanye ukufundisisa ngenxa yokuxhalabisa nokuxinzelela ukuxhaphaza. Kwaye kwezinye iimeko, abantwana baya kuphuma esikolweni okanye balahlekelwe ngumdla ekuqhubekeni kwemfundo emva kwesikolo esiphakeme.
Ndiziva ndixhalabile kwaye nicinezelekile . Amaxhoba e-cyberbullying avame ukuxhalabisa, uxinzelelo kunye nezinye iimeko ezinxulumene noxinzelelo. Oku kwenzeka ngokuyinhloko kuba ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying kususa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba . Ukongeza, uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo lokujongana ne-cyberbullying rhoqo luchukumisa iimvakalelo zabo kunye nolwaneliseko.
Ndigula . Xa abantwana be-cyberbullied, bahlala benamahlunu, ama-stomachache okanye ezinye izifo. Ukuxinezeleka koxhatshazo kungabangela iimeko ezinxulumene noxinzelelo ezifana nezilonda zesisu kunye neemeko zesikhumba. Ukongezelela, abantwana abakwi-cyberbullied banokufumana utshintsho kwimikhuba yokutya njengokuba bewudla okanye badle ukutya. Kwaye iipatheni zabo zokulala zingathinteka. Basenokuba beswele, balale ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo okanye amava ebusuku.
Zivale ukuzibulala . Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying kwandisa umngcipheko wokuzibulala . Abantwana abahlala bexhatshazwa ngabaontanga ngokusebenzisa imiyalezo yombhalo, ukuthumela imiyalezo ngokukhawuleza, iindaba zoluntu kunye nezinye izitishi, ngokuqhelekileyo baqala ukuziva bengenathemba. Basenokuqala ukuzivakalelwa njengendlela ephela yokubalekela intlungu ngokuzibulala. Ngenxa yoko, banokucinga ngokuphelisa ubomi babo ukuze babalekele abo bahlushwa. Ukuba umntwana wakho uqhutywe nge-cyberbullied, musa ukugxotha iimvakalelo zabo. Qinisekisa ukuba uqhagamshelana nsuku zonke, thabatha amanyathelo okukunceda ukuphelisa intlanzi kwaye ugcine iithebhu eziseduze kwiinguqu zokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha. Yenza umntwana wakho ahlolwe ngumphathi wezezinyango zempilo ukuba isaziso naluphi na utshintsho lwabantu.